Honestly, scrolling through this section is a bit weird. Seems as though there are a lot of desperate people swarming here. Don't be offended, I'll try to explain:

first off, you're a human being. It's your job to live. How do you live well? By contributing to the improvement of the race as a collective. How to do this? By being of value to the people around you.

As a man, in this specific context, it simply means that it is your job to help make women feel good about themselves. Simple as that.

What are you trying to prove by "gaming" women? To prove how cool you are? How desirable you are? How strong and confident you are?

True confidence does not need proof. It just "is".

You wake up and you decide you are a confident person who has value to offer to the world; help make it a better place. That's it. Sounds cliché, doesn't it? Even so, it's the truth.

If you're desperately looking for relationships, you are not worthy of it. A relationship is a sacrifice. If you don't understand this, you'll probably will one day. Some people never do though, which is a pity.

It being a sacrifice does not mean it is a negative thing. To the human being who has transcended his own ego based fears, sacrifice is the most joyful and meaningful act in life. So if you're desperately looking for a relationship, thinking it will somehow complete you, it means that your mind is completely off center.

Sacrifice means that you give yourself up for the creation of something new of which you will be a part. Something dies and something is born. We already do this every day on an infinite amount of levels. Cell regeneration being just one of the many examples.

"Gaming" or "tricking" or even "forcing" women into a relationship (which does include one-night-stands) with you, just for the sake of your own ego, is really selfish. You're not helping yourself, nor the other person. Not in a direct, positive way at least. Indirectly you do learn things from the pain you're causing. So don't beat yourself up... even bad intentions can have fruitful expressions, if you're willing to learn. Always keep that in mind.

Ironically, all you have to do is share your inner love and make women (actually, people) feel good about themselves as much as you can possibly bear. That's your number one priority after you transcend your own BS.

You're not playing this game for your own sake, there are other people involved as well. Don't misuse that, be honest.

Help women (people) bring out the best in themselves and they will open up to you.

In the case of women, specifically, this "works" really well. And if you meet women who are able to join you on that level, everything that happens next is just a celebration of coming together. Please do enjoy it but don't project your illusions, fears or whatever onto the other person. Don't allow yourself to get attached, you have to be able to let go at any moment, if the other person so wishes. Don't become a leech. You don't "need" a woman to be a real man same as you don't need anyone else for approval. See yourself and other people for who they really are. State your intentions truthfully and honourably; do not take advantage of them.

Seeking relationships nowadays is almost always for the sake of approval. A trophy wife on your hand, an all powerful man by their side, it's all smoke and mirrors. It's social, ego, fear driven drivel. It construes to the expressions of a weak mind.

So if you decide to play the "game", please do it for the right reasons. If it is to build your ego, you've already lost.

Remember: true confidence does not need validation.