I did some reading in this sub Reddit and i can't help but notice many are trying to be the same alpha manly social robot.

Many users here may be in the 20s. I think I'm older than most here and suggest you guys to look into your own cognitive functions, how your process information, input output response etc in relation to the "external" world.

The reason for me not caring about a girls bad response can be vastly different from yours, and from another person's. And although i am emotionally unfazed, I'd like to contemplate on where possibly went wrong and was it my fault. So i could fine tune or upgrade the firmware so to speak. From a good intentions suggestion from a wing years ago, he told me to not to think about it and just move on. "Not to think about it" is stupidity to me, it's painful to repeat a same silly mistake.