Ok, first off, I know I had a really pessimistic post last time. I'll own that. This weekend though, I had more of a don't give AF attitude, and went out twice. First night, talked to a girl, had alright conversation, and got her number. She ended up having a BF though. Tonight, I went out, and I was a bit hype. I got back into dancing again, and even though I was no where as good as I was before, it felt good to get back into it. Made a couple of approaches. Saw this one woman sitting down, and I started playing around with her, telling her how she shouldn't be sitting down on a song like this ("Turn down for what"). Her friend came around, and my goodness she was beautiful, and actually led me to the dance floor to dance with her. I thought I was in. Long story short, I tried to talk to her when the music died down, but she seemed more interested in partying around. They both sat down at one point, and i followed. Tried to salvage what I could, but I could only think of topics such as school, what they did for work, etc (my only conversation crutc as of now is that im working as a doctorate, and I dance :/). So, what kinds of things do you guys talk about to keep that spark and not kill things? (ps. what made it even worse is that i later saw this dude, who I cant lie was genetically blessed with height and other masculine feature, dancing with BOTH the girl I tried talking to, AND this other girl i was interested in. And then pulled her number. Talk about shame man, lol)