When you first meet a woman that you are attracted to it’s VERY important to keep how you feel about her to yourself. I’m not saying not to give her compliments here and there, etc.

I’m talking about spelling out your guts and all your feelings to a woman you just met. There is nothing that dries a woman up faster then a guy who confesses his love for her and she barely know him. That is the quickest way for you to get put in the friend zone and have women disappear on you.

When you haven’t had much success with women and then you finally have a woman that shows some interest in you it’s easy to become desperate and needy, I have been there and done that.

However you must reframe from doing so if you want to have success with women LONG TERM. Here is a general rule that you should follow, don’t tell women your true feelings until you are in a relationship or sleeping with her regularly as a fuck buddy.

For that I have something called, The 3 Month Rule

Don’t tell a woman how you truly feel until you have gotten to know her and have sex with her for at least 90 days. When I follow the 3 month rule things almost always work out for me I.e. women chase me, text me first and often, want to be in a relationship, etc.

The three month rule also allows you to see the woman that you are interested in imperfections. Most guys tend to put women on a pedestal but when you get to find out who she really is and that she is human just like you then it takes her off her pedestal and you will start to act more normal.

If you think the 3 month rule sounds ridiculous then think about this, most jobs have a 90 day probation period to see if they want to keep you employed. Why do you think that is?

To see if you are truly a fit with that company, they are essential screening you. Just because your resume looks good and you have references that say nice things about you doesn’t mean you are necessarily going to be a good fit for the company.

When you meet a woman her resume is the makeup, high heels, cleavage, etc in other words that isn’t the real her so why confuse your love to a woman who you don’t even know and could be a horrible human being or on the flip side why mess up what could be the woman who could be right for you by being needy and clingy.

This is what happen when you tell a woman how you feel about her too soon

Number One - You are seen as needy and clingy

Number Two - You show your insecurity

Number Three - There is no challenge for her and she gets bored

Number Four - It kills all the initial attraction she had for you

Things you say when you are showing your feelings too soon - Before 3 months of knowing her.

Number One - I really like you

Number Two - Do you like me?

Number Three - I haven’t met a girl like you before

NO, NO AND HELL NO!

In the beginning you want to say and do things that make her think about you and chase you.

Here are some things you can do to make that happen:

Number One - Tease her Playful banter almost always gets a woman interested into you because most guys are afraid to tease her in fear of pissing her off. It also takes her off her pedestal and shows that you are intimated by her.

Number Two - Not Always Immediately Returning Her Text Or Calls When you aren’t always available at her beck and call it shows her that you have a life and she isn’t the center of your universe.

Number Three - Having Boundaries Having the ability to say no and letting her know what behavior you will and won’t tolerate when she crosses a boundary is SO IMPORTANT especially in the beginning of getting to know a woman. What you do in the beginning of getting to know her sets the tone for the rest of the relationship.

Number Four- Having Other Women In Your Life Spinning plates is the most powerful way to get a woman to think about and chase you.

I’m very honest about women in the beginning that I have other women in my life because I like to be honest about things like that and some do complain but most of them stick around because women are attracted to men who have other women who are interested in them. That is just a fact that can’t be denied.

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Wishing you much success with women and dating.