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"I get that a alot"
/r/seduction26/11/10 02:51 PM
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My favorite is "Are you an impulsive person" if she says yes you just go for it if she says anything else just say "I am" and go for it. Also, I've noticed that this thread's top 2 comments at the time I am writing this are not actually advice. We JUST had a discussion yesterday about not upvoting non-serious responses. I was here when Seddit was around 4,000 members and at that time I would devour every single post that popped up. Now I find myself skimming though pages and only finding a few p…
/r/seduction25/11/10 08:03 PM
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100% this. I know it sounds juvenile and gimmicky but this really is the best(and most fun) way to boost your confidence. Just go out and pretend you are the shit. ain't nothin' gonna break your stride, ain't nothin' gonna slow you down. Think of it as a joke at first. play off your new confidence as a way to poke fun at how un-confident you usually are. After awhile you will see positive results are you will start to develop your own natural confidence
/r/seduction17/11/10 04:32 PM
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I'm actually laying next to the hb I just fucked as I type this on my phone. But you're probably just trolling so I guess it doesn't matter
/r/seduction12/11/10 06:42 AM
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Haha yeah. Not much I can say after that. But I don't think calling me a "retard" was necessary
/r/seduction12/11/10 02:40 AM
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If you can come up with great responses but it takes you some time, try working on your text game. Use the down time between texts to come up with the perfect witty response. That will build your confidence until you can think on your feet in real-life situations
/r/seduction11/11/10 05:48 PM
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Wow! The guy in the 2nd video has some incredible game. I watched it twice, once watching his body language and once watching hers. It's interesting to see how the attraction develops throughout the video
/r/seduction11/11/10 05:17 PM
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value his advice not only in terms of having a girlfriend but dealing with >people and other relationships overall This. Before I stumbled across seddit, The Game, and PUA in general this article helped my relationships with everyone in my social circle, guys AND girls. This was my epiphany
/r/seduction10/11/10 11:20 PM
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When I first read this article I had the same reaction as you but the more I thought about it, the more I realized he was right. His friends saw him as a jerk because they could no longer walk all over him. They weren't his real friends to begin with
/r/seduction10/11/10 11:18 PM
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Yeah, reading this article is what started me down the path to my better self. After I read this article I came across The Game and then Seddit and now my life is so much better than I could have imagined. I hope it can help out others the way it helped me
/r/seduction10/11/10 07:58 PM
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Hey guys, I have a google group set up for Atl sedditors. PM me with your email and I'll add you guys to the group!
/r/seduction09/11/10 07:30 PM
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The 2nd paragraph was meant as more of a joke about college haha. If there is one lesson I've learned from college it is to never drink and game, that's where creepers come from
/r/seduction02/11/10 05:21 PM
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The MOST important thing to college game is social proof. I cannot stress that enough. Make sure girls know that you have clout and can lead a party. Show confidence and try to always have girls hanging around you when you are out in public. Another tactic that works pretty well is to get drunk, dance with a girl and start making out.
/r/seduction02/11/10 03:31 AM
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Kino! When you meet a girl for the first time you shouldn't be trying to form an emotional connection. It sounds to be like you are getting LJBF'd quite a bit. You don't have AA but you still sabotage yourself by giving off "friend" vibes whenever you meet a new girl. Kino The first conversations you have with a new girl should not go any deeper than playful teasing. Serious conversations and emotional connections are better left for after you have already grabbed her attention in other ways. Ki…
/r/seduction21/10/10 03:15 PM
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I feel like moving the challenges to a separate subreddit will severely limit their exposure. Keeping them in Seddit will let more people see it and respond to it and get a better conversation going. Just my 2 cents
/r/seduction04/10/10 08:28 PM
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I usually do, but that night was different for some reason. But I have no one to blame but myself
/r/seduction28/09/10 03:20 AM
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I'm going to have to disagree. I play the asshole a lot. It's great for using cocky/funny. But what I did that night was more than cocky/funny, it was verbal abuse and she deserved that apology
/r/seduction28/09/10 03:20 AM
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It would have to be a situational opener. One recent example for me was a few days ago. I was walking back to my house after getting a haircut and I saw these 2 girls sitting on the sidewalk with a bunch of grocery bags looking exhausted. I walked over to them and said "You both look homeless. Except for the designer purses that is" They smiled and laughed and we ended up talking for a few minutes and I number closed both of them. Just look for something unique about the girl to comment on, as l…
/r/seduction23/09/10 03:07 PM
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Yeah, man! After that interaction I starting gaming EVERYONE. It makes everyday life more enjoyable and when you get a good reaction from a person(HB or not) it just makes you feel so good. If you want to work on your game, don't worry about HBs, just talk to PEOPLE. treat HBs like any other person at first and interactions will go so much smoother
/r/seduction28/07/10 12:03 AM
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Yeah, I was going to open just her at first but I could feel the bitch shield radiating from her. I didn't know if i would ever get a chance to opener but gaming everyone around me worked out great.
/r/seduction27/07/10 11:06 PM
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I wrote a post a few days ago concerning openers that you might want to take a look at. You should also check out quazzy's post. It has some really interesting mp3s you should definitely listen to. Good luck!
/r/seduction25/07/10 02:04 AM
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It's good to see more and more FRs with kiss-closes and F closes. This community is a great asset to so many people and it seems to really be making a difference. Great job ponce! You did everything right it looks like. I liked the way you were constantly focused on isolation(hardest part for me) and how you were constantly DHV with your social proof. I look forward to hearing more from you in the future. Keep it up!
/r/seduction23/07/10 03:41 PM
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Consider posting a shout out to other Cleveland PUAs. With over 6000 subscribers to this subreddit I'm sure you can find someone to go sarging with. I did the same thing looking for sedditors in my city and now we have a group of about 7 people who email each other almost daily.
/r/seduction18/07/10 11:17 PM
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I get what you are trying to say but I think you missed the point. It's not about what you say, it's how you say it. What I was advocating is having something to say. And if you know how to say it in the right way, with enough confidence, and with enough passion, that's what's gonna get the girl. Having a conversation you have had before helps you get "in the moment" it gets you comfortable and relaxes you so that you can be wittier and more suave. I've just started to listen to the audio file y…
/r/seduction18/07/10 06:03 PM
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Great advice! I couldn't agree more. Saying pretty much anything with confidence will put you ahead of most people in the club. Also, I'm not sure how much you used her but your HB9 wingwoman can be a HUGE asset to you. I went out with an HB7 wingwoman the other night and just having her smiling and laughing around me was enough to get the attention of a lot of the girls around me(some of which eventually came up and started dancing with us, at which point my wing ejected leaving me with 2 beaut…
/r/seduction18/07/10 02:45 PM
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Way to go! Approaching people is more than half the battle. a few more of those and and you will start to feel your AA fade away. Only advice I can give is to try to live more in the moment. Stop thinking of reasons NOT to approach people and just do it. Don't think of consequences, just think about having a good time and saying what you want. If you are really confident and in the moment people will respond very well to almost anything you say! Great job and keep it up man!
/r/seduction18/07/10 02:37 PM
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I agree 100%. As I said in another comment, I use situational openers more than canned openers these days but that's only because I am a lot better at thinking on my feet and finding cool and interesting ways to start conversations. More often, I use the "opener" in the middle of the conversation like you suggested. It's a great way to salvage a sinking conversation or change the topic to something you are comfortable talking about. Sometimes I'll even use one in the middle of a conversation jus…
/r/seduction18/07/10 04:19 AM
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That's what I'm saying. Use canned openers to break the ice, then transition into a different topic where you can DHV or use kino or build rapport. The problem is - you're setting yourself up to expect a certain response every single time and that fucks with your "being in the moment" you're going to need to be able to improvise and react. If you think too much about what material you're going to use next you're bound to forget some vital signs or miss something you could have commented on or ex…
/r/seduction18/07/10 04:03 AM
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remember, only use it if you actually give a shit! I personally think women lie more but men withhold the truth more often, but that might just be because of personal experience haha.
/r/seduction18/07/10 03:38 AM
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Yeah, but you can apply those 3 scenarios to any number of ways to open a set. The point of using the canned opener is that you use it again and again so you get used to all the different ways people can respond. So when you get the "I don't care" response you have heard it before and now how to still maintain control and form an answer that will keep you in the set and keep you in your frame. And no, I haven't listened to the files you posted yet but I have bookmarked for when I have some free …
/r/seduction18/07/10 03:35 AM
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I can't deny that it may be the most overused opener but it still genuinely fascinates me to hear what people have to say. I have a few others that I use just as frequently but I always come back to the classic. I have never been called out on the game but if someone caught me using that line I wouldn't flinch, I would acknowledge it and continue to ask her the question and pretend she never brought it up.
/r/seduction18/07/10 03:26 AM
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We all were at one point, but those of us who are making the transition from AFC to PUA are here to help!
/r/seduction18/07/10 03:21 AM
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Yeah, I guess I should have cleared that up. I don't just walk up to a girl and ask her verbatim: "Who lies more, men or women?" I always try to add some context. But even if I'm not quick enough to think of a situational context to put it in, just using something like "I need a quick female opinion: Who lies more, men or women?" is good enough. If you make it sound urgent they won't even think of it as strange. Then, when she answers you can chide her for giving a bad answer(negging) or look re…
/r/seduction18/07/10 03:18 AM
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But what happens after "Hi"? When I first started sarging I was still very nervous and it was tough to notice anything except my sweaty palms: Me: Hey guys! HBs: Hi. Me:....nice party HBs: Yeah. Me: .....ok, well it was nice meeting you I think that situational openers are great and I probably use them more than I use canned openers, but sometimes it's hard to find something circumstantial to talk about. You can use a canned opener on a cute girl you saw 3 seconds earlier. If you wait to find so…
/r/seduction18/07/10 02:57 AM
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I can do that with no problem, and it's a great way to start conversations but when I was first starting out with this stuff, I couldn't do that. Sure, if a girl has some cool looking shoes i could walk up and say "hey, nice shoes, where did you get them" or something like that but it was hard to keep a conversation going with that. The advantage of canned openers is, imo, that you have already had this conversation several times before so you know what to expect and know how to keep it going. B…
/r/seduction18/07/10 02:54 AM
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"Average Frustrated Chump" There's a list of PUA terms on the right side of the subreddit if you have any more questions
/r/seduction18/07/10 02:33 AM
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That's what it's all about, having a good time. As long as you are having a good time the people around you will be having a good time. The next time you go out, draw on that confidence that you gained from your drunken escapades and let it fuel your next great night out. Keep it up!
/r/seduction18/07/10 01:44 AM
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Yeah, just PM me your email and I'll give you all the details
/r/seduction15/07/10 04:45 PM
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Yeah man, shoot me your email and I'll send you an invite to our google group
/r/seduction15/07/10 04:44 PM
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Nothing secret to hide! I'm pretty busy tonight and tomorrow but you can feel free to repost it if you have the time. Mystery was in town? Wish I would have known about that. Are you from the Atl area?
/r/seduction15/07/10 03:14 AM
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Cocky, funny, and gets the idea of sex into her head. Perfect
/r/seduction13/07/10 03:14 PM
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I got up from the couch where we were massaging each other and went to the bathroom. When I came back, I sat in.a chair across the room. Not so far away that it was weird but far enough away to let her know I'm done playing games
/r/seduction09/07/10 01:04 PM
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Thanks for the advice, It's always welcome. I could definitely see the downside of being the dancing guy and will probably move around the bar more next time. The dance floor was where I felt most comfortable and being that it was my first time out at a bar I figured it was best to stick with what I knew
/r/seduction09/07/10 12:10 AM
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Absolutely! In the few months since reading "The Game" and getting into PUA I have gone from the stoner that no one talks to in my fraternity to a viable candidate for Vice President. I
/r/seduction08/07/10 03:14 PM
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here's my question. Does it have to be sexual? If I was to try to use game in approaching women, is that only applicable when it comes to attempting to sleep with them, or is it useful in just seeking more female friends? Absolutely! After awhile most PUAs adopt the attitude of "gaming everyone". Most parts of the Game are making a woman comfortable around you. You can still neg, DHV, and be cocky funny and not even cross into the sexual realm. I use a lot of the techniques I learned form Seddit…
/r/seduction09/06/10 09:55 PM
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Same here
/r/seduction05/06/10 02:20 PM
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I have been dealing with something similar. In my group of friends I'm probably the 2nd or 3rd best at picking up girls. I haven't really read too much into PUA techniques other than be confident. I recently found my confidence and it has been amazing, but I digress. I can usually walk up to a girl, start a conversation, and generate at least some interest most of the time. But sometimes if I'm working a particularly desirable girl one of the AMOGs will walk over and start up a conversation. I h…
/r/seduction19/04/10 06:03 PM
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He's wearing a 3-wolf moon shirt, of course he is going to be great with women.
/r/seduction05/04/10 02:07 PM
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