Ill try to keep this brief but detailed at the same time. 18 M in my first week of college. Within the group of guy friends that i hang out with so far, i can safely say i am the best looking one (which is not a feat of strength with these guys). This is important because the other half of my group is mostly single girls..which leads me to my primary problem.

I have been receiving a lot of attention from these girls, but from the wrong end of the spectrum. The girls that are already in relationships are paying extra attention to me, via kino, flirting, IOI's, etc.

One of the girls in my group is a cute blonde with a boyfriend of two years. She is the best looking one of the group, but i know she has a boyfriend so i keep my boundaries. The problem is, she keeps pushing these boundaries every time im with her.

For example, tonight we were all (8 of us) hanging out in her dorm room. When i arrived, a seat next to her on her bed was the only spot open. She proceeded to escalate kino HEAVILY (aka touching my upper legs, trying to cuddle with me, etc) and i quickly became confused. She even made me try to put lipstick on her (wtf?).

Normally i would say im friend zoned (which i am completely fine with, considering she has a boyfriend), but i am the ONLY one she does this type of stuff with. She even squirms when our friends (guy or girl) accidentally touch her or brush by her.

My question(s) is...why is she doing this? Has anyone had a similar experience where girls flirt heavily even though they are in relationships? My first thought is that she just wants attention while her boyfriend is away but after tonight, i just don't know anymore. Any help would be appreciated seddit