I am a beginner in the game thing. But i wrote (from my opinion) the ground rules that be in mind, in order to better in the game with the time. Feel fry to discuss or add your points

1.  Picking up should be fun. Not something boring you are forced to do. You do that because you get amused while doing it. If this is something you don’t enjoy, then don’t do.  2.  Don’t fear of the rejection. Fear of the rejection will lead to no where else but to act like a loser. I always have this concept where i say “oh man, i don’t mind she rejects me so i can get the next chance with next hot girl and spare myself waste of time”.  3.  Comfortability builds Confidence. Exactly in the same order. Once you are comfortable enough:  ⁃ Looking silly ⁃ Getting rejected ⁃ Making mistakes to learn from them ⁃ Looking dork

You will be comfortable with any circumstances which will make you confident enough since you don’t take into the consideration all these social pressures factors. Through out you can attract, being cocky, escalate or close.

4.  Don’t centralise her. We are an interactive and emotional human beings. Getting attached can sometimes happens and it is normal. But the thing is, you don’t want to get attached to the point, where you aren’t feeling free to make a decision or she become the center of your mind. Remember, you are a good player and master of attractiveness as long as YOU ARE THE CENTER OF YOUR OWN”. As long as you are having fun and enjoying your time, everyone around you will have fun and enjoy their time.  5.  You are stronger when you are able to walk away from things. This is not an encouragement to walk away. But you will be more stronger and confident, when you are able to walk away if you don’t like what you see/what happens/ what is going on.