In this day and age it is clear that if you are to do something that breaks from the ‘Norm’ you are going to receive quite a bit of backlash. You’ll get disparaging remarks from ‘friends’, family, coworkers, everyone… and that is A O Fucking K.

Life is short and your's belongs to you not them.

You are a Masculine Man and therefore you disregard what is not useful to you in society and apply the rest. Fuck trying to insert yourself into the cookie cut mold that a weaksauce feminized society has made for you.

Your actions should not be based on how they will be received by others so long as they are within the boundaries of you achieving your goal.

If you want to go out and get in a fight to prove something, go ahead. If you want to burn all of your clothes and start from scratch with a new attire, go ahead. These are drastic, but you get the point. You do what you want and you accept responsibility for those actions.

I believe that your goal should be, as a Married Man, something along the lines of finding joy and tranquility for all members of your family. As /u/IanIronwood points out clearly in his blog post here is that the most proven model for a Marriage to exist with both parties finding the maximum amount of Joy is for you to act like the Confident & Dominant Man you are.

Her joy and tranquility comes from your ability to lead. Your desire to raise your strength, endurance, and aesthetics will also lead to her joy as well as your own (Confidence, stress reduction, etc.). The Joy you'll receive is from her filling her role as a Woman and you getting all the sex you want as she's going to do her damnedest to keep you around.

Understand that a majority of the people you know have no idea of what TRP/MRP is. They aren’t against your group of dudes online nor are they joining the popular movement to ban the users/posts generated on the subs. No, the people in your everyday life exhibit the same resistance to your new behavior because people are all the same.

There are no Dragons (unique dudes) there are no Unicorns (Unique Woman) people are all the same and they do not like you to take actions that challenge the status quo.

If you look at Rollo’s Blog, The Red Pill Room, Chateau Heartiste they have all touched on this in several different ways. The universal agreement, when you take action to improve and own your life it forces others to take an introspective look at themselves and their actions and people don’t like being told they are fucking sheep.

Expect the resistance and enjoy it. Don’t expect anyone to be onboard with your improvements, not even your closest friends. I was reading Letters from a Stoic by Seneca and in one of the letters he discusses ‘Fair Weather Friends’. I think everyone should do an inventory of who they have in their life and reclassify their title. I believe you’ll find several of the ‘friends’ that you have are nothing more than acquaintances;

I don't use the words friend, Love, or sorry very often. The reason being is I don't want to dilute those words. When I do use them, people notice as I reserve it for occasions that truly warrant them. Don't dilute your words, own them and use them as currency give them when they're earned.

To wrap this up, hit the gym, own your shit, read your books, lead your family and embrace the hate that begins to spew from people’s mouths. Find comfort in the discomfort and realize that this is how you should have been living all along.

You are a Man and therefore you must live a Masculine life in order to find joy and tranquility. Fill your role and watch the behavior of everyone, categorize it, and reassess what you’re doing and who you want walking the path with you.

Acta, Non Verba