Separated. Where should I start?

norwegiandoggo · 2026-01-16T20:42:33+00:00

Dating apps, social events, outside.

You already know this. People usually don't struggle with "where" to meet people. They struggle with actually doing it. Taking action.

Matter_Still · 2026-01-17T00:30:00+00:00

Are you certain you've moved on? If you have then do the same thing you did with your former partner. It worked once; it can work again. If you haven't moved on you could fall into the trap of just trying to fill the vacuum of her absence.

Not-Jody · 2026-01-17T04:35:54+00:00

Book clubs

FearInoculumTool · 2026-01-17T13:06:17+00:00

Well, you are putting the horse before the cart. Women comprise roughly 50% of the population, in the US there are more women than men. So we can easily tell you - anywhere there are people, over time chances are half of those will be women. So you can meet women anywhere.

Not very helpful, is it though? That’s because you have no idea what you want and without knowing what you want, you won’t be able to figure out where to find it. What do you want a woman for? A fuckbuddy? A new wife? A gf? A ONS? What’s your type? Do you like smart women, in shape women, fat women?

You have to be very clear about who you are and what you want before you try and go get it.

Title	Separated. Where should I start?
Author	Embarrassed_Air4781
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	January 16, 2026 8:10 PM UTC (6 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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