To start off let me fill you in on my situation. I'm a 21 year old college student who is in a fraternity on campus. My college has a pretty low male/female ratio(about twice as many guys as girls) so it can be tough to pick up sometimes. But enough smalltalk, let's get to the good stuff

Day 1: It's Wednesday night which means it's movie night for me and my friends. One of my friends has been wanting to set me up with a friend of hers for awhile now and movie night seemed like the best place for us to meet so she came over. I was expecting an HB5 or 6 since those are the girls that other girls usually try to set other people up but that is not what I got. What walked in to my room that night was a stunning HB8. Long blond hair, perfect body, adorable face, and an infectious laugh. I gave a subtle nod to my friend and she winked back.

Since the mini-party was in my room tonight I had instant social proof. I was telling people where to sit, leading the discussion for which movie to watch and generally just commanding the room. I could see her eyes following me as I walked around the room so I knew I was doing well so far.

The movie starts and I sit down next to her. Wednesday movie night usually involves large amounts of alcohol but I didn't think I would be top of my game if i were trashed so I was content to just get a bit tipsy. HB8 was drinking, too but not enough to get drunk. There is some light kino during the movie but nothing too intense(mistake? yes. But it all worked out in the end). The movie ends and we are looking for something to do. I'm in a fraternity in college so it's not long before the beer pong table is set up and teams are made.

Naturally I am on a team with HB8 which give great opportunities for kino(high fives, hugs, arms around waist, etc). By now things are really starting to heat up between us. I can tell she is interested so now it's all about isolation. I get her number by inviting her to our date night the next night and she is positivity beaming when I ask her. We end up losing beer pong but we both decided it was for the best because we were in the mood for something else.

I ask her if she wants to go on an "adventure". She says "I love adventures! where are we going?!" To which I say "Adventures aren't about where you go, but how you get there"(although I knew exactly where we were going and it's very important :) ) She gives me a mischievous little grin and we are off.

We walk around for awhile and I eventually lead us to the baseball field. I convince her to sneak under the fence with me so we can go explore. She resists a little bit but she gives in. Once inside things escalate even more. She grabs my hand because she is scared we are going to get caught so we are getting very very close. We walk around the stadium for awhile until we reach my final destination.

Next to the baseball field is the practice field for the football team. There is also an observation tower that overlooks not only the practice field, but the entire city/campus. Super romantic spot, trust me. We get up there and less than a minute later we are making out. We eventually stop and I say "I've always wanted to hook up here ever since I discovered it" She says "Really?, I've always wanted to hook up in [building]". SO the rest of the night turns into a marathon around campus with us hooking up in every building we can get into. I didn't f-close because at one point she said "I've always wanted to fuck on 50-yard line in the stadium but I don't have sex with guys I've only known for a day". So I said "Well tomorrow will be day 2, you up for another adventure?" "Yes" she says "definitely".

So that ends Day 1. I thought things went better than expected and I pretty much had a guaranteed f-close for the next day(date night).

Day 2:

Date night has arrived. HB8 shows up looking even better than before. She compliments me on my shirt and says she is really excited about tonight. We have a couple of drinks in my room and I'm starting to get pretty tipsy. I'm ok with drinking a bit more tonight since I did most of the work the previous night. Plus, she was planning on drinking just as much as me so I didn't think it would be a big deal.

On our way to the drive-in movie(the theme for our date night) we get word that the place is closed tonight. Oh well, we have plenty to drink back at the house, this isn't an issue. So we go back to the house and get back to the drinking. This is where the trouble starts....

I've always been able to handle being drunk. I rarely get out of control and I can tell when I've had enough. But tonight was different. I had never experienced a drunk like this before. It started off with me being super anti-social. I was playing beer pong with HB8 and barely said a word to her and was really standoffish. This eventually turned into me being a complete asshole to her for the rest of the night.

I was yelling at her when she would change the song that I had put on, I was insulting her constantly, I was even told that I kicked her out of my room at one point. Needless to say there were no adventures for me that night.

I sent her a text apologizing for the previous night and she said it was fine but I knew it wasn't. the flirting in her texts was gone and I started getting one and two word responses. Eventually they stopped.

So that's it, guys. I hope you got something from this. I've learned never to drink and game. It can help you in some situations but it can really fuck you over if you aren't careful. I hope this didn't sound too much like a rant but I was so frustrated over what happened that I needed to share it with you guys.