Help!

Actual_Dot_457 · 2024-05-19T04:18:48+00:00

You need to get comfortable touching first in a very casual way when you first meet. Look up the natural lifestyles touching and first date videos. They have the most helpful content that isn’t all aggressive alpha male bullshit. Just smooth low energy, but not boring. Grounded approach.

Once you get comfortable here with touching the next step given she isn’t pulling away from you (also if this happens and most things are going well it could just be too soon, shake it off and try again as you build comfort.) Hold her hand, you can use the classic funny (can you hold this, and then when’s she’s like “what?” Grab her hand like a gentleman. If this going good you’re doing great, usually do this while walking down the street. Hit a cross walk or something, while you’re waiting and looking her in the eye talking, she is probably like “why hasn’t this dude kissed me yet?” If she looks at you with a good look, look her in the eyes, look at her lips, and kiss her. Not like you kiss your mother, she’ll probably be into it given everything else has been going well and pull you in and start making out. Do it for a few seconds. Pull back, leave her wanting more, don’t devour her face instantly.

When the tension continues to build and you’re talking to her like you’re cool and not over the moon you kissed a girl, go for it again, touch her neck, don’t squeeze it but touch the top her chest into her neck sensually, and to the back her neck, moving her hair. Girls necks is one of biggest areas that turn them on more when kissed and they love it. At this point if it’s all going great you’re killing it, she probably is super down. If she isn’t you can end the date and leave her wanting more, but suggest going to your place or hers, what ever is the least logistical headache. Don’t fuck her the second you walk in either. Always take a step back, continue conversation, put on some music, let her put something on, talk, build that anticipation again, and then eventually just look at her while she’s talking and start kissing and grabbing like a man, not a autist, and if you’re in your room, pick her up and drop her down on your bed while kissing her. Don’t body slam her, but also don’t be an EMT dealing with a person with a neck injury. Let your hands wander, again don’t jump straight in. Focus on her pleasure.

Paint your own Picasso and imagine the rest. Enjoy her if she’s enjoying you, don’t be selfish, and eat her out if you’re worried about busting too soon, you’ll have less pressure.

Good luck man

bannedcanceled · 2024-05-18T07:51:22+00:00

Hold her hand, then hug her closely and kiss her, touch her body, waist legs, booty, boobs, then body rubbing, now you have sex. This is the steps to sexual intercourse. They literally teach this in school

ROBYoutube · 2024-05-18T08:13:04+00:00

I have had previous relationships where i was not able to spice the situation up to have sex.

What? Can you please expand on this.

Title	Help!
Author	heet24
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Date	May 18, 2024 7:14 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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