I got out of a relationship 2 months ago. I went on 4 dates with 4 different girls since then. I know it sounds like a low number but the year before I got into my last relationship I got 5 dates in the entire year and now I got 4 in 2 months, so that’s definitely an improvement for me.

Out of those 4, I brought 2 of those girls back home. With 1 of those girls I had a great rapport. At one point I remember, we were on the couch and she was telling me a story about how she got drunk and her other female friends changed her clothes and later told her how great her tits were or some shit like that.

And at that point I was like yeah she seems pretty DTF and I moved things to the bedroom. I had been escalating physical before that as well like holding hands while having a conversation, playful touches throughout etc. But when we went into the bedroom she just didn’t shut up for me to even create a moment to kiss her, and also I felt like maybe I couldn’t spot a moment and kinda choked. So how do I close when I’m in a situation like that again in the future? Because I feel like I’ve fumbled these opportunities a lot and I’m unable to create a moment to escalate and to close.