Tuesday was a Tinder date and most of my gaming was done via text after exchanging numbers. I’ll focus on the messaging first as I had a great time with it and then to the date.

We match and I open with a comment on one of her pictures asking if she paints. A few messages later and it goes like this:

Me - So what’re you looking for on here?

Her - Not one night stands that’s for sure

Me - That’s forward. Do you assume that’s what I’m after?

Her - Lol idk a lot of guys are

Me - Eh, a girls gotta keep her guard up I guess

Her - We do I just feel sorry for the good guys that have to suffer

Me - There’s no such thing as good guys or girls. We’re all selfish

It goes on for a while longer and I ask for the date by saying, I’d like to continue this in person. You cool with that or is the guard still up? She responds with her number.

We engage in more small talk and my goal is to continually bring sex, in one way or another, into the conversation. I want her to know exactly what I’m interested in since she’s not into “one night stands”. This way there’s no awkwardness when I advance in person.

A few examples include:

You could come over here and I make a fresh pot but I don’t know you yet. Stranger danger

It’s cold as hell out so we need to do something indoors. Normally I’d suggest spooning but again, I don’t know you yet

She asks if I’m an “ass man” - I’ve come to appreciate all body parts but as I’ve gotten older, preference is given to the vagina or whatever you prefer to call it

After she reassures she doesn’t have any red flags - Now I’ve just gotta worry about your vagina since all else is in order

cold weather like this makes for great spooning weather. I think I mentioned that already

She eventually comes around and makes a few suggestive comments which I call her out on. She says she can be very dirty but is holding back. I tell her not to.

The Date

We agree that she ubers to my place and I drive us to a bar from there. She’s got a restricted license and I don’t ask why. This works to my benefit right now. I believe she’s immediately smitten as we drive to the bar because she’s kind of hunched on my center console leaning close towards me. I make sure to speak to her the same way I came across via text, a bit arrogant. I’ve made the mistake before of coming across totally different and it lead to the girls being taken back. I belief this was because my online persona was more confident than in real life.

We’re at the bar now and both smokers so we order drinks and head outside. I open a tab. At this point I should note that this girl comes from money and apparently a lot of it. Knowing this, I make sure to speak highly of my career, long term goals, and not scoff at anything expensive although I do occasionally jab her for being kind of a snob.

We hit it off and conversation flows just as easily in person as it did via text. We make our way to a different part of the patio that has a loveseat and firepit. I encourage her to get close and put her legs over mine to keep each other warm. She does and asks if I’m comfortable. I say yes because they’re incredibly close to my dick. I’ve got my arm around here and other on her legs when not sipping or smoking. I go in for a kiss after a short while and we make out on and off for the rest of the night.

After a few hours I suggest we close out. She says we should go back to my place, get my clothes for tomorrow, and go to her place. I’m down and we do exactly that. She gives me the tour and we make out some, change into pajamas, and jump in bed. She says we aren’t having sex but can fool around. She’s into dirty talk and it gets ridiculous because I’m not. I end up fingering her to orgasm over the panties and says she needs to return the favor. She goes down on me, I stay the night, and leave in the morning.

Hope you enjoyed the read and hopefully someone finds some value out of it. Let me know if you have any questions.