*Yesterday I did daygame in the mall near me. I passed one approach. Then I saw other girl who was on the tram with me, not beautiful but cute and I liked her sense of fashion and body from what I've seen. *

1st Approach just before entering the mall

Me: Approached from behind and walked to her side- "Hey, I saw you and I think you're cute so I wanted to meet you. I'm dysrhythmic" - I extended hand to shake her hand.She was shy/nervous and, said "no" and walked faster. I reopened her few seconds later saying "Second time's a charm!" (translation of this sentence sucks). After she ran away again I just shouted (near the entrance around a lot of people but I did not care!) "You're loosing your life's chance!!!"

Good

  • Approached and reopened

  • Not giving a fuck about people and shouting

Bad

  • Possibly voice

  • ????

2nd approach and #close

I saw this girl who looked cute from behind and though she's too young but I was wrong many timesit. I walked behind her to get to her side when she started turning to the shop. I tapped/ put my hand on her shoulder instinctively since I to not let her walk away (wow I've just realised that's actually cool). She turned around.

Me: "Hi! I Saw you and (...) but now I think you're slightly too old for me" - I was a bit shocked when I saw her face - I thought she's much older than me and just lost my focus etc.

her: "Thanks! but.. excuse me?"

Me: slowly getting back to focus, "How old are you?"

her: "19"

Me: "Oh that's great. I thought you're a bit older, you look older actually" - not thinking what to say, just saying

Her: "Thanks!"

Me: "Where are you from, Russia, Ukraine?" - noticing her accent and use of words

Her: "Belarussia"

Me: "Oh ok, I;ve had a friend from Belarussia, she said that belarussian and polish are similiar and actually mix up in your head"

blah blah blah some talking and introducing. She slightly suggested me if we shall go and since I had no destination while she had I just went. We talked and went to ask about her lost passport. I learned where she's from, her name, university (2 actually), her polish neighbourhood, that she was in an LTR for 3 years and now hse's single and not looking for a romantic relationship (To which I replied "Ok I'm not looking for romantic either, I'm a bit of an asshole and want only one thing" but I'm not sure if she got the whole sentence, so she either was slighlty shocked on this or did not understand) and etc. I told her I want to meet her later and she wanted to give me facebook to which I replied that facebook sucks and is shitty thing to get to know people (planted idea in her head without planning on it?) I made fun of her polish and complimented on the way she spoke, it was so fucking cute (push/pull ?), I love girls who speak like that with eastern slavic accent, it's sexy. We examined our documents to see if there's any difference since she wanted to check if she gives her ID if she will be deported (she lost her passport). She leaned in quite close when examining documents... she smelled niiiiice, I take this as a good si. After a while we ended up next to the entrance/exit where we stopped and after a minut of conversation she signaled to go (kind of mixed not fully verbal neither full gesture). I told her I'm waiting for a friend (true) but I want to meet her again. I told her exactly this while having a boner and feeling excited about her (I guess it's great that I was excited instead of purely anxious!):

Me: "If you don't like me and don't want to it's ok but I think you're really adorable and I want to meet you again."

her: "Ok"

Me: "So can get your number?" - I think I said it and I think I shouldn't ask, she kind of "rushed/ encouraged" me to tak my phone out and write it down. Then she helped me write her name and told she is going o na trip but will be back in April.

Me: "So you're leaving for almost a month? that's a long time. I have no idea how to save you... ..."

Her : "Maybe <mall name>?"

Me: "I like that, I'll save you like this so I can remember exactly who you are"

Her: "I hope you don't have a lot of <her name>s numbers"

Me: "No, You're the first person with that name I've ever met" - I'm thinking if I should say "yes" in a cocky manner but that might not be congruent. I should try this :)

Good

  • Approach

  • Talking a lot and about everything without analysing

  • Bumping her lgihtly when push/pulling about her accent and polish

  • Closing

  • Actually wanting to fuck her when taking number

  • Stating my opinion on facebook and then getting number

Bad

  • She was leading where we go but I don't know if it's bad since she had things to do, I didn't and she "asked" every time, never left me to "chase" her.

  • I was a bit lost when on the approach and close.

  • I don't know if I should escalate more, I think I could though, the problem is in how :)

  • I don't smile enough and lack some playful vibe.

3rd approach - an engaged girl who had the biggest, cutest and most genuine smile I've ever seen. I walked in her direction when she turned and entered carrefour in the mall. I passed the ntrance and then thought "fuck it, I want to meet her" So I turned around and went after her and "caught" her in the alley. Thentap tap on the shoulder from the back

Her: turned around quickly "woaah you scared me"

Me: "sorry, didn't mean to..." - I might have taken a step back instinvtively but I was relaxed- "listen, I think you're cute and I wanted to meet you. I know it's slighty unusual especially in this kind of shop but I jast had to"

Her: She started smiling even befor I finished talking and it was a BIG GENUINE SMILE. - "Thaaaaaanks!!! But I'm engaged"

Me: "Damn... well it was worth trying." - I also could have answered "so young and already engaged?, because that's what I thought as a second thing after my response

Her: "Sorry, thanks!" - she starts walking away facing me and smiling

Me: standing in place - "what's his name?"

her: ""

Me: "Shit, you said that quickly. If you would have thought I would say you;re making him up." - I might have smiled here

her: "haha"

Me: "Listen, I wish you the best in your relationship. I'm jelous (that he has you)!"

Good

  • Approach

  • Being relaxed

  • Saying whatever i thought, no prepared sentences except the one about her being cute which is my standard opener... it is (almost?) always truth though.

Bad

  • She almost died of smiling :), I could have killed her!

4th girl, Just before I met my friend, I was not bold enough to approach a girl paying in carrefour and she disappeared. I let go few sets but I was in a good mood already clapping my hands and walking confidently, feeling like I had springs in my legs and walking with no effort (cause I'm happyyyyy). Then my friend DS called and I went to meet him. Just before I approached him to shake hands I saw a girl on the escalator so I ran up on there and approached her instead of talking to him (sorry bro :) ). I stood in front of her

Me: "Hi, you;re (...)"

her: blank look at me, I thought she made big eyes in shock

Me: "Easy, I see you;re shocked"

her: "I;m not" - without any enthusiasm

Me: "Well I thought you are because your eyes opened widely" - I showed it here with "sound effect" similiary to how Tyler or Julien shows bambi eyes

her: "uhuh"

Me: seeing this is not going anywhere - "So, you're not thinking I'm cute"

her: emotionless/ tired bitchface. She said it while taking a step to the other side of escalator probably to pass me "I have a boyfriend"

Me: "ok cool" I took a step forward (back of escalator direction) and told her "have a good relationship".

her: unresponsive but might also have mumbled "thanks".

Now the fyunny thing, I forgot I'm on the escalator and wanted to go down by walking in the oppsoite direction for a second :).

Good

  • Approached and ran up without excuses

  • Talked while she was unresponsive and not helping me at all

Bad

  • I don't know what to do if the initial reaction is bad or very neutral.

5th set - a crazy sad girl.

I took the escalator down and saw a cute (older) girl walking so again I ignored friend and ran up to her from behind and switched to walking just next to her.

Me: "Hi!, no we don't know each other" - I added the second one after she turned her head slightly to me.

Her: "What do you want?" - not slowing down, actually maybe even the opposite

Me: "I saw you I think you're cute and I wanted to meet you"

Her: "Oh yeah, like the 90% of the girls you tell that to?" - walked faster or maybe I just slowed down in shock because she said that with a bitch face, bitch voice etc.

Me: "What what what?" - walking up to her side again in shock

Her: "OH JUST LEAVE ME ALONE!" - not shouting but it was a HUGE BITCH voice. So i left, why bother.

Sad girl....

Good

  • I didn't lose state, was happy even though she was a sad bitch.

OVERALL

Good

  • Age is my limiting belief when it comes to older girls and I often think girl is older and I don't approach - this time I did not give much of a fuck

  • Did all approaches solo without wingman

  • Didn't let some bitch ruin my emotional state, not giving a fuck - it was like I barely noticed and just laughed at it to my friend

  • closed

  • Kept eye contact - still not laser one but I think it is an improvement.

  • I think some blockades on my mind were broken.

  • Oh yeah I was sick, coughing from time to time and not feeling too well. Still done a good job :)

  • Talking without thinking

  • I lacked some vibe but still managed to be a bit playful especially during about 15 minute interaction with belarussian #close girl :).

Bad

  • Still passed some sets becasue of "circumstances"

  • Not approached 2-sets even though I wanted 1 or 2 times

  • Got a bit nervous on the #close and approach when I thought girl is older but it was just 2nd open so I wasn't warmed up.