Okay, so long story short recently I have taken the time to do self work. I have been exercising and practicing relationships and “seduction”. I feel pretty good about myself, and have the time and money to pursue girls.

It’s amazing what self confidence and a little bit of exercise can do. I have ran into someone I am interested in, and I am 90% sure she is interested in me as well. She sure does turn red and giggle when I joke and flirt with her. Regardless of how stupid the joke is. Recently she asked if I’d come see her while she is at work at a place I like to eat (she works at a store near my house and a restaurant downtown).

I’d rather not blow this one. At the very least I think she is a cool person and I’d like her to be a friend. I’m stumped, at writers block. I don’t feel like it would be a good idea to bust up in there and ask her for her number while she is at work. What I was thinking of doing is leaving her a big tip, disappear for a week or so, and make myself regularly seen as much as I can without seeming persistent.

Does this sound like a good plan? Pretty much, what I would be doing is making it obvious I am interested without telling her, and after taking some time away, when I come back I would gauge whether her attitude towards me has changed for better or worse. Endgame would be asking for her number and taking her out to get a drink or something of that sort.

Can anyone share with me their experiences doing things like this? And where things were successful or failed, and why?

Thank you!