Advices to stop thinking about oneitis

TofuTofu · 2011-03-05T10:31:26+00:00

I read that whenever you cant stop thinking about a girl, you should imagine her masturbating while moaning your name

No. Whoever wrote that was wrong, lol.

I think a healthier frame to keep is just "I'm awesome and I am out to have fun." Then you'll feel less pressure and relax a bit :)

altorx · 2011-03-05T14:16:48+00:00

Ok I'm new to PUA but I can tell you my experience about getting over a girl which looking back was pretty clear-cut oneitis. You have to next her. http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/next/ There are lots of girls and you're probably too far down the friends zone to have any real chance. Next her.

(1) avoid contact. this alone given enough time, combined with doing other things will cure it. (2) when you think about your oneitis, start writing it down. Either in a notebook or txt document. If there's a clear lesson about what you should do, write that as well. Then try to stop thinking about it and remind yourself that it's recorded. (3) if you're artsy I found it helpful to dive into that, like drawing, I know that probably sounds odd but I find when your mind is like this your art is suddenly way better and you can channel some of your feelings in there. You will find yourself over time thinking about her less and less, and that's good, there are lots of girls and you'll find more and can start with a fresh frame.

RyanThunder · 2011-03-05T15:43:09+00:00

Ok, oneitis is something i used to have and the way i got over it goes a bit against seddits advice usually. What i did was try to escalate with her (it was a friend) and then she straight up started questioning me about it.

Told her i had feelings for her, got rejected and knew where i stood. Still great friends but mentally nexted her and set frame by telling myself 'wow she has no idea what she is missing out on... Her loss!'

Pinchot566 · 2011-03-05T21:09:00+00:00

Try EFT (this page is selling the DVD but you don't have to buy it, it pretty much tells you what to do). It worked for me: http://eft.mercola.com/

Title	Advices to stop thinking about oneitis
Author	ngocvanlam
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	March 5, 2011 9:55 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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