If there's one advice I can give you guys it's do what you want.

As long as you do what you want, you will be happy and everything will be easier. Don't do things because you're supposed to do things, do them because you want to do them. If you don't want to do it, but feel like you should be doing it because someone else told you to then you're not going to enjoy yourself.

I had 2 dates last week and 3 dates this week and I'm not even happy about them because I'm not really into these girls, except for one of them. I'm going on these dates because I want to work on my skills, but I'm not happy because these are girls who I don't really want.

When you do what you want, your intent shine through. If you open a girl you are attracted to, everything will happen naturally, you won't have to game because she will know you're attracted to her.

Now, there's a difference between not wanting to do things, and being afraid of doing things (approach anxiety, escalation anxiety, etc..). You know you're afraid of something because you wanted to do it, but didn't do it, and then you get instant regret and feel like shit afterwards because you didn't do what you wanted to do.

Today I walked by a cute blonde in the grocery who looked at me, held eye contact with me but I didn't approach her because of a few bullshit rationalizations and I instantly felt like shit. If I could get a date with this cute blonde I would be much happier than the dates I am having this week.

If you don't feel like going out at night, THEN DON'T. If you force yourself to go to out at night when you don't want to, you'll be negative, nothing will happen, and it will depress you more. Go out at night because you WANT to.

How do you know when you want to do it? You don't need MOTIVATION, it's EFFORTLESS. There are people who are driven by PAIN, and there are people who are driven by DESIRE. If you are driven by pain, everything is an uphill battle, you live in a life of shoulds and ought to's, you develop anger and negative feelings towards the goal you are trying to achieve and you require motivation.

However if you are driven by DESIRE, and you do something because it gives you pleasure in life, then everything becomes EFFORTLESS. Opening a girl, hanging out with her and bringing her back to your place is EFFORTLESS. When there is pleasure time flies and everything is easy. When there is pain everything is slow and hard.

LISTEN to your feelings. If a girl makes you feel negative feelings, ABANDON HER. If you don't enjoy being around her, find a girl who enjoys you. Don't game bitches. There are girls who I approached, hooked, escalated on, kissed, etc.. but they were bitches, and everything with them was a hard battle which required game, effort, and I didn't like it.

Then there were girls who I approached, escalated, kissed, but they were amazing girls. Everything with them was easy, effortless, and required NO GAME, and I loved it.

Pick up is fun when do what you want, and pick up is torture when you do what you don't want to do.

LISTEN TO YOUR FEELINGS AND DO WHAT YOU WANT.