I don’t want to sound dramatic, and I want to keep it short. I feel like I have lost my passion for pickups and relationships. Recently I have had a few really good runs. I don’t want to make it sounds like binges, but a better way of saying it is I have had some great matches back to back. A couple of them pretty much my wet dream with a great personality. With every single one of them I lost interest too quickly, ran out of things to talk about, broke consistency, and sent off a really bad vibe by going from “super interested, sweet, and fun” to “repetitive, unavailable, and short.”

None of it was against them at all. Nothing distracted me from them, and every time I had been having a great experience that could’ve gone much farther. I just lost not interest in them but the energy between us. I tried taking a break, worked a little bit. Reading some books to stir up my imagination. Didn’t help.

What’s your advice? How do I get my energy back? I crave the passion and experience from all of it. How do I get it back? Anything you do to help this work?