I was on 2 dates with this girl from tinder, on first we went for a walk, i did little kino, didn't go for a kiss, because plan was to invite her home on second date and go straight for sex. Two days later, I scheduled second date for tuesday(it was 3 days ahead) but she counteroffered friday (so it was 6 days ahead). I agreed and we met on friday, i cooked for her, she made and brought a cake for me as surprise gift. There was one weird situation, she told me that she was never invited so fast to home on date and that she has to text her friend that she is safe, so she did. During date she received few messages from this friend, but after 1 hour she turned phone to silent mode.

After dinner we started to watch some movie and during that i went for a kiss and attempted further escalation, but when i touched her boobs she gave some bullshit talk "im not ready for sex, i didn't kiss for 6 months". At this moment i didn't have much time to freeze and rescalate, we had to leave because my parents were coming back. (i invited her to my parents house because my flat has renovation). We talked for a while in her car, she thanked me for evening and gave me long kiss with tounge. After 30 minutes she texted me that she is back home, we exchanged few messages and went to sleep.

So i know that many of you would hard next her for no sex after 2 dates, but i felt that relation is developing, and i decided that i want to make 3 date and invite her to my own flat, so i will have more time to push for sex.

When i proposed 3 date for friday 8pm in my flat, she said "ok, tentatively friday is good for me, i will let you know if something changes, but rather it won't". So first 2 dates, scheduling was easy peasy, i could schedule date 3 days ahead, 6 days ahead, and she would only write to me 30 minutes before date "im coming".

This time she started to use word "tentatively" and she used it 2 times. I didn't like this so i said " looks like friday is unsure, maybe let's meet another time". She replied "It's only beginning of week and she doesnt now if something comes up, but she would reschedule in this situation". I replied that "it doesn't make sense to make plans if from starters you assume cancelling as option". She replied "Rescheduling is not cancelling". And i said " anyway, i don't make tentative plans, so let me know if you'll have more certain day to schedule". And she asnwered " hmmn, allright"

I think that i did good, that i didn't accept "tentative arrangment", because she previously didn't behave uncertain like this(looks like im backup now),i didn't want to make precedent. If she doesn't contact me within 7 days (i feel that she won't), i think it's over. I don't feel i should contact her after week or 2 weeks and propose new date. What's your opinion on this situation?