I can’t count the number of times a girl seems into me either in person or online dating and I get her number, maybe get her on a date or two and then she just disappears. I’d say besides a couple fwb that I was on and off with, girls that I’m really interested in never go past the second date. It’s very frustrating. In the past I may have come off a little too eager/pushy and that pushed them away but then I act too aloof and that pushes them away because they don’t think I’m into them. Tbh, I’m done with dating. I think I’ll just grind for a year, smash some goals and get super jacked and tan. I’ll see if the results bring more women into my life.