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| 1 | Blue Pill Conspiracy.There is only yourself... (Edit: Your post sounded very charismatic and I felt it would end really well with that) | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/14 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Jason Treu and Brent Smith, dating coaches, join our AMA!How important is fitness and Body Fat % on dating? | /r/seduction | 07/11/13 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Paging /u/TofuTofu on the subject of your kickstarter. Saw this on Facebook today, what does Seddit think?I honestly think it is depressing. This represents a problem with humanity. This is no different than the NSA surveillance, our witch hunt on terrorism, all the conflicts the United States and the world for that matter have gotten into. People far too easily turn to sources they trust for a quick decision on how to feel about a topic. They fail to do any digging, any reading, or even much thinking about the topic. You should not be asking what seddit thinks about the issue. You should read all o… | /r/seduction | 19/06/13 08:24 PM |
| 1 | The Raw Story did an article about Above The Game, and some of the comments are hilariousThis is a real throwback to the book tipping point. About how most people are too lazy to do the research, so they rely on individuals who are typically well informed to make decisions for them. This is why I like to read about everything. I would be embarrassed as hell to join in on mob mentality because of misinformation. This isn't a problem with feminazis or white knights, it is a problem with humanity and it lack of desire for knowledge and truth. | /r/seduction | 19/06/13 08:13 PM |
| 3 | In response to /r/askreddit's recent top post, about shit that girls do to piss off boyfriends.it takes 2 to tango. If a girl ever pulls this, just don't play along. If she gets mad, don't you have 3 other girls you could be hanging out with instead? If you don't then there is a great excuse to hit the town with some of your buddies. | /r/seduction | 19/06/13 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Why Your Text Game Sucksboom, agreed, text game is a like playing baseball while face to face game is like playing football. and the point values remain constant. better to end the baseball game quickly so you can get back to playing football because it is far more lucrative. Sometimes, however, I enjoy playing a game of baseball, and if you are good, you can rack up points playing that game also. but be weary because if you loose either game, you loose. | /r/seduction | 19/06/13 06:45 PM |
| 1 | I am a giant fucking beta pussy, and I hate itWrite down a code to live by that you can be proud of and stick to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/13 06:57 PM |
| 1 | A method that has worked every time for the more illustrious woman.Bird won't quit! | /r/seduction | 11/06/13 08:26 AM |
| 6 | Gordon Ramsey knows how to treat a lady...That was fucking amazing. | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Let's do this, seddit! Help me publish Above The Game.Awwww Yeeeeeeaaaaaaa | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 01:52 AM |
| -1 | Motorcycles. Try one.I took a girl out on her Vespa once, I told her i had no idea what I was doing, and she should teach me. It's that emotional roller coaster that gets them wet. | /r/seduction | 08/05/13 05:06 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Pull at a popular Monday bar in SFOnly the dead can know peace from dat pimpin | /r/seduction | 17/04/13 05:49 AM |
| 1 | How to get over SNL anxiety?Thanks for all the advice, I like how you tackled it from multiple angles. And I do like to get comfortable with girls. Before I started this pickup thing, I only ever had long term girlfriends, and drunken one night stands. Even after starting pickup, my style has been to gather girlfriends rather than just lays. I will essentially date every woman I sleep, growing distant from with some as I grow closer to women I recently meet. and some I even date long term. So being sober while showing my v… | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 11:06 PM |
| 2 | What are your absolute best closing techniques?dear god, I just googled space docking... upvote for you sir, and an upchuck for me! | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 10:46 PM |
| 1 | How to get over SNL anxiety?From a bar mostly, but sometimes from a date, especially if I #-close open her and the date progresses rapidly. I need more comfort, ironically I am also not the best at giving comfort either. | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 01:41 AM |
| 2 | What are your absolute best closing techniques?I call it space docking. | /r/seduction | 12/04/13 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Bay Area Seddit Does North Beach Tomorrow - April 11th - at 9PM. [x-post from r/BayAreaSeddit]Sick, I'm there | /r/seduction | 12/04/13 08:18 PM |
| 13 | What are your absolute best closing techniques?I dunno dude, I prefer using my nose. | /r/seduction | 12/04/13 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Advice to all of you from a bi guyTL;DR Running through the woods with my buddy, stripped naked, took a shit, wiped with leaves, jumped into a rushing stream, swam across it, found a snake, killed it with a rock and ate it. | /r/seduction | 12/04/13 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Advice to all of you from a bi guyBoom, trying to work on this as we speak. Learning to hold a conversation along with being matcho and manly seems to be the key. Every girl wants a huge strong independent man who eats rattlesnakes, kills bears, yet opens up to her, because she is special. Just need to learn how to open up now. | /r/seduction | 11/04/13 01:39 AM |
| 10 | Hamster Central: "he pretty much pressured me into having phone sex with him"I don't know if any of this stuff is something to get mad or frustrated over. These women are the AFCs of the female world. They don't understand the dynamics of social interaction, and because of that are living with numerous emotional problems that detriment their happiness. They have problems finding and keeping fulfilling relationships, and turn to communities of like minded individuals to comfort them, which ends up just circulating bad advice. I feel bad for these women, and I hope they ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/13 12:52 AM |
| 3 | I get scared a lot, so I created a site that will send me stories about fearless leaders twice a week in order to help me become a badass. Think it'll work?Yea, This is my last comment tonight, I'm going to do what ford would have done and do some 11pm work! | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 06:05 AM |
| 3 | Not a matter of if, not a matter of when, I'm cheating.yea, get a good lawyer and end things. Having multiple women is definitely the way to go, but cheating on your wife is risky business. Literally. And make sure you delete or ensconce this comment and anything connecting things like this to yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/13 05:44 AM |
| 1 | How can I become a better conversationalist?haha, conversations are like erections, if you think to much about them they go away. | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 05:36 AM |
| 1 | How can I become a better conversationalist?All these are really good comments. One thing I feel I can add, as I have been practicing this a lot lately is to attempt to hold the conversation for as long as possible, even past the point of becoming uncomfortable, weird, or even awkwardly silent. Like lifting weights you get better much faster when you push your limits. I get better every time, and some of the stuff that comes out to keep the conversation going amazes even myself. (These conversations usually burn bridges with the person, b… | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 05:35 AM |
| 2 | How much $$ is indiscriminate sex worth to you?Yea dude sex is not worth paying out a bunch of money for an apartment. There are always reach arounds (like going back to her place) and they improve your skills with women. Saving money a d taking classes make you a better you permanently, sex is relatively fleeting. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/13 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Confession of a PUAI also am not in your league, but I am starting to feel this as well. What I am trying to do is integrate pickup as a hobby by consciously prioritizing it below other things in my life. Even though all I want to do is go out and meet women and practice game, I am going to try and fake it until I make it. My recent strategy is to make every date I go on something fun for me, regardless of pulling logistics, and then work on the logistics as I go along. about 2 weeks in and I feel I am gaining mor… | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Over the past year and a half... he has been on nearly 100 dates under false pretenses...There are beta tactics and alpha tactics and they all work. Psychologically a woman just wants a man that will produce successful offspring, and pass her genetics. You can offer this by showing you can support the child (beta), or that your genetics are strong enough to support the child (alpha). alphas reproduce way more because their work is done on conception. Showing you have money and power are alpha traits. Spending that money on girls is beta. Whatever floats your boat is what I always sa… | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Anyone out there have a speech impediment and have tips to get over it when talking to women?My buddy stutters noticeably. And his body language in highschool was pretty crappy. He has worked on his stutter to some success through college, but he became very good a break dancing, working on his posture, body language, and general inner game. He still stutters but he is super confident now, and his stutter doesn't translate to body motion like it used to. His success with women is now very good (even though he keeps getting roped into relationships) I don't know how to get over lisps, or… | /r/seduction | 28/02/13 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Some guy used that "phone trick" on my girlfriend and failed horribly a few days ago.Hmm, I would say that this tricks success is based around how strong his nonverbal communication skills are, vs how tight your game is in inspiring your gf to be faithful. I don't think any of us has information enough to grasp his skill, but I can say good job on keeping your game tight. | /r/seduction | 28/02/13 01:29 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Only if you are on call. If it fits your schedule, why not? | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 12:43 PM |
| 5 | So I don't want to approach girls anymore...Try NoFap. If you stop masturbating, your drive to meet women improves. So does your confidence and libido. I also recommend you find a group of friends to go out with. That way you have companionship, contaderie, and people to teach and critique you. The more positive connections you have to going out, the easier it is. But definitely do these two things, and you will be much happier in the long run. Check the sidebar for active seddit groups. | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 08:22 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I am way too high energy, almost maniacle. How do I calm down to talk to women and have a normal conversation. Great for attraction, kills comfort. | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 12:17 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Give her a ride home/ escort her home. Keep the conversation going. And when you get back, just walk In and don't bring attention to the fact you are going back to her place. Make her feel like it just happened. | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 12:14 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Just say yes. Then make decide where. It doesn't matter that she is taking the initiative, as long as you keep pace. When she says how about tonight, just respond with. Actually that works, I just downloaded "she's all that, and bought some popcorn. How does 9pm sound?" | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 12:12 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I almost never pull, but I lay pipe with several girls a month, all these are from my follow ups. It's also good practice for 1on1 scenerios. So if you like sex, I would say yes, it's a good thing. | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 12:10 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Just say, "oh that's a relief! I like you, but I just didn't have that spark! this makes me feel way less awkward about asking if you wanted to chill at the park with me and my friends on Sunday" Then step up your game! | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 12:07 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Not if you show it to her with confidence. This one professional PUA was talking about a dark alley way they had to walk through to bounce to his place. Girls would freak out and leave, until he started telling them in advance about the dark alley with rapist, crack needles, and killer clowns from outer space. They were cool when they just found it was a dark alley. I tell chicks I live at home. But they dig it, they usuly try to justify it for me. "Oh you are saving money!" Etc. | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 12:05 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Picking up the opposite sex is about building attraction, comfort, and investment. Tgink about what makes you attractive, how to get them to feel comfortable around you, and ways to get them to work for you. That and hold a great conversation and let them do the talking. Examples: Get into shape, where sexy clothing, learn to dance. Smile a lot, friendly kino, when they do something you like. Make your sexy clothing seemed toned down (aka turtle neck sweater with slight midriff showing Give the … | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Cockblock Challenge: When the UG Interrupts you with: "We haven't seen each other in a long time and we're trying to catch up."I tell them that they seem like they could be an interesting person, but there is no chance I am going to find out tonight with your friends leaving and my friends staying. Lets grab hot chocolate sometime, so I can learn more about you (we can learn more about each other, calibrated depending on the preface). I then whip out my phone and swap numbers. about 50/50 reply rate, day 2's with about 25%. I can usually build enough attraction in the first couple minutes with strong body language, eye … | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Do I need: A) a bootcamp, B) a shrink, or C) a completely new life?I would say your problem is that you need to approach a lot more. Spending money on anything is not the way to go. If you have had no girlfriends and never kissed a girl, I would say therapy. If you are approaching many people every day, but somewhere along the way you reach a sticking point you can't get past. A boot camp sounds like it might help. But since you are neither, I would recommend you do something like the style life challenge. Or even just make a schedule to approach one additional… | /r/seduction | 21/02/13 12:54 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Help the community Seddit! Reporting and you. (upvote for visibility)Woot woot!! Go seddit! I'm really happy for this post, I hole it will accomplish a lot! | /r/seduction | 21/02/13 12:29 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Text her. Calling is a large investment for girls. They feel just as nervous getting called as you do calling. With text, they just receive the glimmer of satisfaction you were thinking about them, without the anxiety of having to respond immediately. In this way, texting is almost always the way to go when communicating with women. I honestly don't call them until I am right outside their door, or have already slept with them. There is some nifty phone game out there for the daredevils though. … | /r/seduction | 21/02/13 12:21 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)You shouldn't separate yourself from alcohol, just do t drink it, people use it socialize and most fruitful social gatherings utilize it. This is tough for a lot of people, because they are very inhibited. It's not ok to pretend your drunk, and stumble around slurring, but you should release your inhibitions. It takes practice, like everything else. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 08:22 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)That's great! You seem to know what you are doing. I would invite her, it's almost impossible to come off as a creap when you value give, most just come off as nice guys. I would invite her in person at a high point in your conversation, unless she gets busy very quickly in which case after a few texts or so. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 08:18 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)when you hold this 5 text banter, make sure the whole time you are trying to lead it to a date. At your first opportunity, pick the date that is most situational. it could be you are talking about a comedy club, and you say, I have always wanted to go to one, know any good places. Then You should come with me to a show!" it could be "you butt dialed me 3 times, i didnt know your butt was that friendly" haha, thats not usually the how I am "haha, then lets grab some hot chocolate sometime so I ca… | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 09:50 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Boom, I think you have most of your potential problems pegged down. 1) Go to the gym and start doing the 5x5 weightlifting routine, and do bicep curls (I know, I know), calf raises and pullups. Do yoga and Pilates on your off days. And if you can pick up a dance class that would do wonders for you. Focus on standing strait, walking slowly with swagger, talking deeply, smiling, and maintaining eye contact no matter what, with everybody. 2) I gave up drinking myself, but the world doesn't change f… | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 09:41 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Well I had almost no friends, then in half of junior year emulating a perfect alpha male, and I had many friends. By the the first half of senior year I was homecoming king. So in one year, I went from fat chump with no friends to ripped homecoming king, the school announcer and biggest dare devil. This is where drunk game sets in. then from zero experience with women, and a desire to pursue them without guidance it took me 3 months to find my first girlfriend. The next 2.5 years were wasted. Th… | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 09:26 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)practice practice practice :P don't worry about taking it to far, you don't learn if you don't push your limits. Saying horrible racist things to people and having them like it just takes calibration, and a lot of that is about reading body language, something I can only learn by practice. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 09:02 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)always make sure she stores your number and that she knows it is you. I have had girls fall in love with me then not respond to any of my texts. when I finally say, oh this is they guy you talked to for an hour and kissed last thursday. they respond OH YOUUUUUU!!! :) but if she does know it's you when she does O.o, just respond with, You asked me to grab lunch with you today, I've been wanting to try thai palace on third. sounds good? | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 08:59 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)personally I find that if they are working, they don't have a lot of time. just try and be as funny and confident as you can be in the short interaction you have, then ask for their number every time. You can see what works for who based on whether or not you got their number. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 08:54 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Yea, Women eat it up when I tell them about charity, or volunteer work, being a nice guy is a good thing. The label nice guy is just a euphemism for someone that they aren't attracted to. They don't want to say anything to hurt you, so they pick a good quality and call you that. I usually get labeled smart or interesting, because I am not nice, but they all mean the same thing. As for what you can do to avoid being called a euphemism, I would say convey your niceness, but don't go out of your wa… | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 08:50 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I usually say don't shit where you eat, so if you work with them, I would say it is isn't wise, and if you have professional authority over them, I would say it is a flat out bad idea. But if business is finished, and there is no chance it will come back to bite you in the ass, I would say go for it. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 08:43 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I hit on working women all of the time. But since they are in that awkward position of being forced to stick around, I try and go easy on them. after the usual banter I usually ask them if they would like to grab hot chocolate with me sometimes. If they say yes, I get their number, if they say know, I just say, "no worries, I had to ask :)" then act as if it never happened. This seems to be just fine with the working women I hit on as they often greet me with welcoming smiles next time I am in. … | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 08:40 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Well if you are the same age, I would recommend doing what I should have done in high school: fooling around. (safely of course) If she is in high school, and you are older, I would say watching movies, going on hikes, painting pictures or drawing together, making cool crafts, doing science projects, playing old video games, etc. Though In my honest opinion, if she is in high school and you are older I would say just move on, because she is just a dead end until she graduates, and that moment in… | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 08:34 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Movies, and what they convey emotionally are a large commitment for a girl, so its hard to get them to agree. I usually set up coffee then pose movie as an after thought. Foot in door strategy. as for getting girls picture, I am not very good at online game, but I would just say something like, " could you send me a photo of yourself, just to make sure you aren't a 300lb ax murderer? ;P I would however recommend not watching porn anymore. A month without porn will add a number to your HB scale. … | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 08:28 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)my advice with shaky numbers is to always invite her out to a cool event that you are already doing with friends. This makes you a value giver and gives you social proof that you are well liked. I have recently been working on my text game (or tightrope walking as I like to call it) and I have found that if I am able to have a quick 5-10 text convo that leads into me asking them out to a snazzy value giving event, I have very high success rates. Again I cant stress enough, that you should be gam… | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 08:21 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I personally haven't found much differences between time of day other than logistics. People say that if a date drags into night time, it is more suggestive, but I haven't personally been able to notice a difference. I would say schedule it early, that way you have the opportunity to bounce from a coffee shop to a theater, or minigolf, or even back to one of your places to cook an awesome meal and put on a movie you have been dying to watch (this works really well for me). | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 08:13 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)it is true that going out alone shows lower social status, but apparently it makes you improve faster if you stick with it. since it is harder, people I know who go out alone are much better at opening sets, and far more confident about it. once the set is open, I don't feel it changes much. An exception is if your wing is on a much higher skill level then you, I would suggest a wing, because they will be actively demonstrating and teaching you game. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 08:06 AM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Nice question. From my experience, this means you guys have a lot of comfort and rapport with each other, which is means you my friend have a lot of room for error in handling the situation. This does not mean you still cant mess it up. Imagine that attraction is your likelihood of success and comfort is how many attempts you get at succeeding. So what you need to do is build more attraction. Do some reading in the side bar and brows pickup artist forums to get a firm understanding of how to do … | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 08:00 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Well I would say you have only two options: 1) Make your move on them ASAP. Keep the attraction hot. 2) Friend zone the girls so that they will give you access to their group of lady friends. The choice you make can be different for different girls. If one girl has tons of hot, sexually liberated friends, I would say friend zone her. If she cannot offer you a social circle on which to plant and harvest, then she is your end goal and you should stop hesitating and make your moves immediately, tha… | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 07:44 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)So what exactly are you looking for? I assume you want a really great guy to date and not just hook up with. Well personally speaking, I find that they key to a woman's heart is through her pants, and the key to a mans heart is through his mind. This says nothing against women, in fact that is the reason women like being more social and communicative while men would rather have sex. It seems to me that are goals are to come together, and our desires just reflect the methods that work in accompli… | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 04:29 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Oneitis goes away slowly as you gain skill and hook up with more people. As for getting a guy, balance being easy with being to hard to get. Essentially let his advances succeed some of the time, but not all of the time. If he suggests moving venues, go along with it, but make it feel like you are apprehensive so he works harder. If he tries to kiss you let him kiss your cheek a couple times, if he has to go back to his friends, ask to meet them, if he asks you to get food, make a suggestion on … | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 03:39 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I have heard I shouldn't kiss a woman unless I have a high likely hood of sleeping with her right that night. When should I be kissing a girl to maximize my chances of SNL and when for trying to bed her on the Day 2 | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Seddit: Haters vs Players - Which one are you?Just getting ready for bed, got to get up for work in 30 min >_<, and I was pondering this comment. I still have this problem. I want to succeed but I think from time to time I still put being better ahead of getting better. I may not down vote useful things and write demeaning comments (out of principle), what I do do (<--lol) is get approach anxiety. Sometimes I have amazing success, after, I don't want to go out, or approach, because I'm afraid my friends will see me be less successful. This … | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Seddit: Haters vs Players - Which one are you?I believe that there is big difference between comments and votes. I sometimes run across a thread that has a simple easy answer, that everybody would agree on. I write a comment to give them the advice, then down vote it, because it won't help most other people, and I want to save the front page for jucy topics that can improve all our game. That way everybody wins. When I feel a topic gives great advice, or the op needs assistance that can split to a lot of people, I up-vote. Voting is for vis… | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Seddit: Haters vs Players - Which one are you?I would say this post is more like the tale of the murder vs the executioner. They both kill people true, but one spins the thread while the other ties it off. | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Seddit: Haters vs Players - Which one are you?Agree with RonnieLibra. Just tell them what you just told us. "There's no quick fix, read the sidebar for more info" | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 12:22 PM |
| 4 | Seddit, what is your take on how to pick up girls at raves?Yea dude, they don't even put 13 on hotel elevators. | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, what is your take on how to pick up girls at raves?It's actually pretty difficult for me. Im a wild guy, but the calmer the situation, the better I am at pickup, raves are my worst nightmare, like two protons. I like dancing though, just so hard for me to approach. | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, what is your take on how to pick up girls at raves?I'm creepy. | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 12:13 PM |
| 3 | I'm a freshman in college and I've become the campus creeper. How can I change my reputation to a positive one?Hard mode. You improve faster in the face of adversity! | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 12:08 PM |
| 1 | What to talk to girls about?Just try out a conversation topic and see what happens. Then analyzed which part about it worked and what didn't. You would be surprised, often messing up just leads to shit tests, which give you practice with that. | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Improving your nightgameI keep a journal, and it helps a lot. It is mostly just to keep track of who I approached, what worked and what didn't. That way I can see what I need to do next time, repeating good habits and trying new things. A journal isn't neccesary, but it really helps you internalize your game and learn much faster. | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Improving your nightgame1) after opening your set, just move closer to your target, touch her in non threatening ways, and escalate. Use any excuse you have to touch her. The music being loud is really great, you first have to bend over towards each other to hear, then you pragmatically just get closer to not bend as far, then put your arm on her shoulder while she bends to talk and listen, then put your arm around her to the next shoulder, then to her lower back, then around her waist, then let it linger. The whole wh… | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 12:02 PM |
| 0 | What to talk to girls about?It doesn't matter what you talk about, as long as you learn how to say it right. Typical conversations I have include: making racist comments and jokes, talking about weird items people have stuck up their butts. How much money to kill their parents, where they would like to travel. about shitting, vomiting, pissing on, and flooding a bathroom stall all at the same time, getting fucked with a dildo in Japan, genocide and dead baby jokes, a horse sized duck or 100 duck size horses, what Disney pr… | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, stop being judgmental.This is really good insight! You should repost this in its own thread. It could help a lot of people. | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, stop being judgmental.Advice is Advice, and people with good inner game can absorb it regardless of how it is phrased. A lot of people here, however don't have that thick skin yet. They are here to learn and get better, but end up getting ripped apart. Though the advice may be we'll intended, it should always be calibrated. The worst problem on this site are harsh judgmental comments that do not provide any advice. There is really no excuse for being pointlessly hurtful. | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, stop being judgmental.Nothing was said about disagreement, which does facilitate discourse. What I talking about was counter productive and judgmental comments, which typically provide no reasoning or constructive advice. Example: Wow. You clearly take this shit way too seriously. Now if you instead delved into why you think that way and what could be done to improve, the comment would actually mean something. Additionally if you toned down your language, it would come off as less hurtful, and have a greater chance o… | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 08:51 PM |
| 4 | Seddit, stop being judgmental.I agree, I'm so a bit creeped out by all of the dark age women and AFC's who stumble into or stalk the subreddit making comments that are incorrect and insulting. I honestly believe that this subreddit should be more like breakups and stopdrinking in the sense that counter productive or judgemental comments are off limits. This is a sanctuary and classroom, games and drama have no place. IMO. | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 05:59 AM |
| 1 | What have you done this week?Learning patience. I worked this girl for an hour and a half before kissing, longest ive stayed in a set for months not day2ing | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Will girls tolerate you if you don't have many friends?No way bro. The only barrier is in your mind. | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 11:23 AM |
| 0 | To Master r/Seduction You Should Also Check Out:No way. Going out is for fags, homos, and gaysexuals, it's all about subreddits, brotato. The more time you spend on subreddits the better you get at getting advice that you could use one day for some reason I forgot. And for all you fags, homos, and gaysexuals, happy vagina day! Free vagina for everyone!!! | /r/seduction | 14/02/13 12:12 PM |
| 1 | To Master r/Seduction You Should Also Check Out:It seems you got the drift of dressing well, it's about accentuating your sexual attractiveness. MFA goes a bit overboard into the style and art, but they give you the tools. I'm ripped as shit, but never really understood how to go out and appear tastefully so. Before MFA it was baggy T or shirtless, as retarded as that makes me sound, but since then I've found v-necks with good fits, and flattering jackets that hug my curves. As for noFap. Don't knock it till you've tried it. I'm 135 odd days … | /r/seduction | 14/02/13 12:07 PM |
| 1 | To Master r/Seduction You Should Also Check Out:I'll edit those in, good ideas. And MFA helped me out a bunch. It's strange how all the stuff you mentioned isn't obvious to a lot of people until it is pointed out. | /r/seduction | 14/02/13 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Women Will Do Whatever You TolerateDamn, if I knew this earlier... | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 09:48 PM |
| 3 | fuck buddy v-day protocolFor my main f-buddy I'm taking her out and telling her that though I love being single, and will still go out all the time and meet other women, I genuinely appreciate her company, and the feeling peace she brings me, which is why I asked her to be my valentine. In other words, I'm taking her out to a fancy dinner and telling her how she is the best bottom bitch I ever had. I'm texting my other FBs to tell them I'm thinking about them. Use this day tone honest and solidify what ever type of rela… | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 10:40 AM |
| 2 | How do I become more sociable in general?1) do things that push your comfort zone. Things that you actually do not want to but would be awesome. Like fully clothed jump to a pond. Do a long rediculus dance in a public place, skydiving, etc. these things will spark emotion, allow you to learn to express yourself more than just trying to talk to people. This will make you interesting. 2) plan events and invite people along. Go to the park with a plate of sandwiches and enjoy the sunshine. Go on a hike, have a BBQ, invite friends to the g… | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Going To Start Going Out In Hard Mode.Maybe you're right. | /r/seduction | 10/02/13 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Going To Start Going Out In Hard Mode.Maybe I am over thinking things. | /r/seduction | 10/02/13 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Going To Start Going Out In Hard Mode.Your face has muscles, if you exercise them properly, your face will look more muscular and balanced. | /r/seduction | 10/02/13 05:47 PM |
| 2 | I don't know where to post this question so here it goes: are here any Polish or living in Poland sedditors?Hmm... I am part Polish, but I live in California. As for advice, PM a moderator about setting up a seddit lair for your area. Also, go out as often as you can to just talk to people, men and women alike. Invite your friends with you, and start a group on a group messaging application like groupme. invite your friends who like going out to the group, and invite cool people that you meet when you go out. That way you are able to build up a social circle of like minded individuals (don't worry abo… | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 11:12 AM |
| -3 | So you want to improve yourself... Here are a few tips that I found help me feel better about myself.I'm bookmarking this post. So Suck It!!! | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 10:57 AM |
| 1 | How does Reddit feel about hooking up with ex-girlfriends?But Serious Bro. Oneitis Will Kill You... | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 10:55 AM |
| 1 | How does Reddit feel about hooking up with ex-girlfriends?Just as long as you don't catch oneitis, hook up with them all you want! | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 10:53 AM |
| 3 | Women looking down while passing byyea they are shy, and usually attracted. During day game, I always use the look down as a sign I should approach. | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone done any experimenting with substances before going out?caffeine makes you a champ. depending on your sensativity, half to a couple 5 hour energies puts you directly into state... that is why i recently quit caffeine. | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 10:49 AM |
| 2 | A revelation of mineknowing about it is noobish, understanding it and doing it is basically the key to inner game. | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone have advice about going out solo?I like your just do It advice, I need to go out solo soon, learn the ropes without the security of my friends and wing men. | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Significance of race on seduction?Dude, awesome! I have the reverse problem when I try to meet Asian girls. No limiting beliefs! | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Significance of race on seduction?Seduction is a very global thing. I know guys who women just approach, I know for a few of them, they have establish themselves in social circles and gained reputation, which spreads and then BAM. Same guy at a club, and he is a wall flower, because it isn't the game he plays. I am trying to work on my social circle at the moment, so if I figure it out, I'll let you know. And depending on the woman, you get an automatic bonus for being Asian. (I am addicted to Asian chicks, so fuck you and your … | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Struggling to deal with massive amounts of numbers? My solution...Yea, seddit often forgets to realize that logistics is the single most important factor of seduction. | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Struggling to deal with massive amounts of numbers? My solution...This is awesome. Thank you! I'm also glad you mentioned burning numbers to the ground. Sometimes someone just has to say it to remind you to do It. Gotta go send a few dozen texts right now... | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 11:31 PM |
| 3 | I haven't approached a female in over 5 years.Doesn't matter, you don't have to take them home and sleep with them, just use it as practice, and work your way up the ladder. | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 09:18 PM |
| 1 | The truth about Pick-upThat was Dense As Fuck. Props. | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 11:55 AM |
| 1 | I haven't approached a female in over 5 years.It seriously is like skydiving or bungee jumping. The same brain pathways are engaged. This is caused by a vestigial instinct linked to the psychological concept of social proof. In tribes of under 150 people (like nearly all tribes before the agricultural revolution) People had the ability to know each other and each others reputation. If you got rejected once, it probably means that other women will see this and think less of you, also rejecting you, and leaving your genes to die, the evolutio… | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Hello all. This might make me sound shallow, but how do I fake sincerity, interest and happiness? See text please.I've struggled with all of these problems, and now do exceeding well. Here is what I have found. 1) learn to not be upset. Doing this is simple, yet hard. Realize that what has been done is done, and everything you can do about it starts now. Negative Emotions only make you suck at doing shit, so turn them into logical progressions starting at your goal and working backwards until you have a solution to your problem. Being sad/angry is for talkers not doers. 2) Embrace positive emotions, and yel… | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 11:31 AM |
| 2 | The Sexism of the Friend ZoneActually, I am starting to build a social circle, and I'm telling girls that I am into that we should just be friends, because I can enjoy their personality while getting hooked up with all their friends. | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 11:05 AM |
| 2 | Is self-irony rather good or bad?yea dude, brilliantly played. Next step, wink and make it sexual ;) | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Despite putting myself out there and talking to girls I feel like im not really making much progressMeditate. The reason meditation works is because it requires skill to stop consciously thinking. The more you meditate, the more you practice clearing your mind. The better you get at meditating, the more natural it will feel to just word vomit and react to the moment, rather than trying to think of something and coming up with nothing. Trust in the meditation. Also, practice makes perfect. They say 10,000 hours makes a master. I learn a lot and improve pretty quickly. It doesn't happen over nig… | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 10:40 PM |
| -7 | Bang With FriendsLol agreed, that's why I deleted all my online accounts. Even Facebook. | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Can You Help Me Solve A Little Puzzle?I agree with you about my approach. Working group dynamics is going to be the next thing on my list to practice, as I am finding that all my high value targets mainly clique in tight nit groups. Thank you for the advice on opening then Isolating. | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Can You Help Me Solve A Little Puzzle?Thanks for advice to look at it from their point of view, getting into the mind of the target seems so simple, but I forget to do it so often, and it really helps. As for the high-wire act, I agree, but I sort of try and push all of my Interactions as far as I can, as quickly as possible, and it is hard to step back and look at the whole group dynamic from the beginning, because it is not something I have been actively practicing. | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Something that completely changed my game.Dude! Awesome!!! I had the same epiphany recently, it is fucking awesome!! Good Job! I need to get back to meditating, thank you for reminding me :) | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 01:24 PM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/5/13 (please upvote - zero karma)is that because of the sea food or the women? | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, what do you say after a girl says "no"?Lol, Actually, I did a no drink November with the hypothesis that every positive aspect of being intoxicated has the ability to be mastered while sober, if properly emulated and practiced. I went out a lot in November practicing the art of partying hard while sober, as well as the art of seduction. It was hard, but after two weeks I began to get the hang of things, and by the end of November, I knew it was the way to go. In December, I had a lot of work travel, a few birthdays and some cabin tri… | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Seduction For Women.I'll keep my eyes peeled for some examples. But from what I am seeing men build attraction and comfort. And for women, it is very similar. I see women use being cute to build comfort in a man, and bring the sexy to build attraction. Too much sexy though seems to turn a lot of men off, so often kinoing is done in a cute way, like hugging the guys arm when he does something nice, like give a bum a quarter or pet a dog. I also see that a lot of sexy women need to build comfort before they transitio… | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 01:31 AM |
| 0 | Seduction For Women.lol, awesome. | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 10:31 AM |
| 3 | Question about eye contact?if you guys make eye contact, you have to go over to her. | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 06:55 AM |
| 2 | I've just started my journey of self-improvement, and now I'm worried that I might regress. Sedditors, please lend me a hand here.I would keep her around as a wing. I read somewhere that men fall for women that they talk to, and women fall for men they do stuff with. the reason why more men fall for women then men, it that is it easier to talk than to do. Regardless of the validity, Keeping her has a wing will increase your chance of getting all women, including her, and once you have sex with her (or so we hope) you can establish the relationship however you want, including keeping it open. In other words, shoot for havin… | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 06:46 AM |
| 0 | Seddit, what do you say after a girl says "no"?What we have here is a failure to communicate. Let's start over. You are responding to my advice as though it was a way to gracefully leave a set. The way I proposed is clearly not that way, it is merely one of the various ways to get back in and turn a no to a yes. As I am a firm believer in maximizing how much each set educates you, I try to always get blown out, and not leave (which makes things very awkward most of the time but very awesome some of the time). If the goal of the OP is to just… | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, what do you say after a girl says "no"?Haha, ok then I believe you. Then I have had 2 less girlfriends, have had sex 30 less times with 4 less women, and have been on at least a dozen less dates. Not to mention getting dozens less numbers and kisses. Wow I really need to recalculate my numbers, now that I know that no means no, and not yet. There are times when no means no, but it usually means a few no's mean no. So if women want no to actually mean no, they need to mean it, you know? ROFL, my sides are splitting open. Thank You!! :… | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Been lurking for a while and finally decided to get out there (Challenge for seddit!)If that thought it popping into your mind, it is going to throw your Limbic system into a flutter, and it will definitely show up in your body language (a good read is What Every Body Is saying). Your best bet is to go out and approach, approach, approach, until you figure out what works for you. You say that, but I have a friend who was bouncing chicks every week with long hair, and a thick 1920's style beard and mustache, you couldn't even see his face for the most part. So there is some combi… | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Seddit, what do you say after a girl says "no"?lol | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, what do you say after a girl says "no"?Actually monologues and roll playing is one of, if not the best way for rapid and successful escalation. The problem with it is it requires creativity, eloquence and great physical expression. In other words, it is something you need to go out and practice. So in all honestly you should. And I should definitely clarify: Never force any kino, just have confidence and follow through. | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Seduction For Women.lol | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 01:05 AM |
| 10 | Seduction For Women.I can't tell if you studied philosophy or sociology, but if you are a woman, I think I want to kiss you. | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Been lurking for a while and finally decided to get out there (Challenge for seddit!)oh, sorry, I get a bit ADHD most of the time. if I'm doing something wrong, Yes Read seduction, especially focus on these things that are key for initial attraction: Strong Body Language (strut, posture, head up, smile, etc), Good Eye Contact (see above), Good Sense of Style (Read r/malefashionadvice and look up fashion blogs for men, nothing emo ever, shoot for good fit and try to incorporate red), Sexy Body and Good Looks ( Read This, it talks about looks and There is advice at the bottom as t… | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 12:31 AM |
| 10 | Seduction For Women.I should clarify that point, It is really good you brought it up. She is dating this good looking Italian stud an 8-9 on the good looking man scale, and people there knew they were together, and from my experience never goes home with the guys she flirts with. I always thought it was 20:80 for women, but after that and one other experience I'm starting to believe tight female game can bring it up to at least 50:50 | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 12:12 AM |
| -9 | Seddit, what do you say after a girl says "no"?just treat it like any other shit test. "I think we should get a divorce, has decent success rate, day 40% for me" or hug her and say "it was fun while it lasted but I think we should break up" The follow up by putting your finger on her lips whether she says anything or not and say "shhh shhh shhhh, its ok, don't cry we had a good run, and the sex was great, but there is more to a relationship, there is a connection that two people need to have." You can continue this as far as you want, essent… | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Going on a date tomorrow with a 30 year old woman who is a teacher at a Methodist church. How should I approach this? Oh and I'm an atheist.I would love to hear a field report. I have problems dating women with drastically different beliefs, for better or for worse. | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 10:43 PM |
| 1 | irrefutable proof that sexual attraction is 100% based on looks, click on link, than on zoom to see the screen captureFellow Sedditors Do Not Be Discouraged! This Thread definitely requires good discussion, because it taps into the primal conflict every man has when trying to get good with women. Do looks matter? Clearly Are they everything? Clearly Not There are some really ugly pickup artists out there (no offense) and I am seeing them bang really hot women all the time, spending no money, sometimes even being paid for. How is this possible? The only thing that matters for a woman is how you make her feel. A … | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 10:13 PM |
| 3 | The Friend Zone Myth.sounds like you should work out a 3some! | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Been lurking for a while and finally decided to get out there (Challenge for seddit!)Word on this. 2-3 for strength, 8-10 for bulk, 4-6 for maximum engagement (Am I right?). I think OP needs the pump and the bulk for this month. I dial it down to 5 sets of heavier weight personally. Also, my experience with iso movement is that they are not time effective or as full body beneficial as compound movements. I do however do isolation for my shoulder, hitting all the rear parts and my rotator cuffs. This is mainly to prevent injury and stabilize the gains from the overhead press. | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Request: tips for escalating with virgin girlsThough I hate virgins for the responsibility it entails, what has worked for me is to sexualize as many things as you can. I rephrase songs on the radio with dirty sexual acts, anything that can be an innuendo, becomes an innuendo. Touch her a lot in public, like grab her booty and put your hand down her shirt (nothing forceful, just keep chipping away at the mental wall). This will get her emotionally adapted to sex being normal. When you get her alone, escalate sexually. I'm not really sure wh… | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 09:28 PM |
| 3 | The Friend Zone Myth.LOL, my bad dude, after seeing the guy yesterday, I had one of those 2 am revelations. Just wanted to share my thoughts, never thought it would blow up. | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Been lurking for a while and finally decided to get out there (Challenge for seddit!)most people are not confident enough to keep eye contact, so don't worry if they look away. every guy who looks away is a small victory. Every girl who looks down might be interested, so talk to her, and often when they look to the side, they are not usually immediately interested (But then again they don't know you, so you can still go up and talk to them and they might change their minds). If a woman maintains eye contact with you though, it's pretty much a sure thing. She probably likes you a… | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Been lurking for a while and finally decided to get out there (Challenge for seddit!)i just mean go for the close. during the day, people have plans and logistics are sometimes difficult, you want to maximize your chance with these girl, so always escalate, but do it when they have time for the escalation, like when she has time for a date, or at night time. | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Good Response to a Common Shit TestAgree with Abe. | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 10:02 AM |
| 6 | Ex-clingy guys, how did you become independent?follow the process. Action → Results → Pleasure → Attachment to results and pleasure and identification with outcome (Neediness) → Loss → Pain → Indifference → Outcome Independence → Abundance Get dumped by lots of girls. The only way to do that is get lots of girls. and seddit is the place to start! | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 09:43 AM |
| 59 | Been lurking for a while and finally decided to get out there (Challenge for seddit!)Go to the gym Monday, Wednesday, Friday. do 5 sets of 8 reps of squats, bench press, and barbell row on one day, and alternate with 5 sets of 8 pullups/pulldowns, shoulder press, and dead lift the other. Keep eye contact with everyone you look in the eye. Never look away. if it is a guy give him a nice friendly smile and a hi until you pass, if it is a girl who doesnt look away, go up and talk to her. Have at least a 5 minute conversation with 10 girls every day, and try to set up coffee dates w… | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 09:39 AM |
| 3 | Learning Self-Defence to Gain Confidence During Confrontation/Fights?From my experience with people who fight, the winner is the one that sees it coming and strikes hard first. The catch is, that same person usually also has the option to walk away and chooses not to. But if you absolutely have to, your best option is to not drink. Your second best is probably doing Krav Maga, weightlifting, and sprints. edit: I have never been in a fight. I've run away from half a dozen, diffused countless, and was punched twice. And I can come off as really crass a lot of the t… | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Asian Women?Agreed, but Asian American groups are a different beast, I can tell you that. | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 09:10 AM |
| 1 | The Arguments against the Red PillI think all this came about from the agricultural revolution where the Big Man (the emperor with 1000 wives) made monogamy a law so that his alpha male competitors would be banished to one mate and no power. and he would get all of their extra women. most men (beta males) cant complain cause they weren't getting any anyways. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/13 08:35 AM |
| 2 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...Look at Neil Strauss. He is Inspiring. As for being more interesting, most people find novelty incredibly interesting. Meaning you are probably more interesting, just not the new guy. Me and my GF of 2.5 years broke up today also. I'm just lucky that I have been on seduction for a while and have learned a lot about brain function and addiction cycles. It helps to know exactly what is making you feel bad. Yes, if you go out on the town a few times a week and practice seduction techniques and inne… | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Asian Women?It might be the case, and I'm just doing it wrong. With most girls, 90% of the time I can open and have a shot to isolate, then number close and/or kiss. With a group of Asians, 90% of the time here they literally just walk away, grab their friends and walk away, tell me flat out to leave, their guy friends physically movie them away, their guy friends literally step in front of me and tell me to leave, re-close the circle with me on the outside, or a combination of those things. Groups of Asian… | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Asian Women?In The US | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 03:53 AM |
| 3 | Have been dating my girlfriend for 2 months now, how can I stay alpha in the relationship?-example of dealing with a shit test | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Have been dating my girlfriend for 2 months now, how can I stay alpha in the relationship?mostly ;) | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 02:19 AM |
| 1 | A girl sends pictures to you, how do you respond?Dick pic | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Have been dating my girlfriend for 2 months now, how can I stay alpha in the relationship?I have found that how you begin a relationship, is the standard you set from that point on. If you see each other every day. You have to keep doing that. If you go on exotic vacations, you are gonna have to keep doing that. But with my new relationships, my awesome girl friends see me once a week, we go Dutch on everything, and sex is their reward for doing nice things for me. That way, in 6 months a vacation is a treat, not a norm. As for what's done is done. I suggest you keep doing what you d… | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 10:22 PM |
| -3 | Have been dating my girlfriend for 2 months now, how can I stay alpha in the relationship?1) I dunno, are you 17% body fat? 2) Do whatever it was I was doing, she'll eventually say something, if not, other girls will. 3) My friends make the effort, and I meet them halfway. Try it. 4) Cheat, Sex, Cheat. Use a condom. Or break up. | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Asian Women?Hmm, ok. It's not usually the girl I have a problem with, it's usually the group seeing us escalating too quickly, and stepping in. But your advice makes a ton of sense. I'll next time try and have her introduce me to her group before they get uneasy about us, and win over their approval a bit before I escalate any further with the woman. edit: reread your comment and realized we were on the same page :) I was able to gain double the utility from your comment. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Asian Women?Thanks for the advice. I have a lot of asian friends, and see where you are coming from. I am able to open sets some of the time, but It's plain to see being asian has clear advantages. I'm not sure if its the being asian, or just them being able to relate better, but I often need an asian wing to break into sets in the first place :-/. Is there a way I can I open sets to dispel that preexisting aura of distrust for white men? | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 09:57 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/28/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Very True. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 09:46 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/28/13 (please upvote - zero karma)A) watch Don Juan De Marco. B) Try to pick up everybody who is at least a tiny bit attractive and turn them down if they want to have sex. That is what I do. Practice, but just like a woman, don't feel like you need to have sex. C) Quit watching porn and masturbating from now on (start with the 90 day challenge if you need to). It will lower your standards for Ideal physical beauty for the better and let you figure out what you are actually attracted to. It will also make you better at every oth… | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 09:43 AM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/28/13 (please upvote - zero karma)conversations are like erections, they will disappear if you think to hard about them. Just relax and say high, don't think about what to say, just come in with some prepared questions and find interest in what she has to say about it. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 09:38 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/28/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Agreed with not_gordon_freeman. She will like you more for going after other girls closer to you, she will sense your increasing awesomeness. But if you want to keep her (especially as practice, as bad as that sounds) ping her every now and then with cool things you come across and see her as often as you can to satisfy her sexually. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 09:36 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/28/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Yes and no... But mostly yes. Your best chance is to escalate as far as she is comfortable with at all times (actually comfortable with, not says she is comfortable with). So for a girl who has never kissed before it is fine to do kiss one date, feelup another, clothes gone another, a few dates working her virginity, etc. While for a party girl who may have sex several times a month, you probably wont get day two unless you have sex day one. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 09:32 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/28/13 (please upvote - zero karma)You should try a combination of cute and sexy. Your dress should be sexy, but your actions cute. This way he is attracted to you, but not intimidated by you. Examples include, showing a slight bare mid drift (if you have the body, if not, it's always good to be healthier :) ), and pushup bra with tight fitting button up sweater and tight jeans. laugh at his jokes and find things he says funny, or at least giggle a lot around him. When he says or does stuff that make him come off as a good guy in… | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 09:28 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/28/13 (please upvote - zero karma)No way, I needed to go also! I'll join you guys. Then wrap your arms around her waist like Tarzan and whisk her off to the bathroom. fall back with your back against the door and her in your arms, the kiss softly. Spin her around hold the back of her head and slam her gently against the door so it makes a sound and kiss passionately. Then go into the bathroom, lift her up and set her down on the counter as you unbutton her shirt and pants. As you begin kissing every part of her body, you reach i… | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 09:22 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/28/13 (please upvote - zero karma)If you haven't already done so, read this. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 09:17 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/28/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I think you need to fuck her. I'm no expert on bartenders, but from what i have gathered is that they usually aren't virgins. What attracts a woman is a man who goes all the way, and knows what he wants. when you get stuck at kissing it might be telling her that you aren't into her, or that you are not sexual enough to be a good mate. Attraction has an expiration date, so always keep pushing her boundaries sexually until you actually mate with her. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 09:14 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/28/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I don't think that was the right approach. The Experience you have gained definitely made you a man about it, but still, whether you have oneitis, or just not at the level to pickup a 12 yet, you didn't follow the process. Trust in the process. You have had tons of success with women, and I'm sure most of that didn't come about by telling girls directly that you like them. So what's done is done, and from what I hear about social circles, you still have not blown it. Just wait on it for a while … | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 09:09 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/28/13 (please upvote - zero karma)No Way Bro. Just FYI. 1/3 of physical attractiveness is body fat composition, 1/3 is muscular proportions, and the rest is symmetry and preference. With symmetry being a large chunk of that, it leaves very little about physical attractiveness up to preference, so typically good looking one place is good looking every place. most of what you will have to over come are external frames set by their culture towards your culture. But those issues are going to be over come just as easily as her frame … | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 09:01 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/28/13 (please upvote - zero karma)OH GOD, JACKPOT! "Hey hobbley hobbit! Sucks that your foot is busted, I was thinking of bringing over some food and a movie, so you don't have to walk everywhere in high heels and a cast. how does 7pm sound?" girls just need an excuse, and busting her foot just gave her one. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 08:55 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/28/13 (please upvote - zero karma)If you cant walk up to them and have a shot at seducing them, your standards are too high. That's why you are here, so that you CAN raise your standards. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 08:52 AM |
| 1 | What Are Your Most Outlandish Places to Have Sex?Woa, I'm interested in hearing how you pulled that off at the restaurant! I can imagine that takes genius! | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 08:44 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/28/13 (please upvote - zero karma)why the fuck not? | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 08:40 AM |
| 2 | What Are Your Most Outlandish Places to Have Sex?Would that be for day game or are any open at night? like a homeless shelter. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 01:49 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/28/13 (please upvote - zero karma)When she says something that your interested in, like she has a similar interest, especially if it is something completely asinine, like you both like poodles, just say laughingly "Stop! Your turning me on! if you keep talking dirty like this, I'm gonna have to kiss you!" while you're going in for the kiss. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 01:29 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/28/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I had a LTR with the daughter of an Asian movie star in college. She was a total spoiled brat and had guys buying her stuff. What worked for her was cold readings (People think you are helpless and only see you for your looks but I know you are down for crazy adventures and can pull your weight, etc.) also, bring her on crazy adventures like Aladdin did with princess jasmine. I went over to her place and baked cakes, then ate all her food, I brought her around to a bunch of cool parties and let … | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 12:51 AM |
| 1 | I can get the K closes but I can't get laid!dominance, don't listen to a word a woman says to you, Just like in pickup. Actions speak louder than words, if they lightly try to stop you, just ignore it, if they strongly try to stop you, it is a boundary. Last night the girl said no, no, no, and lightly pushed my hands from her underwear, but I out them back and within a couple minutes she was telling me to fuck her. Tonight, I had token resistance all the way to sex, but pushed passed it, when it came to actually doing the act though, she … | /r/seduction | 28/01/13 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Are Clubs Really The Best Place to Pick Up Girls? It seems Impossible [FR]You learned how to be comfortable approaching women, now just learn how to be comfortable dancing, and practice it like you would practice pickup. Seduction + Dancing = Good Club Game I hated clubs but I have been going recently to get better, and about half the girls I dance with I can kiss, and then they give me their number. The hardest part is actually finding someone to dance with. But I have been finding that the better you dance and the more you NGAF about just going into the dance floor … | /r/seduction | 27/01/13 08:56 PM |
| 1 | I want girls to notice me moreWell Sir, to be noticed by women you will have the most success doing the following: Get to about 8% body fat. If you cant see well defined abdominal muscles you need to loose fat, and to do this you should count all of your calories, and only consume about 1500- 2000 a day. make sure to take a multivitamin every say, and work out at the gym at least 4 times a week, or better yet, join a school sport. consume a protein shake every morning and before and after every workout. Make sure you go to b… | /r/seduction | 27/01/13 12:47 PM |
| 5 | How do you act around a perfect 10?Dude, I clam up just the same around hot women, and I didn't get over it until recently, to amazing success. This girl is not as interesting, fun, or loyal as your friends. She is not as smart at your TA's, Tutors, or professors, and she is not making you food every night and cleaning up for you. So what does she offer you besides being the best lover you have ever had? nothing... So if she is not going to be your lover, she is pretty much lost to you. Thus you have to think about it like this. … | /r/seduction | 27/01/13 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Cocaine. Serious advice needed. I don't think it's physically possible for me to be "obnoxiously confident".It will become addictive if it works. They key to everything is baby steps. Your physiological legs are not as long as everybody else, and you cant make big leaps. Just break things into really small steps and succeed. It will become addictive once things start to work out, and you will grow, those legs will become longer and you can take bigger steps. For now just say hi to 5 random guys a day, then 10 then 20. then say hi to 3 random girls, just hi, then do 5 then 10, then 20. it doesn't matte… | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 12:35 PM |
| 2 | I need motivation, Seddit. I know I’m being an idiot, but I need to hear it from someone else.I go through this all the time. You need to look past your immediate comfort to the person that you want to be, and do what it takes to get there. This is easier said than done. I set up a weekly planner of all the things that I need to accomplish for the week. This helps me to not talk my way out of things and make excuses. As for your lady friend that you talk to, there is no problem talking to her as long as you get everything on your task list done which will include going out 3 days during … | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Are Emoticons Killing My Text Game?Thanks guys for all the great comments! | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 12:39 AM |
| 1 | It's like I Have Oneitis for Every Girl!Wow, Thanks. This was really good advice. It put things into perspective. | /r/seduction | 22/01/13 07:16 PM |
| 22 | It's like I Have Oneitis for Every Girl!Thanks for all the comments. I think I am piecing this together. I am a sheep in wolf's clothing at the moment: Getting alpha male results without living the alpha male lifestyle. I'm getting caught up in just seduction, when I should be getting back to my school work, hitting the gym every day, and applying for jobs. It is making my life better but it shouldn't be my life. :) Thanks Seddit, you have done it once again! | /r/seduction | 22/01/13 02:11 AM |
| 6 | It's like I Have Oneitis for Every Girl!Yea, It is trying to change that mindset to a mindset of plenty. Empirically you can look at it and say: never gonna date, I have more girls to snuggle, etc., but actually feeling like you do is the problem. I struggle with this every time I go out, and even more when I stay in. lol | /r/seduction | 22/01/13 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else get really depressed by /r/seduction?Get Ripped, Stop Masturbating from this point on, and pick up 1 hobby that you enjoy doing. All your problems will dissolve themselves after you do this. Fact. | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 09:54 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/14/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Haha, you sound like a great person, and the seddit community is a great place to get better with men. I am no doctor and don't know about your condition (though I do hope you get better soon :) ) But I would still like to offer what advice I can. In my life I have struggled to loose weight, struggled to gain it, and I have learned a lot on my way. I don't know why you can not to general strengthening, but if there is any way to do it, do it. Squats are the best, but do as much as your doctor wi… | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 10:30 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/14/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Woa Bro! Do you even lift? I'll message you on the groupme, I have something for you. Edit: nvm you don't have the app. PM me your email, and I'll send it to you. | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 02:12 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/14/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Both have their advantages. If you go with friends, you get a lot of social proof that people like you, and she has fun meeting new people. Just be sure to say sexual, converse with her and lead her. Don't just throw her to the hyenas. If you go alone, it's more intimate, and personal. It's harder to keep her amused, but easier to let your intentions be known. I have had success with both, so I say do what makes you comfortable. | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 02:07 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/14/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Also, men are very conscious of women's looks. Start cutting calories, eating really healthy, doing squats and yoga, wearing sunscreen every day with retinol moisturizer every night, and dress in really flattering really stylish clothing. It's getting the basics down, and while it is 10-20% of a mans game, it's going to be 50%+ of a woman's game. | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 02:02 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/14/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Any good ways to bounce girls from a coffe date to a dance bar? | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 01:29 AM |
| 1 | What's the range of success ratio?It's all percentages, so I'll try and rough some stuff out. Daytime 50% number close success, night 10% I text back maybe 25% of all numbers, which might be an irrelevant statistic. So far 0% f-close in day game, and maybe .25% night game. Of women I text I get 75% response rate day game, and 50% response night game. Of response, I get 90% date percentage from night, and 40% date percentage day. Once on a date I would say I bed 25%. So doing the math. .1x.5x.9x.25 + .0025= .01375 or 1.375% night… | /r/seduction | 10/12/12 05:49 PM |
| 2 | [LR] My second okcupid SNL (NSFW)This is great! Shows me i need to escalate faster. Did she list that she is into casual encounters? How do you screen her? Would you say the girl or the game is more important for achieving a SNL? And what ways do you build rapport at the meeting to get her back to your place? | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 08:20 AM |
| 3 | [FR] It's always your fault - A commentary of mistakes that I made, and the lessons that I learnedDude, great attitude! You'll be bagging those girls with ease soon if you keep it up! | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 08:08 AM |
| -1 | How would an alpha confront the guy your girl cheated on you with? Advice from Seddit?No offense, but Alpha is a term used for social dominance, not about feeling or doing the right thing. Alphas command, coordinate, and keep the clan safe, in return they fuck all the bitches take privileges and get groomed. Monogamy is a myth created by insecure betas to brainwash women and alphas (arguably a very alpha thing of these betas to do). So the alpha thing to do besides kill him or kick him out and let him starve would be as follows: 1) don't give a fuck, you are still more alpha as s… | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 08:00 AM |
| 3 | Why do girls flake? the age old question. I had 2 girls who I interacted with really well that thought I built attraction with flake on me in the last two weeks...advice pleaseStopping flakes is way underplayed in this community. What's the point of a number if it doesn't lead anywhere!?! I am not the greatest, but I am learning. You need to keep them HOT! not sure when the best time for a first text is, but no later than the next day. I think my best success is the morning after, some say night of, I feel immediately after, it could get ignored as a number exchange text. The second part is to Reply to her texts at randomly spaced intervals from a few minutes to a few… | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Need help filtering out the smart women.Apply to a PhD program! grad parties are the shit, nothing but conversations about nuclear fusion, and approach becomes so easy, because everybody wants to talk about nerdy shit and are brimming to find and outlet. If that doesn't suit your lifestyle, you can network with friends who are in graduate programs, and eventually get invited! | /r/seduction | 06/11/12 07:21 PM |
| 2 | I'm a bisexual female, and I would like tips on upping my game.My girlfriend got completely gamed one time. At a party this girl came up and befriended her. Of course when the night went on, people want to see girls make out and do stuff. So in the guise of socially pressured kissing and groping, this girl started subtly escalating, Then they went to the bathroom, and I think finger action happened before my GF snapped out of it and questioned her sexuality for a week (she wasn't even drunk when it happened). That being said, everybody likes women a little … | /r/seduction | 06/11/12 07:11 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Well, I scored a date with a prostitute.People seem rather unenthusiastic... I say FUCK YEA, there is much to be learned from any field report, arguably more when it is an unusual circumstance! Thank you and keep up the good work :) | /r/seduction | 06/11/12 07:01 PM |
| 4 | What dating companies DON"T want you to know about pick up.This is the Truth, but I would say confidence IS EVERYTHING, and everything else you talked about here is what gives it to you. | /r/seduction | 31/10/12 11:40 PM |
| 1 | [Inner Game] DAE ever get the impression we're making this a lot harder on ourselves than we have to?I would say fuck yea to giving less fucks and not trying to be perfect. In life it is the journey that matters, so I guess I disagree with being good enough as is. Change is always good, but moving back isn't. Which leaves only one way left to go. Forwards! You are fucking kick ass for taking such a good look at what life is really all about! | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Where do I begin?Thanks! :) | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 04:28 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Tales from Hypergamic OceansI'm pretty new to the world of seduction, but am very experienced with relationships (especially cheating with, and being cheated on, once at the same time). From what I have gathered on Seddit, you should work on eliminating all feelings of frustration over the situation. When you are happy with what you are getting, but have no firm desires about getting more, women will want to give you more, to prove to you that you will like it. What I have learned in my own relationships is along the same … | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 04:10 AM |
| 5 | Letting go of college and being my own person?I can't imagine how terrible it must feel. But you are already on the right track to feeling better. You are not alone, the world is full of people who feel empty, and are searching for friends and lovers to make themselves whole. Meetup.com and okCupid are two amazing places to meet friends and women. The key though, is planning. Little successes all the time is what makes us happy. By sitting down, breaking up your goals into parts that can easily be accomplished will make everything right. On… | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 10:23 AM |
| 3 | READ THIS. RIGHT NOWI've never made a woman come with my dick, but with my tongue and fingers, You can make them cum for 20 minutes strait. As for short and ugly, just look at Neil Strauss, that man could fuck Obamas wife! Women are puzzles, and last I checked, there were no physical requirements to solve puzzles. So go get them my friend! | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 10:01 AM |
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