Asshole Game | seduction

I was recently at a party and I was teasing this girl that I am interested in lets call her Sara (looking surprised when she had friends and saying "you have friends?"), and suddenly her friend (Susan) brings up that Sara used to be the most popular girl at the university until she was replaced by another girl, we will call her Molly. Susan started telling me about this girl and I was getting this really bitchy vibe from her. So as I was about to leave Susan told me to find Molly on facebook. Not knowing Susans name, I asked if by any chance she might actually be Molly. She said yes, so I told her I didn't think she was too hot. When I left, I heard Susan yell, "Fuck you, you have no filter!"

I made some mistakes along the way in the conversation(saying that I don't add girls on facebook, etc)

Shark on the website Solveallmygirlproblems, said to say whatever and never back pedal after you've said it. My question is did I do the correct thing? How do you do asshole game correctly?

Here is the article I am referring to: http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/2011/06/being-an-asshole/

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I think the two most important parts of this article are as followed:

You have to be able to gauge what level of assholeness is required for maximum vagina turbulence.

When girls act like attention whores, when they flirt with other guys while on a date with you, when they insist on you paying for everything every time, when they shit test you every 15 minutes, and when their egos are comfortably sitting atop a skyscraper, tear them apart.

In my opinion, you off shot the mark of the level of "asshole" (as you want to put it) you needed to be for this situation. I think you confused slightly between "being an asshole" and "being cocky-funny". You are correct that you shouldn't backpedal after saying something, but you also shouldn't get your self into a situation where you need to backpedal.

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[–]Brannus 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes. You probably did fine with the teasing and everything. However, when this girl (Molly) started to brag about being more popular than Sara, you kind of directly insulted her. Now, I'm not exactly sure what you mean by bitchy vibe. Was it directed towards you or Sara? However, normally when you want to disarm a woman's bitch shield, you normally don't directly insult a woman's appearance.

In my opinion, going with "You're not that hot" was a little too direct for this situation. Maybe "Wow you're really full of yourself." Asking Sara, "Is she always like this?" or "Geez, I didn't know I was in the presence of royalty." Both of these you can tease her for taking these statement seriously; you can laugh it off. However, the statement "Yeah, you're not that hot." you would have to sell it harder to not come off as a dick =/

But that is my opinion on this situation. In the end, just take this as a learning experience and recalibrate for the next set you're in. Best of luck to you.

Title	Asshole Game
Author	Future_Alpha
Upvotes	0
Comments	8
Date	January 19, 2013 2:34 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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