This is the girl from the last post. I got her number on Christmas Eve in the club.

Description: 18y/o, short (154cm to be exact), brunette, HB 7/10.

I had no intention to keep moving forward as I only approach to better my social skills and this girl seemed like a 5/10 on the receptive scale and I thought I would have to put in a lot of work to get her on a date... Or so I thought

She messaged me with : "Merry Christmas" so I decided to pursue her a little, I kept the convo normal and teased her lightly (usually I go for a weird, flirty style of texting that very rarely worked for me), shortly after I suggested we go for a coffee. She agreed!

First date

We grabbed coffee to go and went for a ~3km stroll around the city. It was cold outside and I hate the cold. I knew I had to escalate on the first date and state interest. Very quickly I noticed she is a very reserved girl so I didn't want to be too sexual as she might find that creepy or weird. Eventually after comfort talk she opened up and told me she is pretty shy and doesn't like kissing on the first date. "Cool! I respect that, no problem" I said ( found out girls love a guy that respects boundaries like these and is willing to give the girl space to feel comfort). We hugged and agreed to meet once again.

Second date

I was feeling bold and suggested she comes to my place for our second date. She agreed (😮). Once we got there, we ordered pizza, I turned my little lamp on and turned off the main lights, chill music was on. I sit close to her. I touch her legs, her arms and palms (I know a few things about palm reading). We talked about past relationships for 15-20mins and started kissing. She jumps on me for a very hot make out, I throw her on the bed and she mentions she doesn't want to have sex yet as she has never done it (Now, I was already 90% sure this girl would not want to have sex this fast but I didn't even care about sex). "That's fine, I understand" yet again, respecting her boundaries. I go on talking about how sex is sacred and we feel very vunerable when naked, bla bla... Anyways, I had a good time and she did too.

I think this girl is expecting a relationship out of this, in which case I will just move on as I'm not looking for that now. I must keep approaching.

One thing she told me about my approach that I found interesting : She liked that I approached her directly. She did not like the "what's you sign?" line, that was followed up by a neg after she told me her sign (I turned my eyes around 🙄), she got slightly offended. Wow, I need to keep that in mind next time I approach. Read my last post.

Overally: I'm happy that it took me only three weeks (once per week) of going out to find a cool girl. Just goes to show that I can do things I never even thought of.