She texted me but im confused

Woenae · 2025-11-09T21:44:42+00:00

Waiting 5 days to reply isn't a good sign, my recommendation is to cut her off, it'll benefit you in the long run

i-like-dutch-cheese · 2025-11-10T00:41:26+00:00

I mean, after reading your post history like.... You shouldn't care this much about this girl to the point where she makes you feel bad about yourself. To the point where you have to ask these questions.

Girls make it easy for guys they like. Rare situations where this isn't true.

Look, and if you've had a crush on this girl for 6 months, that's usually past the window where a relationship or form of intimacy is possible unless she has liked you for a while.

Entertain the conversation, craft messages as to gauge her interest levels, practice on other girls to learn to tell if someone is interested.

Guilty_Jacket2834 · 2025-11-09T21:50:10+00:00

Gonne be brutally honest with you. This is what I think is probably the case but don't take it as fact as obviously I'm not some all knowing person. I could be totally wrong!

Girls these days have a lot of options online. I don't know what sort of college you go to but most girls have sort of a priority list of guys in their dms all the time. Due to this abundance they get the ability to obviously choose who they want.

Personally I've also been in this situation before and lots of other guys have too. I would say keep entertaining the conversation for a few more messages and see if something like this happens again. I would say if it happens twice what I said is most likely the case. At that point, pursuing it further will only decrease your value in her eyes. Readjust your position by taking a step back and preserve your dignity(and possibly even increase your value) and see if you can get her to interact with something from your account in the future to reengage. I would say keep making posts on your account that align with your goals and same with your stories. If she doesn't bite the bait, just drop it. Plenty more fish in the sea and staying focused around one girl will only stall your progress.

Honestly, another thing that also helped me when I was in situations like this when I still felt more attachment to individual girls was just keeping the shots at other girls going while talking to girls. This will sort of desensitize you to the attention and you'll care less about small hurdles like this because the excitement you get from another potential girl will silence the doubt. For me personally, this changed a lot.

Few_Competition_1989 · 2025-11-10T09:20:54+00:00

She isn't interested I can tell from experience but besides that, instead of waiting for women you should always be the one making proactive moves that help you figure out whether or not she's interested.

ie. ask her to come out eat ice cream with you and depending on her reaction you will know exactly.

Title	She texted me but im confused
Author	Rocketustaad
Upvotes	5
Comments	8
Date	November 9, 2025 9:34 PM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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