The good ol’ LJBF speech, got to love it LOL. A lot of guys have heard this including myself in the past but what most guys don’t realize is that it’s THEIR ACTIONS that cause a woman to say this to them. I didn’t realize this until I my game started to get better and I stopped hearing it.

No lie, I never hear the LJBF speech anymore. I just don’t allow that because of the actions that I take when I go out and approach women. I’m man to woman and they know when I approach them I’m hitting on them so I force them to make a decision; either they like me or they don’t there is no in the middle with me. I’m polarizing when it comes to approaching women. You should be also if you never want to her the LJBF talk ever again.

When a woman tells you she just wants to be friends what she is really saying is without saying it is, “Your actions didn’t turn me on enough to make me FEEL anything for you.” It’s also another way for a woman to reject you politely, 9 times out 10 they don’t even want to be friends with you. It’s your job as a man to make her feel those emotions.

Now granted with some women no matter if you do everything right they aren’t going to feel anything for you because their is no chemistry and that’s ok. We will not have chemistry with every woman you meet. That is apart of the game.

I’m talking about the women who are open to meeting someone that you get friend zoned with those are the women who you need to take these 4 steps with in order to friend zone proof yourself.

Number One - Being Direct - Being direct and honest about why you are approaching her sets the tone for the interaction which is man to woman. The first thing I say to a woman that I approach whether it be doing the day or night is, “I saw you and I thought you were (cute, sexy, etc) and I had to come say hello.”

Seriously that is all I say and most women respond well to that. It’s simple, direct and to the point. You can use indirect openers but I find that those are the ones that tend to get you in the friend zone and you have to approach more women when you go indirect.

I personally like going direct and cutting through the B.S. to see which women have some interest. I’m not going to go back and forth about the old direct vs indirect argument, they both work but I have found that for my students and I this is what is most effective and efficient.

Number Two - Stating Your Intentions - After you have used your direct opener I find that stating your intentions via Statements Of Intent (SOIs) tend to not only make a woman more attracted to you but help weed out the women who are really interested and who aren’t.

Examples of SOIs are:

“I’m totally thinking dirty thoughts right now

I’m too attracted to you right now please get away from me

Stop trying to seduce me

Please don’t smile your turning me on

I’m so tempted to make out with you right now but I’m going to make you wait

You should sprinkle these throughout the interaction and not say them back to back as it can be overkill. SOIs should be said in a playful but seductive way.

Number Three - Physical Escalation Physical touch aka Kino is the NUMBER ONE WAY to weed out the women who are truly open and who aren’t. Women will flirt with you all day long and tell you they like you, want to see you again, etc once you have the skills but the ones that let you touch them and escalate that touch are the ones who are really interested.

What most guys don’t realize is that women communicate through touch a lot more then men do. If you go out to a bar or club and sometimes during the day you will see women handing hands, smacking each other on the ass, playing with each other’s boobs, touching each other’s hair, etc. Touch is a powerful communication tool for women and so when a guy who approaches them touches her she knows exactly what that means.

You guys who are afraid to touch that is why a lot of you guys get friend zoned because women know when you don’t touch them that you have no balls and they lose attraction. If a woman is showing interest SHE WANTS YOU TO TOUCH HER! Here are the top 7 physical escalation moves that I use consistently and that work consistently.

High Five

Hugs

Claw

Spin

Lift

Kiss on cheeks

Kiss

Number Four - Going For Sex - When you are on the date, in your car or especially at your place with her alone YOU MUST GO FOR SEX! Even if you don’t get it that doesn’t matter because most women will be turnt on that you at least went for it. Despite what they say women love to be seduced.

A lot of the times you will get sex just by having some balls and going for it. When trying to seduce a woman the physical escalation get more intense and there needs to be some physical push/pull and teasing.

Remember when it comes to sex men get turned on like a. Light switch and women like a VOLUME KNOB meaning that FOREPLAY is a BIG PART of getting a woman to have sex aka getting her out of her mind and into her body. Here are the foreplay moves that I use to seduce women:

Kiss/Bit Her Neck

Caress Her Breast

Suck Her Breast

Make Her Rub My Hard Dick

Rub Her Pussy

Finger Fuck Her

Eat Her Pussy

Remember we you are doing these moves to slow down a bit when you are doing them reframe from rushing. Also mix up the moves and don’t stay on one for too long that will turn a woman on even more.

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Wishing you much success with women and dating.