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Thank you for your input! Do you mind if I DM you for some advice?
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 03:50 PM
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I've lost plenty of women that I actually liked because of that. No worries though, today is a new day.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 08:33 PM
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Ok guys, turns out she didn't block me, she was just on a flight so the message didn't get through until she landed. She replied saying that she doesn't think we are a match romantically and she wishes me the best. I am almost certain we both had a good time during our date. But my lack of communication after our date is what got me in this situation.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 06:46 PM
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I mean yeah this is most likely it. She did mention that she was needy/ the jealous type, so this is probably for the better anyways.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 04:04 PM
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This is great advice. Unfortunately she blocked me. I will just move on now.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 03:46 PM
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Unfortunately she blocked me. It's fine though, I will move on.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 03:45 PM
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I sent her another text just now basically saying, "I'm sorry for my poor communication, I just didn't want to bother you on vacation. I am still interested in seeing you but if you feel otherwise, that is fine. I just want to let you know where I stand"
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 03:27 PM
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Thanks for your input. Do you think I should double message her apologizing? I had a great time with her and I feel like I screwed up.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 03:01 PM
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Asking for a number will never be outdated. Also you have to take in to account that your sister is only 18. She also lacks any dating experience. Btw I am in my early 20s.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 07:37 PM
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So then why even post a rant about it?
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:26 PM
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This post is borderline incel vibes. A random woman online doesn't owe you shit and neither do you. Stop being so emotionally invested in these online girls.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:19 PM
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I lowkey used to be like this too when I was your age. It definitely is a psychological thing. For me experience and time helped and that fear fled away.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 08:46 PM
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Yeah I got that all covered. I have a rapid test today. It's the test that you do yourself and get results back immediately. I guess I was asking more about how receptive she would be to going on a date, given the fact that I had to cancel the first one pretty last minute. Pre-Covid whenever I canceled on a date, the girls were usually never happy about it and I rarely was able to get a second chance. I wonder if this one will be different because of the times we're in.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 07:04 PM
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Yeah, I guess I knew the answer all along.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 07:01 PM
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Your looking for an answer on what you could have done better, but you won't get it here. We would literally be taking a random guess as to why she got up and left. Also your last question, "What should I have done to prevent her from leaving?" sounds sus to me... You don't do anything. Let her leave then hit her up another day and/or move on.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 09:18 PM
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This is due to poor breathing technique during your lifts.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 07:37 PM
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LOL this is definitely what happened
/r/askTRP28/12/20 07:03 PM
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This is such a sad post. Sheep mentality. Also you wrote: " I know that being Asian has its disadvantages " How???? Kids on here love to make excuses for themselves...
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:46 PM
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I am younger than you but this is something my dad tells me all the time. He has very similar experience to you (he is early to mid 50 years old). My dad is an immigrant and came from nothing. He grew our family business and does well for himself and for our family. Every once in a while he asks me about my high school friends and if we still hang out and stuff. I have some high school friends who are doing well for themselves and a few who have no job and still lives with their parents. He alwa…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:33 PM
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First I want to say that I love this post. I have an older brother, but hopefully I can provide you with the perspective of the younger brother. I don't think you should force anything upon him. There's a big difference between forcing and infusing. He is still a teenager and has plenty of time to change. If you force him, he will start pushing away. Forcing him will only blind him from the message you are trying to tell him. Instead, he will resent you and it can hurt your relationship or even …
/r/askTRP18/12/20 06:03 PM
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You don't get the point I'm making. It's not about the what you are texting her. It's the fact that you are texting her to spark a conversation, thus you are trying to reconnect. She knows this. I'm assuming you guys haven't talked in years. So when you text her out of the blue trying to be friendly and stuff, her first instincts are, "What does he want? We haven't talked in years..." And like I said before, I'm not saying she's assuming you want sex from her. But it's obvious that you want some…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 05:41 PM
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If you really don't care about your job then just talk to them...fuck it. Like you said, you don't care about this job anyways. Just don't hit on all of them. They will talk to each other and they will pin you as a creep. Flirt with the girl you are most interested in and ask her out. But be prepared to leave if it doesn't work out.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:59 PM
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You're being a pussy. Just escalate.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:56 PM
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" Don't get me wrong, I'd want to bang her if she was single lol, but maybe being on good terms as a friend could open the doors to having a wider social circle, being known and liked by more people with a positive reputation, and meeting her female friends. " She left you on read because she probably has a feeling that you want something from her (doesn't have to be just sex). You guys lost touch then out of the blue you text her happy birthday and try to spark a conversation? For anyone that's…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:54 PM
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I've had long term plates one of them even stretching to almost 2 years. It honestly really depends on the girl as much as it depends on you. Like any relationship their needs to be equilibrium and communication. All factors need to align perfectly. For my situation: We both were in the same city for university We fucked each other good We only texted each other for logistics We both were straightforward from the start that we weren't looking for relationships. We had little to no drama/jealousy…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:15 PM
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His friend could also be jealous of him. He may think that he will "out shine" him
/r/askTRP15/12/20 09:20 PM
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LOL true, I guess it depends on which city you live in.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 02:23 PM
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This is kind of a tricky one since we are in a middle of a pandemic right now. But I will say that as life progresses the more friendships you fall out of and the more new friends you make. It's only natural. I'm sure you are not the exact same person you were back in your childhood/HS and neither are your friends. Sooner or later, the only thing you'll have in common with them is the fact that you grew up in the same area and went to the same HS, that's it. I think you already answered your que…
/r/askTRP10/12/20 09:16 PM
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NEXT. Why are guys on here so scared of dropping a plate?
/r/askTRP10/12/20 08:38 PM
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Usually once a week. If she is leaving in February, then just try to maximize time spent with her if you got the time. You really got nothing to lose.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:54 PM
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History is good, but not sure it's the best to get a degree in. And to OP, how the hell are we supposed to answer this question when we know nothing about your interest or hobbies
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:01 PM
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I second this^ Creatine doesn't make you fat. It gives the illusion because of the water retention.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 08:59 PM
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9/10 times we are in their frame from the start. Men are the ones approaching and validating women to begin with. However what separates alphas from betas is flipping that frame.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 07:33 PM
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lmaooo
/r/askTRP09/12/20 04:09 PM
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Yup, especially with COVID I feel like more girls are on the apps just for validation and no intent of actually meeting.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 11:18 PM
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Yes timing is the key. Sometimes it is the shit you can not control that will get you laid.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 11:17 PM
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Yeah you can. You hit the nail on the head with, " play and you'll just shoot yourself in the esteem."
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 11:13 PM
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^ This is the winning comment I did a small 10 minute experiment in hopes on enlightening at least one person on here.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 09:59 PM
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hmm..very interesting take. Probably true, but I think a average woman will still get a ton more options than a good looking man. I've seen my friends' (females) Tinder accounts.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 09:51 PM
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The side bar has a "got a stranger pregnant guide". I recommend to read that and apply it to your situation. First thing first, make sure you get a paternity test
/r/askTRP08/12/20 07:30 PM
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I'm no doctor, but it sounds like you have sexual thoughts clouding your mind. So once you relieve yourself, you can finally focus. TBH, this sounds like a band-aid fix rather than a healthy long term solution.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 04:23 PM
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You right, I misread the post. I thought he was defending her but she was claiming that he wasn't or whatever. I'll delete.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 04:20 PM
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This is Steezy Kane: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E95NJS0dLEY He's just a kid that fucks around. The ultimate thing he has is not giving a fuck. He will walk up to random people and just do random shit that most people would find embarrassing. You need to develop the same attitude.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 09:43 PM
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Who cares? 10 minutes in we're already making out.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:25 PM
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Just set it up then? If she was "super loyal" to your sister, then she wouldn't have done it in the first place.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:56 PM
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Yes, been through something similar. Here's my tip: good things are only good in moderation. How about taking a break for a bit? Focus on your purpose and lifting. I think you are fucking just for the sake of fucking. Instead, wait a period of time before hitting your plates up. Only when you are extremely horny. If you love cake and eat cake for breakfast, lunch and dinner, you will eventually get sick of it. Now, if you go on a strict diet and can only eat cake once a month, you will devour th…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:53 PM
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You're supposed to spin plates, not change them.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:52 PM
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You should try pushing through your heels more
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:25 PM
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You obviously don't have a happy life, other wise you wouldn't think so lowly of yourself. So basically you chose short, sad life.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 11:36 PM
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You're an idiot because that is not the point. If a cancer patient came up to you and asked you, "would you rather have terminal cancer?" what would you say? My point is that there will always be someone who has it worse than you. I can literally list 10 on the top of my head. Just because you ask a rhetorical question, which you obviously know the answer to, doesn't make you right. End of the day, it's your body, so your choice. Just don't come back on this sub asking why your still a loser.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 11:12 PM
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You are trying to be her hero. A wise man once said, "Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved." Be honest to her when you leave her. Tell her it would be beneficial for the both of us if we stopped talking. Tell her you are not a professional and you don't have the credibility to help her. Basically what I'm saying is, frame it in a way that by you leaving, it is for her own good.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:58 PM
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If you are dancing or making out w/ a girl at a bar or club, you can literally make up anything to bring her back. There really isn't a special "line" or phrase you can say to convince them to come over. Usually chicks have made up their mind during or before going to the club.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:53 PM
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Everything is closed and the weather is getting shittier. TBH it doesn't hurt to just invite them over to your place.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:48 PM
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I can't wait to see you come back her post-operation still wondering why you can't get pussy.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:45 PM
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lmaoooo you are the same dude that posted earlier. Sure, waste your money on some surgeries. You will realize looks aren't everything. But it sounds like you have to learn the hard way. Good luck.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 08:11 PM
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You're definitely overthinking this. It doesn't sound like she's trying to outright disrespect you. She's borderline testing your frame. Every time she says something sarcastic, you get butthurt and just kick her out? The first time, she comes back crying and apologizing. The more you do this, the sooner she realizes your a beta with a fragile ego. Stop taking her comments so personally. Agree & amplify is the best response. IF it really does get on your nerve, then just ignore.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 08:07 PM
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She's trying to milk your attention and it's working. It's basically a confidence booster for her. What will drive her crazy is this: When you see her in person act stoic. Say hello and then walk away. The most you should do is smirk, but don't smile or look happy to see her. Do not engage in conversation with her. Be social with other people around you. (Other girls would be even better). Most importantly, just have fun at this celebration you and your friends are having.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 06:01 PM
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You may be spending energy on improving yourself, but you are also spending way too much energy on discrediting yourself. And now that I think about it, I'm already spending to much energy trying to convince you otherwise; so this is the last thing im gonna say. Look, every human being on this planet can make a list of 100 reasons why they are not good enough. But what good does that do? Yes, being self aware is good, but only to an extent. Once it starts affecting your confidence and the way yo…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 05:04 PM
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Soft next. Don't initiate unless she brings it up first. After all, she most likely has a STD or is seeing other dudes so this should be easy. When you see her at the celebration, acknowledge her but don't make moves unless she is all over you.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:57 PM
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lol this post is just sad... All this research just to conclude that you are ugly and no girl wants you. Maybe if you spent this energy on actually trying to improve yourself, you would be writing field reports instead of whining on here. You can bring up all the statistics and science you want. We all come from different circumstances. That is life. You play the hand that you are dealt with. You have two options: either fold your hand or go fucking all in.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:39 PM
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She didn't expect to hear that answer. (Which is a good thing) Ask her out next time you see her.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:31 PM
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Triangle, R2, Left, L1, X ,Right, Triangle, Down, Square, L1, L1, L1.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 09:32 PM
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Conservative girls that lived in a strict household are usually sexually repressed in my experience.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 04:29 PM
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It depends. I have some friends that have gray hairs but it's kind of patchy. It only looks good if it's uniformed imo.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 04:17 PM
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shit.. half the people on here aren't even redpilled
/r/askTRP02/12/20 10:51 PM
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wtf..protection?..are you some neanderthal? Only protection you should be worried about is the one around your dick
/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:44 PM
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🤦‍♂️
/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:42 PM
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Are we supposed to read her mind? There can be so many reasons. Why would you just delete her number without at least trying to set up a date? Is your ego that fragile?
/r/askTRP01/12/20 08:12 PM
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Your texting is borderline cringe. I can tell that your faking it just through your messages. You send copy, paste lines from TRP thinking it will get you laid, but you clearly don't have the foundation down yet. TEXT FOR LOGISTICS. You are basically looking for what color paint you want in your bedroom walls, when you don't even have a house first.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 10:41 PM
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This is what I assumed. I've been on a date like this before. Soft next, and move on.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 09:14 PM
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Older or younger brother? How about you ask him for advice? It will help your relationship and you can get some pussy. Win, win.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:50 PM
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"she said that she could only meet up with me for like 1 hr 30 mins " She said this just in case you were a catfish or lame. So she has an excuse to leave the date already. U ended up not being a catfish or too lame so that's why she stayed. You spent 4 hours with her? If I read this correctly, then I think you took too long to make your move and close. Why didn't you invite her over after tea? After a while she was just using you to kill time and run her errands.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:48 PM
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It's simple.. people are more confident behind a screen. That's why you got little kids on reddit talking shit when in reality, they would never do so in person.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:52 PM
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lol i've fucked every asian ethnicity and i never had to "soften things up a bit"
/r/askTRP25/11/20 07:45 PM
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lol u sounds autistic
/r/askTRP25/11/20 07:31 PM
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IMO that is a pretty savage move. I also don't necessarily think her asking you to stay with her till 7AM was a shit test. She probably was scared to wait at a train station all by herself all night. (This also depends what city you are in).
/r/askTRP23/11/20 10:39 PM
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LOL so true. Guy sits in a bar filled with baddies. First instinct: post on asktrp
/r/askTRP23/11/20 08:26 PM
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The daughter is turning 21 right? A good gift that would be a nice (but not to expensive) bottle of wine. Doesn't have to be directly for the daughter, but for the family as a thank you for the invitation. ​ Edit: grammar
/r/askTRP23/11/20 07:33 PM
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Sure it's profound if it's your first time at the gym. This is something I see at every gym I've ever been to.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 10:16 PM
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Nice, you wrote a whole essay explaining water is wet. It's not just women, guys do this too. With those tank tops that is basically a thong for men.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 09:48 PM
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You will never get laid in your town again. Move to a different state
/r/askTRP20/11/20 09:43 PM
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This is the best response on this post
/r/askTRP20/11/20 06:26 PM
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That's a good sign she's a transgender. Originally male turned female. She/he probably just got the operation done. Edit: Happened to me. After a few drinks it helps you forget.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 06:04 PM
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lol you are whining about it though....
/r/askTRP17/11/20 10:21 PM
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lol only option? that's cute
/r/askTRP17/11/20 09:34 PM
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bingo.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:55 PM
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No problem and good luck. Remember, don't put the pussy on the pedestal. That's how you turn into a simp, especially with hotter girls.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:51 PM
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Well so should you. Why do you care she had lots of orbiter or options? She's going on a date with you. Even w hotter chicks you are the prize
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:48 PM
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Probably because you're too focused on maintaining eye contact. On the receiving end it may look like you are trying to stare into their soul. Loosen up your stare and actually listen to what the other person is saying. You can break eye contact every now and then when you are formulating your thoughts or speaking.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:43 PM
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Nothing changes.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:41 PM
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It's just a drivers test. Take it again in a couple weeks. Practice and don't fuck up this time. Stop comparing yourself to others. You will get no where doing this. There will always be someone in a better situation than you. Instead, compare yourself to the person you were yesterday.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:39 PM
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I've heard negative things about Planet Fitness, but it's cheap and you can still get a solid workout in. Who cares if you and your LTR are not in the same gym. It's not like that is the only time you can see her. Now you can focus on going to the gym consistently without having to worry about rushing before closing time. Bringing your dog to the gym is a new one for me. But I'm sure your dog will understand.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 04:30 PM
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This time she started to use word "tentatively" and she used it 2 times. You come off as needy. Everyone here overthinks this shit too much. "O if she reschedules she's not interested, hard next." Like, you plan a date way too early in the week. Shit I don't even plan that far ahead with anything, let alone a date.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 02:56 PM
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Sounds like an easy lay. I've been in this exact position before. My first and only time going to a chicks place for a first time meet up. We were all chilling in the living room, and then SHE actually made an excuse to isolate me to her room. My suggestion would be to listen to her cues. If she doesn't try to isolate, you should.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 02:26 PM
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So you suggest getting their number first, and then set to meet up?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 02:14 PM
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Nah not really. I just game them for the practice. The conversation leads up to them either down for a date or down to meet at my place. I don't have any intentions of meeting up with them.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 02:08 PM
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Nothing changes.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:43 PM
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Send a skating emoji and type "sliding in your DMs"
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:23 PM
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Great points. Definitely will keep your bullet points in mind. Thanks!
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:22 PM
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Brief and to the point. I like it.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:21 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to send over great advice!
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:21 PM
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Quick answer: Make sure she's not the only girl your talking to. Better answer: Sidebar.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 07:17 PM
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Great point. I'll leave an edit on the original post. But you're absolutely right.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 07:15 PM
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Super late reply, but may I ask what city you live in?
/r/askTRP16/11/20 07:04 PM
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Literally overthinking this. She offered to reschedule. Just reschedule to a day and time you both are free. Stop being obsessed for falling into frames and shit. It's so obvious you're just faking it.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:34 PM
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Like what the other comment said, don't shove the pill down his throat. Give him small doses. Don't necessarily point him to this subreddit. It may be shocking to cucks and they will reject it entirely. Feed him small things like self improvement, lifting, working on his hobbies, etc. I've had friends like your friend. Ultimately, you can not help them unless they are open to being helped. Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:28 PM
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Depends what you're arguing about. Something serious? (which I doubt). Something stupid? (probably). Say your point and move on. Matter fact,p you don't even need to say your point. Smile and nod.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:17 PM
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What do you mean, "to me they were a prescribed medication" ? Self-prescribed? Also, don't go crying to everyone saying the drugs you were using were prescribed. Ironically, explaining/excusing your actions makes your drug "problem" an even bigger one due to denial. Like the other comments are asking, are you sober now? Everyone loves a great comeback story.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:14 PM
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lmaooo I'm just imagining you talking to your deaf snake
/r/askTRP13/11/20 08:24 PM
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with a fork and knife
/r/askTRP13/11/20 07:28 PM
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Stop watching porn. If you feel the need to jerk off, try not to use any form of visual stimulation. For example your imagination. I know sounds crazy, but if you are super horny it will work. If it doesn't then you haven't waited long enough.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:00 PM
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You're correct in that anger is an emotion. But like all emotions, there is a time and a place.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:58 PM
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Read the sidebar. Do people think the sidebar is just for decoration?
/r/askTRP13/11/20 04:28 PM
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I'm not sure if you're familiar with 7 stages of grief, but here's a link that explains it better than I can: https://www.thrivetalk.com/7-stages-of-grief/. Hopefully this gives you a little perspective on what your feeling and why your feeling it. This is all normal, especially when dealing with trauma. I don't know your trauma (you don't have to tell me) but you may want to talk to a therapist. TRP is not a guide on how to get over trauma. Deal with the trauma first and then come back to TRP.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 03:07 PM
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I can relate to this, especially the second paragraph. Good share
/r/askTRP13/11/20 02:45 PM
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haha true. Either ways, I can relate to what you are saying. During uni I would make it a goal to get laid as much as possible, have sex every weekend, etc. In hindsight it was definitely for validation. But now that I've graduated and working, my goals have shifted drastically. I actually am working on improving myself. Before I thought I was red pilled because I was sleeping with women and spinning plates. But now I am lifting, starting new hobbies, got a set 5 year plan for my career, etc. I'…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 02:42 PM
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Each stage doesn't have a set period of time. Also it's hard to define the stages of TRP while you are going through it. People relapse or think they've swallowed the pill, but in reality it's stuck in their throat. TRP is all about the journey, not the destination. So don't focus too much on the end result. You can only control the present.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 02:34 PM
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Lol I was confused for a second. I thought the "~26 and up" was age. Now I realize it's probably n count. Now I relate to this even harder. I have an n count around 20-30 (I lost track after 20) and now I am more selective or less 'thirsty'.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 02:26 PM
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I'm only 23 and I've been feeling this way as well. I have been hanging around people a lot older than me, so that could be why..
/r/askTRP13/11/20 02:18 PM
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Facts. Thanks for the correction
/r/askTRP12/11/20 09:18 PM
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Don't outright tell her you don't reciprocate the same feelings for her. Unless she straight up tells you that she is interested in/likes you. If she's asking to hang and stuff just make up excuses as to why you can't hang. COVID is a great excuse nowadays.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 09:17 PM
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I'm in the same boat as you in terms of the dating life scene. Hang in there. Maybe take this time to update/improve your photos? Especially because you are investing into fashion now.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 09:15 PM
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Cold approaches are a struggle. I am more of a night game type of person and the city I live in there is an early curfew and I haven't been going out as much. I've been using dating apps, at first it was a struggle but now I feel a turn around. It may be because my game has changed or COVID restlessness. It's also harder to find things to do/date ideas other than coming over to my place for some drinks. (Which is somewhat scary for girls to do especially for a first date)
/r/askTRP12/11/20 09:12 PM
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I guess it depends on your age and city/country you live in.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:47 PM
5

Do a lot of compound movements when you are not lifting on your arm days. You can easily google compound lifts that incorporate arms. On your arms day, don't focus too much on strength, rather lower the weight and focus on the form and squeezing at the peak of the lift. For example, if you're doing curls, focus on squeezing your biceps at the peak of the curl, and then descend the weight slowly and repeat. Do about 10-12 reps. Lastly, triceps make up 2/3 of your arm. Your bicep is 1/3. So workin…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 05:49 PM
2

I agree with you but it's very situational. For some reason I had a feeling she has high interest so I just shot my shot. She ended up sending me her number...we'll see where it goes from there
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:00 PM
7

I went with something a little different, but ultimately the same message. She sent over her number. Thanks bro
/r/askTRP12/11/20 03:59 PM
9

Maybe the sex was bad. Idk man, you broke 2 rules. You had sex with a "good friend" and she was your coworker. You said she is a socially awkward girl. So she probably doesn't know how to act cuz of the shift in dynamic. Be a man and talk to her about it.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 02:27 PM
1

great advice
/r/askTRP11/11/20 02:10 PM
2

This happened over a year ago, so I don't remember if I asked her if she went to the police. I'm assuming she didn't because she may not have been able to correctly identify the guy. (He was a random dude from a club).
/r/askTRP10/11/20 07:42 PM
1

I second this. He gives great advice and keeps it real.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 07:27 PM
1

No book is better than real life experience. Do you get good shooting a basketball by reading books or do you get good by consistently going to the gym/park and getting shots up? Put down the books and get out there.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 06:08 PM
1

Brothers fight, it is inevitable. Cutting him off will do more harm than good. I'm assuming you love him and care about him, hence why you are writing this post. When things settle, you need to apologize to him and have a conversation with him. Don't apologize only for the sake of getting an apology back. Actually mean it. When arguments with your brother flair up like this it shows emotional immaturity. The only thing you can do is spark a mature conversation. Speak in an even tone. Most import…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:53 PM
1

O shit...I now realize the (+). Yeah ignore everything I said about going outside. Tbh, you may just have to wait this one out. Focus on getting you and your LTR healthy first. Once your results come back negative, then you can do all the outdoor stuff I said. But yeah, set a routine. Humans inherently need a routine so they don't go crazy.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 04:47 PM
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Okay, if she's asking what you are looking for specifically in terms with her. You can say, "Just want to get to know you and see where it goes from there." Just keep in mind, when you are answering the question, keep your answer broad. The broader the response, the more hamster wheeling. Don't take the question too seriously. Be light with it and ambigious.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 04:43 PM
1

Are you that unfuckable and desperate that you need a position of power to sleep with women?
/r/askTRP10/11/20 04:36 PM
1

are you kidding? I really hope you are. Are you planning to same some rapey shit like, "Come to my office hours and suck this dick if you want an A"? Because that is basically what you are saying. People like you give TRP a bad rep. Fuck outta here
/r/askTRP10/11/20 04:34 PM
1

You handled it perfectly. Soft next her. Do not hit her up unless she initiates first.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 04:19 PM
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This could be a sign of your relationship with your LTR. As for things to do...it depends on the city you live in. I'm going to assume you live in a strict city with high cases. Go for a walk outside (get some vitamin D) Find a new hobby that will stimulate your brain/creativity. Try to spice your sex life by trying new things with your LTR Build yourself a schedule. And more importantly, STICK TO IT. Reserve a weekend to do something fun. Get an airbnb with your LTR to a place not too far away.…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 04:16 PM
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Be casual about it. she's asking for some comfort for herself. I usually reply with, "I'm looking to meet new people and see where it goes from there."
/r/askTRP10/11/20 04:06 PM
3

finding your purpose, lift, and explore new hobbies.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:08 PM
1

You can't rescind it. It will make you look even more childish and you will possibly lose her all together. Idk. It depends on what you want. Maybe you can twist it into an open relationship.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:03 PM
1

okay, but I dont see the point of asking her to be in a relationship? You guys were already hanging out and fucking. Plus, you were able to see any other girl you wanted on top of that. You basically just put cuffs on each other now.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 09:54 PM
1

I asked her before our 3 day trip if she would be my gf since I was the one who was paying for all this stuff and felt like the next step needed to be mentioned before a trip like this Such a weird reason to ask a FWB to be your girlfriend. Why are you paying for all the stuff in the first place? She hooked you like a fish. You said it yourself, she would drop sentences in the past hinting on being a couple. You saw the shiny bait and swallowed it like it was your last meal. Now she's reeling yo…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 09:41 PM
1

Solid advice. Thanks for the input!
/r/askTRP09/11/20 07:58 PM
20

wtf..so your name is on the lease, your living at home still paying rent, and your ex is living their and fucking other dudes? Bro... First, grow some balls. Second, no do not allow her to stay in November. Kick her out no matter what it takes...It's YOUR name on the lease.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 07:48 PM
1

Maybe you staring at these men or their girls too long. Idk. Only time I get shoulder checked is if I'm in a crowded area. But that's more understandable.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 06:30 PM
1

Where do you live? Why are random men trying to fight you? Are you looking at them or their girl the wrong way?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 06:16 PM
1

Ahh..I misread the convo. Yeah that is good advice. Soft next.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 02:47 PM
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Did you gain money/status? Did you just hit the gym hard? Did you gain confidence and gmae? Or did you just "accept yourself? and learn that "looks arent everything"? All the above. Everyone used to say Jay-Z was ugly af. Until he became a billionaire and married Beyonce, I don't see anyone calling him ugly now.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 02:33 PM
1

You don't have to be texting everyday. Just carry on with your life but stay in good terms with the girl. If she's ever back you guys can plan to meet up.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 02:30 PM
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If you are tryna see her just set up a date other than Friday. Simple.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 02:21 PM
1

Don't apologize unless she says something first.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 02:20 PM
3

Your jumping subjects too fast. I would've conversated about the hair more. "Mind if I join you" is super weird. No stranger would agree to that. You need to work on simple banter. I suggest going on YouTube and searching up cold approaches. I recommend old Simple Pickup videos. They don't post anymore, but their content is still up. Respect to you tho. You gotta start somewhere and being receptive to feedback like this is going to only help you progress faster. Good luck.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 11:40 PM
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You cure this by fucking other plates.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 08:48 PM
7

ok, have fun eating fat shit.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 08:43 PM
3

You are over thinking. Just go do it.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 08:41 PM
3

DONT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT
/r/askTRP06/11/20 08:38 PM
2

lmao this reminds me of the time I had the same worry. But I made sure to throw out the condom myself. I even when to the bathroom and diluted the cum with water to be extra careful. Can't trust these hoes. DO NOT cave in and fuck her w/o a condom. She is showing way too many red flags.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 07:01 PM
1

Brand doesn't really matter as long as the fit is good. Not too loose, not too tight. I recommend going to h&m, zara, topman, etc. Basically cheap European fashion. I also recommend you go to a tailor for all pants you buy...yes even for your jeans. Also google fashion inspiration for men and find 3-5 looks you like. You can try to find the clothes that resemble the outfits and you can also mix and match different color pallets.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 03:44 PM
4

Are we supposed to read your roommates mind?
/r/askTRP06/11/20 03:31 PM
1

I agree with everyone here, but I also want to provide another perspective. You said she wanted to see you the next day, and then the next day comes and all of a sudden, she's unavailable. It may come across that you are too available for this girl. Back to back dates? Even though she said you are out of her league, you come across as having no other options and she is the only girl you have any interest in. Next time you have to come off as more aloof and unavailable. You are a high alpha male …
/r/askTRP06/11/20 03:24 PM
2

You send special. Why do you care so much? It's only 10 minutes... If your so butthurt about this, how about you give her a time that's 10 minutes the actual time you want to meet? Work smarter, not harder retard Edit: Also it sounds like you are in bed twiddling your thumbs waiting for this chick to come over. Do you not have other shit to do?
/r/askTRP06/11/20 02:47 PM
1

I don't wanna fuck up this young girl mind. You didn't do anything. She's fucking up her own mind.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 02:40 PM
2

I used to be like you. As long as they show up and dtf you are good. No drama, no bs.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 02:33 PM
5

I'm pretty confident texting or calling will not make or break the situation. Her impression of you will mostly be based off how the first date went. I, personally, would text. Here's why: - You call, she doesn't pick up (either she's dodging your call or she genuinely didn't see it)...now what? - If it's the latter, she will most likely text you saying she missed your call and the conversation will inevitably end up via text anyways.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 06:01 PM
1

Hate to break it to you, but u/Swallowing_the_Rpill is right. By your post and replys to comments, it sounds like you've given up rather than "acceptance". Talk to a professional and then come on here for advice. How are we supposed to give you advice on accepting the fact that you will never have a social circle , high paying career, or woman? TRP is all about achieving higher value in yourself so you can get those things.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 05:49 PM
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Sounds like a rejection, but I wouldn't necessarily hard next. You can invite her for a second date but don't expect her to agree to it. If she does accept, then I would do more kino on second date.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 05:43 PM
90

I love the comments on here. There is no strategy on this one. Be a decent human being and be there for her. She obviously opened herself up to you because she trusts and likes you. The least you can do is be there for her emotionally. Fuck cancer.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 03:43 PM
3

lol wtf. Why is this even a question. Are you supposed to "alpha" and never get sick? Just tell her you don't feel good and drop her off. This is basic common knowledge.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 03:40 PM
1

few years back I deleted my social media (I was in college at the time). Definitely a freeing experience. Also I felt my mental health improved because I wasn't constantly comparing my life with my "friends" life I had on my feed. I ultimately am back on social media, but mainly use it to keep in contact with a handful of real friends. We send each other memes and posts and shit. It may be hard, but limit yourself from actually scrolling on the feed. That imo is the toxic part of social media. E…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 03:12 PM
3

Great advice. Being the alpha doesn't mean being able to punch your way out of situations. It's about handling situations in a level-headed manner to your favor.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:58 PM
2

I'm fucking around
/r/askTRP04/11/20 07:39 PM
1

Just doing some math...
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:45 PM
3

Piggy back off this - It's easy to fool people, when they are already fooling themselves.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:39 PM
2

Stop blaming your poor life on things that are out of your control. You will never win with this mentality. There will always be something that you can blame for your problems. It is toxic way of thinking and not productive at all. Shift your energy to improving yourself. Yeah you got dealt a bad hand. Are you going to fold or play?
/r/askTRP04/11/20 04:21 PM
1

I hope your over 28 years old...
/r/askTRP04/11/20 04:02 PM
2

LOL why would you say that
/r/askTRP04/11/20 04:01 PM
2

Very interesting. I will give it a try! Thanks.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 03:37 PM
2

I'm literally the exact same. I never smoke before going out, I get too into my head and I become awkward as well.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 03:31 PM
1

It's not even that mistake. Why are you asking her " When do you gonna go out?". First of all, that's shitty grammar. Secondly, the very nature of you asking that question is putting her in a position to take charge. Because you can't put on your big boy pants and decide what to do for your date, you are asking her. Girls don't want to take lead, they want to be lead. That is why she gave you such an uninterested reply back. She is not shit testing you, you just need to grow a pair and lead. The…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:42 PM
1

Your frame is all over the place. Enjoy this one while you can. She won't be around long
/r/askTRP03/11/20 09:05 PM
9

Yes, charge her.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 07:09 PM
1

You have scarcity mindset. If you are so sure that she is lying to your face, then why are you even hesitating about this? Also who cares if dudes are hitting up her phone your in a fwb.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 04:29 PM
1

She's a plate, not a concubine. She can do whatever she wants. Grow some balls.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 02:35 PM
2

^ this
/r/askTRP03/11/20 02:34 PM
3

Are you talking to a therapist?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:21 PM
2

Yeah sure. There's no correct formula. Text just for logistics.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:01 PM
5

If you really don't care, then stop caring. If she shows up to your crib with sexy lingerie ready to fuck, but she didn't shave, are you going to kick her out the door? You're not going to build your frame through text, especially with a girl you've never met before. This goes for anybody btw. Anyone can act "alpha" through text. Focus on meeting her irl first, then build your frame. IF you build frame properly, fuck her good, etc.. I bet you the next time she sees you again she will shave every…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:32 PM
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Just set it up already. Don't tell a girl what you're going to be doing to her through text. Let the hamster wheel roll in her head. A better reply to "Do you have any kinks" would have been, "Come over and you might find out" (something like that).
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:11 PM
2

^ this
/r/askTRP02/11/20 02:43 PM
0

No relevant at all. Basically this is all pseudo-science. Us humans have natural traits and qualities about us based off gender. However, we live in a civilized society where we made up our own rules, laws, and social behavior.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 10:03 PM
5

When was the last time you had an interaction with a female?
/r/askTRP30/10/20 09:52 PM
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Ask her for Instagram
/r/askTRP30/10/20 09:49 PM
1

No problem. Some of his videos are about spinning plates and getting girls. But you can skip those if you aren't interested in that stuff. His main message on his videos is about being a high value male and pursuing your purpose in life.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 09:45 PM
2

AMS on YouTube. Not only positive, but also funny.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 08:41 PM
1

Red pill is whatever you want it to be. It's only a guideline, not law. Of course there are going to be toxic people in any community. Take it as a grain of salt. I use the red pill for the same reason as you, to focus on my purpose. This community also has a lot of people who took the red pill but haven't swallowed it yet. Therefore they project their insecurities online and towards women.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 08:34 PM
5

Best way to slide in DMs is to reply to one of their stories. It's not too obvious and a good conversation starter.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 05:22 PM
1

The solution is obvious. Before you leave the chick you're talking to, get her number so you can plan a future date or something. Do this for every chick you talk to and bring 1 home with you that night.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 09:32 PM
1

Sure, why not? If you have the time then just keep the chat short (10- 15 mins). Build up rapport with her (this is basically what she is looking for). Also try to set up real plans with her over video chat.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 07:53 PM
1

lmao
/r/askTRP29/10/20 07:49 PM
1

I do all this all the while hiding from girls. I tell myself... I'm not ready, I'm not good enough yet. When I have my life sorted I'll download tinder, Do you see the irony in your post? When it comes to self-improvement, there is NO "good enough". It's all about being a better person than you were the day before. There is no end goal. It's all about the journey. Therefore there is no designated time or moment where you will be "good enough". With that being said you need to relax. Try meditati…
/r/askTRP29/10/20 06:22 PM
1

"She's not yours, it's just your turn" is usually a term used post-breakup. However, it also can be applied here. Don't focus too much on the past, don't focus too much on the future. Most of your energy should be focused on the present. Remember that it is YOUR turn, just enjoy it.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 02:28 PM
2

cheated on me and turned me red pill. You definitely not red pilled yet if you get lonely when you're not in a presence of a chick and still think about your ex. Red pill is about improving yourself and being self-dependent. You don't need to be sleeping with chicks to validate your loneliness. It's okay to feel lonely or down on yourself at times (we are only human) but don't let it consume you. Keep trying to improve yourself and snap out of this state of mind.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 02:02 PM
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Is this highschool, college? Is she in the same class as you? Do you see her on a daily or even weekly basis for school? Basically what I'm saying is, dont shit where you eat. If not, then set up something that doesn't involve school (grabbing food or drinks)...could be anything. Then escalate from there. When you ask, make sure your intent is clear she doesn't go into it thinking it's a friendly hangout and shit.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 03:56 PM
1

Quick question, when you say 3-7 back and forths, does that mean the number of messages you send or the number of messages in total (you and the girl)?
/r/askTRP22/10/20 09:00 PM
1

" your younger self I’m sure was naive and didn’t appreciate the reality of being an employee in corporate America (it sucks.) " Most likely very true. Thanks for the input!
/r/askTRP15/10/20 02:54 PM
2

You hit the nail on the head. Thanks for the advice!
/r/askTRP15/10/20 02:53 PM
3

lmao you got no text game. You're literally trying way too hard. Texting is for logistics only. Short simple responses. I cringed reading that conversation. You most definitely talked your way out of some pussy. Move on to the next girl. Whatever date you come up with next, she will just come up with a new excuse. Edit: You didn't even go on a date yet, and your calling her babe? lol
/r/askTRP14/10/20 08:32 PM
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