Everyone, I just want to reaffirm to you all with approach anxiety that it's easy to get by.

I totally fucked up an approach today. Walked upt ot he girl, didn't really speak to her, other than to ask her name in russian (i'd spoken with her a few weeks ago and she told me she was a russki). Then i just asked her number. She laughed and seemed shocked and asked why i wanted her number, I totally failed in the next part and said "I want to ask you about russia over coffee or drinks"

I handed her my phone and she entered it. Then as she was giving me my bill, I told her i'll give her a call and we can go for drinks.

Next, i thought of another girl i'd spoken to recently and kicked myself for not asking out. Simply walked in (she worked in that shop) asked for her, she came I told her I'd kicked myself for not asking her number before, told her to give it to me and she did.

Over and out - I'm not 100% that the number (first) was real, but i'll assume so until i call it.

I just text both saying "<my name" - not had a reply back, but they were both on shifts. I'll call them in a few days and see what happens then.

Really, no balls needed, no hot-ass game. I pretty much fucked up the first one and wasn't particularly smooth with the second one - I got the number, I learned from the experience I don'thave dates yet, but that'll come.

I am the shit. I feel good. I just figured I bitch enough about people onhere being pussies that I should probably start posting my own FR's too.

Btw - the girls are fucking stunning and I'm not.

what did i learn -

  • fortune favours the bold, smooth or not
  • I got congratulated by some guy as I walked out after getting the Russian chick's number "nicely done dude", what I assumed I fucked up he thought was smooth. He wished he was me. Meaning, doesn't matter who the fuck hears you or is standing by... people think you're the shit cuz you have balls.
  • You can still fuck up and be better off for it (same as point one?)
  • Girls seem surprised sometimes when out of the blue you ask for their number, both reactions were very good.

We all knew this already right?