Subtle tests for attraction

chips_and_hummus · 2025-12-06T03:15:38+00:00

actively close the gap between you physically, slowly getting closer as the night goes on or at various moments and see how she responds. if she does things to create more space between you like scooting back or anything similar, then take that as a sign of less interest. if she stays close as you come close or even gets closer then that’s a big green flag. same with light touch. gently touch her lower back when she walks through the door you opened, and nudge her legs/shoulders when walking/sitting when you tease her. try to notice if she likes/seems comfortable with light touching or if she seems reserved from it. you can slowly start holding the touch just a little bit longer if you notice positive reactions from the lighter touches.

arty233 · 2025-12-06T04:49:30+00:00

escalate physically, emotionally and logistically. Logistically means changing locations and slowly trying to move the interaction towards more private, secluded areas where making a move would be easy. This can be done in 1 session or over the course of multiple dates. Making a move can be as simple as a light kiss goodbye at her doorway or full on sex in your bedroom if you can get her there. Also build attraction in her. Physically was discussed by Chips and hummus below. But also emotionally escalate, attract her with things in common, intelligence, fitness, wealth. qualify her by giving her compliments catered to her. build comfort and to know her family, occupation, recreation and dreams (FORD acyonym). and keep escalating logistically and physically. other topics are travel, music, food, hobbies.

Ancient_Situation889 · 2025-12-06T07:49:03+00:00

I have this test I use to gage attraction and to initiate the 1st contact. On a date, ill causally peak under the table to check her foot positioning. Subconsciously a women's feet will point towards you if she's interested. I carefully place my foot near hers. Or gently place my leg near to see if she notices. At some point contact will be made. I hold still as if I didnt notice. In my experience, some women remain in contact with me. Its a really good sign she is comfortable.

Other times i peak down and her foot is already towards my side of the table and i dont need to do a thing lol.

The ultimate green light is when she actively plays footsies with you. You got her in the bag with that.

But when her feet are tucked under the chair or pointing elsewhere tread lightly. She may be unsure or genuinely uninterested.

Its something subtle but tells you alot.

ConversationDry3999 · 2025-12-07T04:44:27+00:00

You gotta test for compliance and investment. Investment as in adding to the convo, mirroring your vibe or ok with you holding her hands and squeezing them (escalation) Is she willing to go to another venue with you? Or go on a little stroll or to get a bite to eat ? Is she comfortable and attracted enough to come to your place? Things like that.

Title	Subtle tests for attraction
Author	MrBubblepopper
Upvotes	8
Comments	9
Date	December 6, 2025 2:47 AM UTC (7 months ago)
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