| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | What are some unique ways to ask a girl to be your girlfriend?There's a lot of shitty replies here, I would suggest you go to r/relationship_advice where the water is warmer. | /r/seduction | 14/02/11 07:03 PM |
| 3 | How to take a joke? How to let an insult roll of your back?If its mean-spirited, most people will pick up on it. You can go one of two routes: 1) Smile with your eyes/mouth but don't laugh. The notable silence after the joke will register, but you'll still be seen as taking it lightly "with a smile" while he seems like an asshole 2) Hit back below the belt, as if you two were really good friends who fuck with each other all the time. This saves both your faces, but you need to be quick and witty | /r/seduction | 06/02/11 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Update, and where to go from here?Im in an extremely similar situation as the OP. How do I go about following, I was thinking about a text: "Whats up? You seem distant lately" | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Sexy side-jobs - what else besides bartender?welcome to the internet | /r/seduction | 12/11/10 08:49 PM |
| 0 | Sexy side-jobs - what else besides bartender?High school gym teacher | /r/seduction | 10/11/10 02:04 AM |
| 8 | Dealing with a flakeNah, don't respond. But next time don't unfriend either. It makes you look petty, and shuts the door on a possibility. | /r/seduction | 09/11/10 07:32 PM |
| 0 | "sister sleeping over" shit test?I was thinking that by saying "ok, np" id be implying "oh, sex is not an option? yeah lets cancel" | /r/seduction | 09/11/10 03:14 PM |
| 1 | "sister sleeping over" shit test?I was just using it to keep her warm, because I canceled a bar outing with her Thursday and didn't want to schedule a weekend date. Just to clarify, On Thursday we had coffee but she had to get dinner with someone else. I suggested we grab a drink later, but bailed. | /r/seduction | 08/11/10 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, I have an idea to bring some good fresh content to r/seductionProposed guru criteria: Median rating of number closes the past year Median rating of f-closes in the last year Median number of different girls f-closed per month in the last year Still depends on the honor system, but at least its an objective honor system. | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 05:25 PM |
| 1 | I could use some motivation and advice...SHOW HER WHAT SHES MISSED Be confident, cool, and uninterested. She's already wondered in a moment of solitude if passing on you was a mistake. You already have a good connection and attraction, just be yourself. If she was attracted to you as an AFC, she'll be extremely attracted to you as a cool, confident, ex-AFC. Of course, I'm assuming she's already on track to breaking up with her bf and you don't need to do much work. | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Without ruining the friendship circle...In the likely event that she does not explicitly express feelings for you, there's not much you can do without any risk. Run game on her, and your friends will notice a change in the dynamic. Send her flirty texts, and she'll undoubtedly share. So you really do need to make a choice, are you willing to take the risk? To be honest, I think you should play it the way you are until she comes to you (under the understanding that she probably won't). | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Trying to restart communication...advice needed.I had success with this in the past: "Hey, been staying out of trouble?" though in different circumstances (got her number at a bar) | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 04:19 AM |
| 6 | Update: So...why did she flake?If it works, it works. Don't overt hink it. But I wouldn't have called her out on the flaking that long after she flaked. It makes it seems like it affected you deeply, as if you have been waiting for her to contact you again for a while. If you joked about it right afterward, itd be okay. | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Leading in group venue changesIMHO: You don't need to be the alpha of the entire group. Find the guys/girls on the side and be the alpha of that group. | /r/seduction | 24/10/10 01:04 AM |
| 3 | Moved home to save money until I finish schoolIf you can get a k-close, then just say "we shouldn't be doing this here... I'll take you back to your place" | /r/seduction | 24/10/10 12:55 AM |
| 5 | For the beginners out there, here's an ideaAt the very least, you'll make her day. At the very MOST, you'll make her day | /r/seduction | 23/10/10 09:13 PM |
| 1 | The Game, The Movie. What do we think of this?I don't like that at all. My biggest head-fuck while gaming is they know that I spend a lot of time reading and practicing techniques. When this comes out, that fear will grow. | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 04:12 AM |
| 1 | How old are you, and what age range are the women you are going after?I feel like a baby compared to these replies. I'm 19. | /r/seduction | 20/10/10 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Talking to girls at the gym. My experience. What could I have done better?He didn't say he stared at her, he said they made eye contact | /r/seduction | 18/10/10 05:38 PM |
| 25 | Do you have friends holding you back?I have quite a few friends who are AFCs like me, but they seem quite content to stay that way. They act really condescendingly, and seem happy to see me fail. I just stopped telling them about my gaming all together. Let em be who they want, I'll be who I want. | /r/seduction | 18/10/10 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Help me experienced PUA, I played the game. Now I'm burnt by the game.The game got you here, don't expect it to get you out. There's an answer for you somewhere, but you'd be a fool to take advice you got in the subreddit. Best of luck to you | /r/seduction | 18/10/10 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Sedditor's in North Jersey?If either are you are there over summer, pm me. I'll be workin in NYC. right now i'm in south jersey. | /r/seduction | 18/10/10 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Can this be fixedDidn't remember I had her number in my phone till I saw a text convo from that night | /r/seduction | 18/10/10 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Can this be fixedI can't tell if you're trolling or being sarcastic | /r/seduction | 18/10/10 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Hey r/seduction. Cute girl sitting diagonal across from me at a study table in the library. What do?lol, I was thinking to myself "Wait, have I been doing it wrong this whole time???" | /r/seduction | 16/10/10 04:09 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Met a cute redhead on Saturday, Bonus: She's a RedditorHave you married her yet? | /r/seduction | 11/10/10 01:47 PM |
| 2 | I accidentally seduced a girl I have no real interest inThats what I was thinking too, lol. ps nice username | /r/seduction | 11/10/10 01:43 PM |
| 6 | Thank you Seddit! [My FR]huzzah! | /r/seduction | 09/10/10 01:39 AM |
| 2 | I actually like the weird and complicated routines like the cube where you interpret sceneries, rather than cold read, which I find boring. Where can I find more stuff like the cube?There is nothing like the Allspark. Nothing. | /r/seduction | 08/10/10 01:25 AM |
| 2 | What random openers have you used lately?/mini FRAnd you can use it anywhere in the Fort Collins, CO area! | /r/seduction | 06/10/10 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Getting nowhere... getting depressedThanks, very well put | /r/seduction | 05/10/10 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Getting nowhere... getting depressedHow often do you get laid? | /r/seduction | 05/10/10 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Will girls consider not having a Facebook page a red flag?I like that. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 03/10/10 02:57 PM |
| 26 | Really hot chick, just called me 12:43am, saying she wants me....Well, I would suggest you fuck her | /r/seduction | 03/10/10 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Need advice! (themes: club girl, college game and calling back)Must be an American expression. In this context: those guys = guys who try to have sex with other people's girlfriends | /r/seduction | 02/10/10 06:18 AM |
| 4 | Need advice! (themes: club girl, college game and calling back)don't do it bro, don't be one of those guys. With great power comes great responsibility | /r/seduction | 01/10/10 05:25 PM |
| 1 | What now?This is my first impression too | /r/seduction | 01/10/10 12:52 PM |
| 2 | I finally got some perspective on how ugly desperation is...I do feel bad, but not sure what else I would have done. And I worked in Kino before I lost interest (I wouldn't of worked in in afterwords). It was either trade numbers and have her wait for a call I didn't want to give, or just let it end there. | /r/seduction | 01/10/10 12:41 AM |
| 4 | RooshV paints a bleak picture of the future of Gamerooshv is a sexist idiot. The main factors driving the change is feminism and the uglification of the species Does he really think game would work in the pre-feminism culture, in which women get married before they were 25, and birth control was illegal? Tools like this give the PUAC a bad name. | /r/seduction | 30/09/10 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Will girls consider not having a Facebook page a red flag?Ha, the rebel line cracked me up cause in high school I used to make fun of a friend all the time for not having a facebook, by calling him "such a rebel" | /r/seduction | 30/09/10 02:00 PM |
| 1 | HB 8 flakes on me, what do I doHBs don't do work... /sarcasm | /r/seduction | 30/09/10 02:33 AM |
| 2 | What now?Ah thanks, I had a feeling I messed this up too far already, but I'll give it a college try. I edited the OP to link to the FR About the text tomorrow, how should I play off the fact that I already texted her "Is this X" without a reply? Won't it be wierd if the next text is flirty/interesting without establishing that I am, actually talking to her. | /r/seduction | 30/09/10 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Awesome Dating Quiz Breaks Down Your Sticking Points. Try it!I refuse to give my email for a survey on principal | /r/seduction | 30/09/10 02:06 AM |
| 2 | how to get a girl you knew from high school?Well I don't know how to initiate a convo other than bumping into her, but 1) Never mention HS unless she brings it up first (you're so far above it, itd be like talking about elementary school on a job interview) 2) If the convo segues to high school, say that its sad that a lot of kids from there never branched out after graduating. 3) If HS comes up, bring up how little she's changed (frame it politely) -Amateur's advice | /r/seduction | 29/09/10 07:31 PM |
| 0 | Reddit v 4 Asian girlsFair enough. But Reddit is entertainment all period, they only are for 10 min before/after class. Next time, I'll charge up first. | /r/seduction | 29/09/10 07:23 PM |
| 0 | Reddit v 4 Asian girlsI also have an intimate knowledge of people I never met. We should make a club. | /r/seduction | 29/09/10 07:22 PM |
| 2 | This is /r/seduction, not /r/confidence...Yeah, but I'm bad with ms paint. | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 07:48 PM |
| 1 | This is /r/seduction, not /r/confidence...Most people don't need psychologists, they need the truth. | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 07:48 PM |
| -1 | This is /r/seduction, not /r/confidence...Done. | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 07:40 PM |
| 13 | Top PUA Gurus embarrass themselves on live TV | Are you paying money or learning stuff from these guys?What I would have started with: "You know, most girls bring friends instead of a camera crew when they go out" | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Top PUA Gurus embarrass themselves on live TV | Are you paying money or learning stuff from these guys?They didn't need to show they could pick her up, only approach and gain interest in a non-creepy confident way. | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 07:04 PM |
| 0 | Top PUA Gurus embarrass themselves on live TV | Are you paying money or learning stuff from these guys?As to them not being top PUAs, you're probably right. I don't follow enough to know. But come on, there was nothing genuine about most of those guys. They seemed to be spouting off lines, canned openers. They actually had an advantage, cause they already knew a little about her and the show (as opposed to most cold approaches). | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Top PUA Gurus embarrass themselves on live TV | Are you paying money or learning stuff from these guys?bait and switch? | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Top PUA Gurus embarrass themselves on live TV | Are you paying money or learning stuff from these guys?That was sad | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 05:38 PM |
| 3 | How do I pick up a girl on a train?Amateur's advice: I find that feeling in your element is important, and that should be the main priority. Talk to people in the train, men/women, with absolutely no intention of closing. Ask about stuff you already know if need be, ie "How do I get to X", "Do you get cell service down here" etc. My spot is a coffee shop, and before I got the nerve to talk to girls there I would just ask people which pastries were good, if they got wifi, etc. Until when I walked in that coffee shop one day, I fel… | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 05:14 PM |
| 6 | Girls in college classesSit next to the left of the target You: Is there a quiz today? Her: No... You: Oh, my bad. You looked kinda worried about something. Say it confidently and you should at least get a chuckle. From that point just segue into about how you never know whats going on, or upcoming projects, etc. | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 03:28 PM |
| 1 | how to get a girl you knew from high school?Lol, saw that ep yesterday. Pretty gross | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 09:13 PM |
| 2 | [FR] All Night Party (long story)Well, I enjoy them | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 08:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Don't drink and gameDamnn, I'm sorry dude. | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 08:11 PM |
| 1 | how to get a girl you knew from high school?What access do you have with her right now? Ie, are in college together? | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Kiss-fail recovery?The first thing that pops into my head is that you're not putting enough kino in before. The jump from talking to kissing is a big one. Take a few steps with hand touching, palm reading, knuckle cracking etc. PS, new to this. Take what I say with lots of salt. | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 07:07 PM |
| 5 | "I like your shoes", response?I like this one. In the same vein: Thanks, my mom rarely lets me borrow her shoes. | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 07:03 PM |
| 2 | how do i find 'the zone'Seems like you're a lot like me. I have some deep-seeded paranoia which makes it hard to enjoy myself around people. But when I am completely comfortable with 1 person in a large group, it all goes away and I feel alpha. My guess is that its a person (or lack of person) that brings out your true stripes, so stick with them and keep on good terms as much as possible. | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Sedditor LocatorIm in the New Brunswick area... | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Any 18-20 year old GWU students (Wash DC) need a wingman?Try the seddit locator | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Kiss-fail recovery?How did you initiate? | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Gentlemen, I present to you Seddit's Weekly Challenge #1also, is there more to this routine than the obvious? | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 06:25 AM |
| 1 | DAE Hate having to qualify yourself for jobs apps + interviews?The mark of an MPUA: Walk in with a resume, walk out with a date | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Blew an f-close because I negged the obstacle too hard.Push-pull? | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 06:08 AM |
| 1 | [FR 1] Did I fuck up?So, don't contact her at all till she initiates? Basically... declare it dead? | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Sticking pointsThis was all over the last couple of weeks? Well, Kudos to you for keeping at it. Just to clarify, are you literally asking girls "What did I do to make you not attracted to me?" If you are... stop it. Attraction isn't logical so you won't get a logical answer. Even if she finds a logical answer, she probably wouldn't tell it to you. And asking it just makes you sound pathetic. PS I'm just getting started so this is based more on hearsay and thought experiments than personal experience. But seri… | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 10:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR 1] Did I fuck up?Would a girl really view "running errands" as a commitment? | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 10:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR 1] Did I fuck up?Any suggested text openers for the future? | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 09:59 PM |
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