To succeed at gaming women, you must also believe that game works and your actions matter. Many men fall into the lazy mindset of thinking that women only care about looks, money, and status, and if you do not have those things there is no use in learning game. These guys use the “game doesn’t work” mindset as a justification to not take action and instead stew in bitter resentment about how terrible women are and how unfair the world is that they were not born a six foot tall billionaire. When presented with evidence that game does work, these guys reject the evidence or insist it is “fake” because they do not want to accept that their failures with women are mostly their own fault.

It is kind of understandable that so many men fall into this self-defeating mindset. It is true that tall, rich, good-looking guys have an unfair advantage and sometimes get laid with terrible game. But the real reason these guys insist that game does not work is because they are afraid of rejection. Rejection is extremely painful, and humans evolved to see rejection as an indication from the tribe that you did something fundamentally wrong and are fundamentally defective. Therefore, when women reject these men it reaches to the bottom of their soul and makes them think they are a completely unattractive, unredeemable person that nobody can ever love, when in reality they just made a small mistake or two they can easily fix.

The truth is this: Looks, money, and status are very important, but so is game. Looks, money, and status can get your foot into the door, but to have any kind of consistent, fun relationship over the long term you need to understand game. And rejection often has nothing to do with you at all – the woman may have had a bad day, her mind may have been on other things, she may be obsessed with her ex, etc… Sometimes she rejects you because you are just not her type, but you are the type of many other women. And even when you do get rejected for something wrong you did, it is usually something very small you can quickly fix. When failing with women (or in anything, really) you should always start with assuming the smallest possible mistake so you do not fall into the trap of feeling that you are completely unattractive and worthless every time you get rejected.

You must believe your hard work will pay off. If you do not think there is a pot of gold at the end of the tunnel you will not be able to stay motivated through the rejections, flakes, and general weirdness you will be experience, some of which will be humiliating and soul crushing. Failure can easily convince a man that game does not work and his time would be better spent jacking off to internet porn.

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