So basically, I'm here because I kind of suck at this. Throughout High School there were a couple girls who were basically down for me. But I never did anything, mostly because I was saving myself for a girl I really liked(yes I know it's dumb). I went through a stage of depression in my life for various reasons, but earlier last summer I was getting out of it and lost about 30-40 pounds in 4 months so I could ask out a girl I really liked who was a family friend. After 4 years of knowing her she basically turned me down in a nice way stating that "she only saw me as a family friend" etc.... and that I'm nice and that we would kick it soon as a group. That basically devastated me, bringing me back into depression and making me gain all my weight back. I think I look decent and drive a nice car. I'm able to make girls laugh, etc, and I picked up some of the more aggressive aspects to getting girls, rather than being too nice to women. I just pretty much suck at texting, and I dont really text girls, just speak to them within a group if they're there with a friend. This is me http://imgur.com/a/hA9up