A friendly reminder to both the community and probably more to myself of some of the things I've learned.

  1. Never stop improving. This relates to all aspects of your life. Particularly for me I haven't been improving myself in regards to seduction. Regardless of whether it's seduction, your career, your health; you should always be working to improve.

  2. Figure out what you want. We may all have different reasons to be here. For some of us it's just about sex. For others it's about finding that special someone. Even others are here to keep that person around. It's all the same but it's important you figure out why YOU are here.

  3. Relax. It's just a date. Dates are supposed to be fun. It only stops being fun when you make it a chore or a job. It stops becoming fun when you are outcome determinative.

In preparation for a tentative date I have this weekend I can already begin the Oneitis starting to emerge along with my other bad dating habits I've been working on. "But she's different. We talked for hours the first night we met and she texted you to hang out! She definitely wants to have your kids and meet mom." Hopefully this can be a quick reminder to all of us that seduction is something we need to continue to maintain.