So I don't think I'm a bad looking dude, and I'm really good in social situations, I'm not afraid to approach girls and start conversation. I'm really obsessed with picking up a girl at a bar (that came out wrong, it's always been a dream of mine). I almost did once but it fell through last minute (for good reason, I was ok with it). Last night I struck out again like 4 times. Is it purely a numbers game here or what is the story? I was a good bar, it's like a club and theres tons of young (23-33) people around. I've also been told it's super easy to pick up girls there, yet I've had no luck. I'm not the hottest guy, but I don't know what the deal is! help?

tl;dr: I'm funny, outgoing, decent looking yet fail at picking up women.