Its rare to get an invitation or IOI (Indicator of Interest) from a girl if you are just standing around in the club looking around being a spectator. Remember, people focus on energy and value in their environment, people go out to bars and clubs to have fun!

Stop looking for invitations to approach!

Pretty much all my success comes from approaching all girls, regardless of the situation. Open first, worry later. I open girls in various situations from sitting alone, talking in groups of friends, on the phone, eating, taking photos of their friends…I simply do not care how “difficult” the situation may seem to open a girl, I open first, worry later!

This has lead me to some shockingly surprising results, in a very counter-intuitive way, The results are probably slightly better from girls who show NO interest what so ever! In the early days, this blew my mind. Now its completely normal to approach girls in any situation. You NEVER know how they will react. This goes the same with approaching a 6 compared to a 10. I know a lot of guys in the PUA community will tell you that you have to game 10′s differently, I personally don’t think this is true. I sometimes approach a 6 and get the worst reactions imaginable, then I approach a 10 and she’s fully receptive and into me. In fact, the hotter the girl, usually means she has better social skills and will be easier to have a conversation with anyway.

But hey, don’t take my word for it, GO OUT AND TAKE MASSIVE ACTION as it is the only way to internalize this new set of beliefs that I am hammering into your brains!

Go out and approach the most difficult sets you can see. Im talking about girls on the phone, couples, girls in arguments with each other – the more awkward the better! this is all about breaking through the limiting beliefs you have and the only ONE way to do that is to go out and get these experiences for yourself.