Can i get some advice for my first approach i plan on doing it within a week or so when i'll have time to go out but all the information im finding is kind of Over whelming like when to push when to pull how to build rapport and break it i dont even know what a rapport mean to be honest should i open with something on the spot or memorize a couple of openers then just say them should i stop investing at all when i reach the hook point and when she ask me stuff and start investing how im supposed to respond without investing more then her. ill appreciate all the help from you guys.