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[–]MiracleKappa3 7 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
That’s the basics I believe
[–]Blue-Moon78[S] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Great tips!
[–]canarywocoalmine 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Excellent tips. Add:
[–]Maluc0 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You left out how you left things after the walked you to class part. Should have number closed then. Was there a reason not to? She may have been disappointed that you didn't ask and that dropped your worth to her by showing her you aren't confident. Her "ignoring" you is most likely a test. You need to show her you have the confidence to break through that and get her number. Ie approach and be direct "hey (insert name here), we had a blast chatting the other day. You should give me your number so I can take you to dinner and do it again"
Keep us updated on your progress.
[–]Blue-Moon78[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You’re right. She told me bye that day like 2-3 times, stopped turned around and smiled at me like she was waiting. I know I’m NOT supposed to focus my attention on one girl, but I’m very particular with the women I go after (looks isn’t the only thing I consider). Maybe I just wanted to take my time. Or maybe, I should of just grown a pair and went after he then. I will keep you updated, thanks for your comment.
[–]LionVenom10 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The way I see it is the opposite of how you see it. I think you’re overanalysing the latest incident.
[–]Blue-Moon78[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for this, you boys on Reddit are my inspiration/motivation.
[–]MiracleKappa3 7 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
You’re correct there’s something there. Don’t waste time & Ask for a date. Don’t be needy, when texting. On a date, escalate sexual chemistry, at the end go for a kiss. If failed move on, continue about your every day life, she may miss you and come back, as you established you’re not there for friendship. Play ‘to win’ and not ‘not to lose’ - learnt the hard way. good luck
Thanks man. Any tips for indirectly escalating sexual tension? Because this isn’t a relationship I want just for sex, but yet I want her to think about me in a sexual way.
[–]MiracleKappa30 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
In regard to your comment ‘I want her for relationship and not for sex’
It’s is a wrong mindset, relationship is sex. With your mindset you already somewhat put her on a pedestal which is wrong. She is a sexual being shat should be first and foremost sexually desiring you. Once you get that part done, you can think about the relationship.
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