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Her: You're very demanding! I think I would have stopped right there, assumed it was on, and then started work on another girl..
/r/seduction22/10/10 12:47 PM
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DO TAKE two steps forward and one back with everything you do http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xweiQukBM_k Word
/r/seduction26/08/10 01:19 PM
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On the flip side, I got two lays in college from girls talking to each other and the other person getting curious..
/r/seduction26/08/10 01:16 PM
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Whereabouts are you based? There's a bunch of us Londoners doing our thing..
/r/seduction26/08/10 01:14 PM
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or sister, or cousin Me gusta
/r/seduction15/07/10 07:40 PM
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What you encountered is called Last Minute Resistance (google it). What happened has nothing to do with bras; learning how to fluently take off 10 different types of underwear will not help you next time, however fun that might be. You mentioned that this was "the nail in the coffin" - what were the other events? What is the context here?
/r/seduction15/07/10 02:52 PM
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Sounds like a beta test. I've been in similar situations where she started talking about sex and was clearly watching me for signs of jealously or insecurity. I've usually treated this by shrugging it off but that seemed to result in her inferring one of those emotions anyway. So I think your basic approach is good but I would prepare yourself a little for conversations like this as most guys find it difficult talking about banging girls to other girls, particularly in a way that isn't really gu…
/r/seduction14/07/10 12:52 PM
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Yeah, use the fact that you know each other to get the number quickly and arrange to meet up.
/r/seduction14/07/10 12:43 PM
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I will talk about it in very vague terms with my work friends, but I have a bunch of "game" friends and a privatish blog I can rant/boast on. Style mentions something in a video where he says that your existing friends will be a downfall for a lot of guys attempting to improve their game.
/r/seduction14/07/10 12:42 PM
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Nice try, reddit community!
/r/seduction14/07/10 09:17 AM
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dude, come on.
/r/seduction14/07/10 09:14 AM
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Just the one? :)
/r/seduction14/07/10 09:14 AM
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Hey, if it goes bad he can write a sit-com episode out of it.
/r/seduction12/07/10 01:28 AM
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This. This. This. If she can't say "yes" and you can't ask her out loud and to her face, then you are almost certainly not emotionally ready for it. In a year from now, you're going to remember actually having the three-some, not some porn-like segue you think you needed.
/r/seduction12/07/10 01:23 AM
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I'm not deaf but have minor problems hearing speech. Of course, how much of a big deal it is depends on the person you are talking to, but you can get your answer by observing guys "pecking" at girls and seeing how bad it looks.
/r/seduction12/07/10 01:15 AM
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Try writing a journal, maybe completely private, but certainly don't show your workers/family/friends and explore your underlying issues. It's can be very cathartic.
/r/seduction11/07/10 10:24 PM
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Great job! Very inspiring. I did notice something I disagreed with though. You said "this shit works." No, YOU work! :) Thanks :) Are you British? I didn't recognize the term "tube" but I figured it out. Yep, Londoner.
/r/seduction08/07/10 10:35 PM
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Congratulations. :) Be careful with the "cool dancing guy" routine; it's easy for someone to come across as "the entertainer" which I guess wouldn't really lend itself to closing. There's a bit on Mystery's show where he rips into someone for doing breakdancing, for example. But congrats again.
/r/seduction08/07/10 10:33 PM
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she saw me with one once and was quick to ask if I was dating her, i said no You should have evaded the question. :] "Why do you care?" Don't back down. With that said i've invited another girl to hang out with us on Sunday without telling her, and a few of my friends will also be there so we'll see how that goes. Epic :) Let us know how that goes.
/r/seduction08/07/10 03:00 PM
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Thanks :) I cribbed those lines from his VH1 show.
/r/seduction08/07/10 02:42 PM
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Everything I have said so far has been way too harsh; don't read into that. This will teach me to reddit during work. may attempt this just to see if I could do it, what would you advise me to try? Not sure, but as you have to change your behaviour towards her in a big way, I would introduce some radio silence so thats less incongruent. This will also give you time to think and for her to miss your company/validation/whatever, so it's a bonus too. I would probably then confront her about using y…
/r/seduction08/07/10 02:38 PM
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Fair enough, there was a bit of hyperbole involved, but yes. Was trying to comment too quickly :) 1+2 are classic beta behaviour. Ideally you would not have that conversation in the first place. Just change the subject when she starts talking about it. This is covered better in LJBF-related posts. 3 is unattractive because you seem overly invested in the relationship and it looks very needy. There is nothing wrong with being invested in a relationship, but the point is that you came across as be…
/r/seduction08/07/10 02:17 PM
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I invited this same girl to a special event at the science museum last weekend. I told her (in a playful way), "Listen, this place is great, and you're coming with me. If you don't like science, you can go fuck yourself." I had never, eeeeever said anything like that to a girl before. I almost choked on those words. Turns out she likes science. This is awesome.
/r/seduction08/07/10 02:05 PM
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Cut her out of your life already. The relationship is clearly not mutually beneficial and she is now just abusing your naivety for validation (getting you to come to her work and not seeing you any other time, etc). You could potentially turn this all around, but I would highly recommend not doing this as would have a mammoth task ahead of you which (with all respect) you are not really ready to achieve and the failure would hit you back to zero. So text her right now and say you can't meet up a…
/r/seduction08/07/10 01:54 PM
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I think http://krauserpua.com/2010/06/09/pole-dancer-day-2/ is a good example of analysis.
/r/seduction05/07/10 12:33 PM
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Good timing re. football. :)
/r/seduction27/06/10 10:45 AM
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Totally. I wrote that quickly and didn't have time to round off the corners.
/r/seduction22/06/10 10:32 PM
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Haters gonna hate.
/r/seduction22/06/10 03:50 PM
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I think black Lacoste polo shirts are amazing btw How come ooi?
/r/seduction22/06/10 12:11 AM
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You've almost totally sabotaged yourself by looking up all that stuff about her, putting her up on a nice pedestal which will make you come across very beta when you meet. My advice: When you talk to her, forget all of that stuff. You didn't try and look up that movie she was in. You can't remember every detail about what she does. Don't slouch, but lean back whenever possible. If she can't hear you, don't lean in - speak louder. Don't text her until tomorrow. She must qualify herself to you, no…
/r/seduction21/06/10 06:54 PM
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"Be yourself" is a platitude not recognised as constructive by the majority of PUA. Style recommends that "you should be your best self".
/r/seduction21/06/10 06:48 PM
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Indicator Of Disinterest - In most theories, what you should be throwing her way. A neg is a form of IOD. Indicator Of Interest - What you should be getting from her. Stuff like she's playing with her hair is the most obvious one, but the vast majority are much more subtle. IOIs can be used as cue to change your approach as it means you have built initial attraction, but this depends on your game.
/r/seduction21/06/10 09:52 AM
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Magnets are made of metal which is mined from the ground. They are magnetic because the metal still contains pieces of gravity inside it.
/r/seduction21/06/10 09:28 AM
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Anyway, the girl I'm after Woah, stop right there. Google "oneitis". Not properly absorbing this message will mean that the advice here will simply not work for you; not having oneitis (or avoiding paths that lead to it) is a pretty big part of the culture of seddit and the seduction community at large, and almost all advice is offered in that context. This is not meant to be a personal attack or a tribal defense of seddit, just a heads-up that you may be barking up the wrong tree. tl;dr Your qu…
/r/seduction21/06/10 09:24 AM
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Thanks for another great comment. I think you have my mobile number. Text me, I will be up for doing this with you tomorrow lunchtime / afternoon The thought of hitting on daughters on Father's Day tickles me :) Will text.
/r/seduction19/06/10 04:40 PM
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Women 36 and older are the dateable ones? That's where I have been going wrong.
/r/seduction19/06/10 04:25 PM
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Pasta and cheese is where it's at bro.
/r/seduction17/06/10 07:13 AM
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One man's risk is another's social proof.
/r/seduction16/06/10 11:39 PM
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Loved the host's put-downs :)
/r/seduction16/06/10 07:01 PM
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you can basicaly open hundreds of sets and use the most popular material before getting out once Can you rephrase/fix? :)
/r/seduction16/06/10 01:50 PM
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Oh god why did I just google that.
/r/seduction16/06/10 12:02 AM
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I'm confused. Not having one-itus over this girl is a reason to not expand your social circle/stay in contact with a girl that is interested in you? Oh... not at all, I just wanted to be clear. Thanks :)
/r/seduction15/06/10 08:41 PM
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Don't be an ignorant bum, thank her: "How nice of you to say that, you are a very sweet person:)". Makes her feel good to have complimented you:) Don't start playing modest and fending it off "oh no, I'm not, no-no-no". But neither should you ungratefully and self-servingly declare "That's right, you noticed, finally, good!". No. Just make her feel good having complimented you:) See "David Shade's online seduction" for an example of putting it to good use. Source
/r/seduction15/06/10 03:11 PM
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As long as the gossip isn't along the lines of calling you creepy, then it is 100% good Perhaps not 100% I've seen it go bad where the (male) management gets jealous and starts being a dick.
/r/seduction13/06/10 05:51 PM
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Thanks for your comments.
/r/seduction13/06/10 12:46 PM
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Thank you for your comments.
/r/seduction13/06/10 12:46 PM
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evolutionary psychology Please less of evolutionary psychology. "Early man did X because Y therefore Z" arguments are either complete pseudoscience or completely misinterpreted from their actual scientific basis.
/r/seduction12/06/10 11:37 PM
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