First thing if you are reading this today and contemplating whether or not you want to go out tonight and try to talk to girls just do it. Call or text one of your close guy friends and tell him you guys are going out and meeting women. No excuses. If they don't want to go; just go by yourself. Remember all the reading in the world won't help you pick up women by sitting behind a computer.

I guess that was also my first point: Go out and meet woman. It's that simple. And it is said in almost every thread for a reason.

Remember to be yourself: I think a lot of men fail with woman when they try to be someone they are not. If you are not an alpha don't try to be one. One you are going to come off as fake or worse a loser, and second you are not going to meet quality women by pretending to be someone you are not.

Don't be afraid to speak your mind. One of the reasons a lot of guys like drinking when approaching girls is because your filter is temporarily disabled. Which is sometimes a good thing. If the thought that you want to get this girls number comes into your head you need to act on that thought immediately before you start rationalizing things in your head. Just last week I was thinking about getting this girls number while I was talking to her. And I thought but I'm not going to have time to talk to her over the week. What! That's nonsense. I couldn't believe my mind even thought that for a second.

Have fun. This may be the most important part. Girls react extremely positively when you are having fun. I actually met a girl last week because she walked over to my group of friends after seeing how much fun we were having playing a little drinking game in a bar. Same obviously goes for when you are talking to a girl. Keep it fun and light. This isn't an interview for your dream job. You aren't there to impress each other.

Abundance: I'm not exactly sure why I am including this but I've been thinking about it a lot lately. I am a frequent sufferer of oneitits. After I see a girl a couple of times go on a few dates, and then things fall apart I always feel left defeated. Having other girls numbers in your phone book, or going out and meeting girls again really helps combat that terrible syndrome. Just something to keep in mind if maybe you're getting over someone right now.

Best of luck tonight guys.