I am wondering if anyone knows how to pull of some sort of long game. Everything I read had this drastic escalation curve. I get why....as it turns into the friend zone quickly. I feels to me that sometimes you want to keep that option for another time. I remember instances back in high school where people always had a vibe or connection and then ended up hooking up or dating years or so later. I can get attraction but after several weeks or so I become human to them....

The suckiest feeling for me is to have a crappy day or an off one. Then I look at a girl and the light in their eyes has died.