Let me just start off by saying THIS STUFF WORKS. I read The Game a few months ago and have slowly been incorporating a lot of PUA stuff into my life and it has really paid off. But enough of this, let's get to the action.
Field Report 1: So I've known this girl(HB 7) online for about 2 years now but we never really discussed meeting until a few months ago. I know there's gonna be that awkward transition from internet buddies to IRL friends but I'm not too worried. Anyway, I show up to her place to go grab some lunch but as soon as we leave I get roped into running and errand with her. Not wanting to get into the frame of being her little errand boy I tell her that she has to go run some errands with me afterward, just to be fair. she smiles and agrees. As we are driving she is already making excuses to get me to come back into her place after we go eat(“omg, I have to show you this song!” “ I just got this great new movie we should watch!”) I’m off to a great start if I do say so myself.
Anyway, we go eat, get over that initial awkwardness and head back to her place. We end up on her bed playing with her pussy(cat) but she gets up before I have a chance to escalate. Now it’s movie time. We settle down on the couch but she puts her cat right between us. I immediately move the cat and she gets up to go put in the movie and when she comes back she sits noticeably closer to me. Not as close as I would like, but definitely progress. Movie starts, jokes are made, laughs are had, things are going well. Things continue going well and eventually she asks for a back massage. I tell her yes but only under the condition that she returns the favor(once again, trying not to fall into the trap of only doing her favors). Things go well, I get her leaning back into me, massaging her head. Here’s where the problem’s start. Everytime I tried to escalate from the massage I got resistance. I’m sure it was just ASD(she’s just out of high school and doesn’t have a lot of experience with guys) so whenever I feel her resist I stop the massage and we switch positions so she is massaging me. This goes back and forth 2 or 3 times until I decide to pull away all together and make her come to me. As soon as I do her flirting escalates DRAMTICALLY. I’m well on my way to closing but then I get a cock-blocked by my parents(it was the day before the 4th of July and I was home from college for the weekend and my family wanted to spend time with me.) We make plans for a day 2 and I leave. Day 2 never happened(poor planning on my end, it was the 4th of July). Overall I would consider it a success and we have planned to meet up again the next time I come home in a few weeks.
Now, on to Field Report numero dos: Monday night I head out to a local tavern with a fellow sedditor, Verth. I just recently turned 21 so this tavern is going to pop my bar cherry pretty much. Because it’s my first time out I tell myself not to even try to go for any kind of close, just have a good time and get used to the bar atmosphere. So we get to the bar and there is a Dj spinning some sweet tunes and I hop right on the dance floor. There aren’t many people on the floor dancing when we get there but we don’t care, we just want to have a good time regardless of who else is. Well after about 25-30 minutes of dancing our asses off(read: flailing our limbs with some coordination to the beat) we have a huge crowd of dancers around us clapping and dancing and screaming and just having a good time. I start making friends left and right. People are complimenting me on my “dance moves” and telling me how funny I am. Then, out of nowhere, 2 of the HOTTEST girls in the bar(HB8 and HB9) come up and start dancing with ME. This blows my mind and part of me wants to stop dancing and try to chat them up but I remember my goal for the night and I keep on dancing, not just with them but with everyone. After awhile the girls start chatting me up telling me how cool I am and how cool it is to see someone really letting go on the dance floor. We talk for a bit and then we split. By the end of the night we were pretty much recognized by most people in the bar(SO much social proof) and people would smile when they saw us and I felt like the fucking king of the club. I didn't close, but that wasn't the point of my night, the point was I had a great fucking time and that energy infected everyone around me and for me, that's awesome.
tl;dr: THIS SHIT WORKS
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