I've hooked up with a girl a couple times and I'm not sure how to keep things cool without scaring her off with too much intimacy.

Just because of who I am as a person, I tend to treat every girl I'm with as more than just a booty call. I'll ask them to come over to dinner, I'll take them on walks, I'll say cute stuff to them over pillowtalk, I'll pull them in for a kiss before they leave – essentially, I don't just tell them to come over to fuck and then kick her out when we're finished.

My question is – are these things OK to do when I'm just starting to hook up with a girl? I'm not sure where things are going with this girl, but I definitely don't want to scare her off. Should I not kiss her when she leaves, and avoid asking her to do date-type activities? I guess I'm wondering how to strike a balance between 1) staying cool enough to not scare her off, and 2) being kind and intimate enough so that she doesn't feel like just a bootycall.

Thanks!