I find that after getting a number on tinder and arranging a date the women flake a lot. Inevitably it’s like a week before we can actually meet up. The texting/chat is intense on the night we connect on tinder but it cools in the meantime. I’d be very grateful if someone could suggest/post a solution to this.

Thanks.

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The hump: That is a core problem - I also had it in pre covid days when my text game was weaker. I have a different girls name in my diary until Sunday. Ms Tuesday just ghosted and Wednesday and Saturday are starting to take a long ass time to reply. But any dates I make tonight will be next week by which time THEY will get cold.

I should just double book, right?

PS: Yes, I try to schedule dates asap.

PPS: Yes I know that if I had better profile/text game they’d be more invested and show up. They’d also show up if I was Tom Cruise. I’m hoping for actionable suggestions.