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First Date

Japilla · 2021-05-11T00:23:42+00:00

Going to embark on the arduous journey of an LTR, any protips or material to brush up on? She used to work at my part time, but got fired a week or two ago so...

Japilla

May 11, 2021

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Title	First Date
Author	Japilla
Upvotes	0
Comments	20
Date	May 11, 2021 12:23 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/n9kcgx/first_date/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/first-date.757800 https://theredarchive.com/post/757800

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I've spun plates in the past, gotten my fair share of poon. I feel like that phase of my life is over. My aim is to gain experience with LTRs so down the line (when I start a family in my 40-somethings) I know how to best manage the LTR and not simply let the plate fall because of some minor inconvenience or behavioral issue that can be worked out. Build-a-Woman sort of thing. Also, my age has nothing to do with the quality of my relationships or frame, all that matters is one's willingness to learn and become better over time. There are 5 year old kids who can play Paganini Concertos and grown adults who don't know what a chord is, age is very arbitrary to the quality of one's skills and knowledge. Who says at the end my self confidence and happiness will be "shattered"? Thats a very pessimistic and dependent-cause outlook. Women are accessory, not the objective. Sure I'll be sad and go drive really fast if it doesn't work out, but at the end of the day it's just another plate that ultimately didn't work out and I'll always have better things to invest my time into.

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