I was on a first date with a girl. we get back to her place chilling and drinking. We get to her bed watch a movie and cuddling where we were spooning each other. Everything was going good until I start making the moves. What I did was while we were spooning I had my arms wrapped around her then I start putting my hand under her shirt, then to feeling breast, then to stomach, then hand in her waist band then to fingering her. Her body response was not resistant at all but also not progressing/getting excited. I decided to stop then she turned facing me where our face was close to one another and I decide to go for the kiss which she pulled away. Felt a bit dejected and I stopped doing anything after that.

A bit later she goes thats as far as I am willing to go and that was that. She mentions she has to sleep now and I left without sealing the deal.

I am trying to think how I could have done better given the situation. I would have liked to gone for the kiss first but we were spooning which made it hard. Thinking back I think I should have went for the neck kisses see how she responds and go to what I was doing before I might have better luck. What do you guys think?