So I've been trying to figure out the best method to deal with receiving multiple numbers of the course of each night. My solution was adopted from a user on one of the PUA forums who had a useful solution
Before I get into the method it's useful to understand WHY something like this needs to be done. It's because you need to ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS burn your numbers to the ground and take action whenever you get a girls number
This seems super intuitive, but it was one of my major sticking points when I was first starting out. I'd get a girls number, and I'd get a "high" off of getting the number, and then I would fall into my comfort zone and not push the interaction further. This is also due to my subconscious being pleased with the interaction and not wanting to "ruin it" by putting myself out there and potentially getting rejected
In reality, you need to make sure you push for the meetup as soon as you get a girls number. This allows you to
- push your comfort zone and grow
- gain REFERENCE experience along your learning curve of success with women
Each time I get home after getting a number or set of numbers, I enter in the new girls into a spreadsheet. The columns I'm using are as follows:
- Girl's name in my phone
- Whether or not they texted back the first night (yes/no)
- Action (what to do next)
- Day 2 Progress (this is pretty open ended but I just enter details of her level of interest)
- Day 2 Result
Again, very simple but something I found useful so I don't have to constantly be wondering "when do I text this girl" or "what's the next course of action with x girl, y girl, z girl"
Anyway, hope this was helpful to some of the members on here. If someone has other methods that they use I'd love to hear it!
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