so basically ive been chatting up this new girl post breakup.. been months now but new girl seems to be interested and then lately not receptive to my flirtatious messages. she comes forward to say shes been getting to know someone else during break and that she is confused on what to do because she also wants to get to know me but that she doesnt want to be unfair to both of us. I just responded telling her that it would actually be unfair to herself if she didnt get to know me and long story short she ends up giving me her number, we text a couple times and she again says “ Hey I’m so sorry it’s taken me a while to respond I’m not kidding when I say I’ve been working like all day. But yeah I understand what you’re saying I think I just have to think about it. I would really like to get to know you but idk if now is the right time” I just wanna know what I can say for her to not think im needy or want her like that but rather respond and still be on her mind so that I do end up smashing this girl. any advice?