Help with getting women to qualify themselves

TrollyMcTrollFag · 2010-10-27T22:08:57+00:00

First, eliminate the over-qualifying. It's a game killer.

I tease. I can usually get a woman to qualify me in about 5 seconds flat when I tease them about something.

Now, there is a fine line between being an asshole, and using teasing to up your game. Never tease a woman about her appearance, at least not her physical appearance–clothing, attire, etc. are all fair game tho, as long as you don't imply anything about her physical appearince with the teasing–ie "you look fat."

Let me give you an example of something I did the other day without realizing it: I'm facebook friends with an HB8 in one of my classes at my uni. I've honestly not run any real game on her before, and we've been casual acquaintances for the last couple years. I emailed her over the weekend requesting details on one of our upcoming hw assignments. She never responded. The next day in class, she hadn't completed the assignment herself, and apologized for not getting back to me. I immediately started giving her shit, saying "you must have been partying too hard this weekend. Partygirl. You're trouble, we can't be friends," and more stuff like this. I sort of did this inadvertently, as I've internalized a lot of my game and the methods of communication. This opened the floodgates of qualification–she (honest to god) spent the next 5 minutes talking about how she's such a good-girl, and she really never parties, but this weekend was crazy, but she really never does this kind of thing. I was really taken-aback by how forcefully she was qualifying herself. After class, she ran to catch up with me and continued talking to me.

It really doesn't take much, but I think what is required is a few simple steps:

1: feel out what you think this person's core values are or what they feel is important to their identities.

2: tease them about something they've done or said that isn't in line with these values or identities (but do so in a good-natured way).

3: make no apologies for the teasing

4: sit back, and watch the qualification begin.

harmreductionist · 2010-10-27T16:47:29+00:00

Three step process that I use:

First, make sure to handle/initiate the shit test well. I usually start talking about something that I know they can't possibly like. (Usually baseball) Then stick to my guns

Second, bring up family or animals or something else cute and sweet and give them an opportunity to say they find one of those things important.

Third, when they do say they love their family or doggies or something of that sort say something simple like 'really? (pause) I like that. Then give them some eye contact. Next, look away like you are really thinking about it. You want to give the impression you have always been looking for someone who felt that way.

Done and done

2010-10-27T19:25:58+00:00

Offer them a job.

philosarapter · 2010-10-28T14:14:12+00:00

Here's one of my lines you can use:

"Let me guess, you're one of those girls who __________" rolls eyes

Just take a guess at what she does that may be embarassing or true. If its true just act like "oh this will never work out!" "those type of girls are nuts!"

pickup_startist · 2010-10-27T20:32:35+00:00

I tend to over-qualify myself

Fix this first.

Title	Help with getting women to qualify themselves
Author	Benjamin_Wankin
Upvotes	6
Comments	9
Date	October 27, 2010 4:41 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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