So here's my field report not even 20 minutes old.
TL;DR: I made out with a Russian HB8 in her room on the second night I went out with her.
My friend's birthday was yesterday so we all decided to go out to the club together to celebrate. There are a bunch of foreign exchange students here at the moment and I have been making friends with them all individually over the last 2 weeks.
There is a particularly attractive Russian girl whom is a little older and in my age range. She would probably be a 7+ if she was american, but is an easy 8 with the accent.
She told me early on that she had a boyfriend back in Russia, like a 3 year boyfriend. I played it cool, but still took her out to a club once early on.
Tonight I kiss closed her.
I invited her and her friends out to the club with us. They all accepted because they all knew I was a "cool guy" individually. It only added to my presence when they found out I was the one who invited them all.
I rocked the club, but maintained my focus on the target, Ruskie. I made sure to put 75% of my focus on her, and 25% on other girls and the high status males in my group. This is the essence of being "at one with your fellow man" be a party guy for the girls, and a best "bro" to the highest status guys.
Eventually, you will be the highest status male, but for now, just give respect. In time you will be king.
Where was I? Oh right, Ruskie.
So we come back to the dorms where we live and another group of guys that know me stop us in the parking lot. I bullshit with them for a few minutes and nearly the whole time my buddy, that is working his hardest for Ruskie, talks to her. I made sure to bring her back into the group every once in a while, especially right after I made everyone laugh or feel good. I ruled that group again, I gave respect where it was due, but kept the conversation moving in my direction. Not about me, but my choosing.
I could tell the enthusiasm was waning, so I asked one guy if he wanted to move to his room. He agreed and I told Ruskie I was going and she could join if she wanted or I could walk her back to her room. Note I told her what I was doing, and she accepted. Either one of these is really an acceptation of me, but that's advanced shit that I won't get into here.
So half the group is now in my friend's room. I asked Ruskie while we were walking if she wanted to smoke with them. This was privately between us two and I was planning on aligning myself to her at this point. If she said yes, I would have smoked (ONLY A LITTLE). When she said no, I said something like "me neither, I had too much last night." Note: I had already smoked with her before.
So they all smoke, maybe 5 of them myself and Ruskie. By now you might notice that I have been whittling down her potential obstacles. This was so important I jumped up from my bed two nights ago to scribble it on my mirror: Ditch the guards, get the girl!
That should be etched in gold. If you aren't actively thinking about isolation, you aren't doing service to your dick.
So finally we (Ruskie and I now, because I've been making serious one-on-one eye contact with her all night), asked Ruskie's Russian friend if he wanted to go home. He agreed because he was wacked out of his head. As we were walking him back I made a few quiet comments to Ruskie about her friends being silly drunks. (This plants the idea that we are not that drunk and also that her friends have had enough)
We let him into his room and now it's just Ruskie and I. I make sure to maintain KINO on the way back to her room. This is the wrong time to go for KINO, you should have already been doing it lightly all night!
I told her "I'm just dropping you off, then I need to get back." Walked her into her room, asked her if everything was OK and asked if she had a good time. It's hard to tell with people that speak little English. She said it was good and added it was one of the most fun nights yet. So I said good night. She kissed me lightly on each cheek and I just held her close the second time. I kissed her on the each side of her mouth and when she didn't resist, I kissed her lightly on the lips, paused a second and then really kissed her on the lips. I made sure to take my hands off of her face to give her the chance to freak out, but I put my hands lightly in hers.
She didn't back away so I kissed her for a good 10 seconds, then made sure to break contact first. This is what I call the "phone home." You're doing this with her to make sure she is comfortable with what is going on. She just kinda stared at me with that glazed over look. That look is like sex to me now, I just feel it deep down.
I kissed her again and this time she came to life, squirming underneath me like a sexy ass squid. Again, I wasn't forcing anything, I wasn't gripping her hard, I was just gently holding her with my arms while pushing somewhat hard with my body, if that makes seance. She should feel like she can get away if she wanted to but that you are still holding her.
This time she broke off kissing (I probably made out with her a little too long). And she said "What is the meaning of this?" I replied, "What do you want? I think you like this." And kissed her again. She responded passionately. But then a few seconds later, she kinda resisted and I never want the rep of a molester, so I eased off. She said "I like this but we shouldn't do this right now" I said "I know, we really shouldn't." And kissed her again (thanks Mystery!). Again, I was using the kiss to gauge her reactions to me. I gave passion in, and got passion out.
The last time I could feel that she didn't want go all the way, maybe LMR I'm not really ready for that, so I broke it off and said "Ruskie, you are so sweet, I really had fun tonight, but I must get back to my friends." She said thanks for the really great time and kissed me on the cheeks again. I left.
Well, it's long. I'll write a TL;DR up top, but thanks for sticking around. For you who read the whole thing, let me tell you this; It can happen to you, it is all in applying yourself and working hard towards your goal. Thanks again seddit, you rule!
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