So gonna keep it short

Lost frame with girl, she hooks up with guy she was banging before me that I originally rejected her for (she threw it in my face)

She gets dude to confront me at local bar. I lift occasionally but am not very imposing (5’10” and like 135). However, I am an experienced martial artist. (BJJ, Muay Thai etc)

Long story short, new dude tries to fight me, ends up losing and in my rage I explain that “this my island and I let you come here”. Not really trying to plate this girl again but would you consider this losing frame or keeping frame?