Recently went out with a close group of friends, of which an old crush was a part off. Over the past few days I've been implementing kino escalation and it has honestly worked in my favor. So while we were out, I decided it was time to drop an extra hint or so, of interest.
The crowd at the time included some of her family, and I've not gotten used to expressing my outer game in such situations. However, since I had already worked on escalating, I siezed the opportunity on an "inside thing" we have. Pulled her to the side ever so slightly, pointed out our said "inside thing", and gave her a nice compliment. Kept the tone low, geniune, interested, and bold. Got some slight stutter from her reaction, and gave birth to a small convo. In the end, she received the compliment well. Simply said thank you, and looked away. Pretty sure some of her family heard me, but I no longer want that to hold me back on flowing my game.
I know delivery and environment play a role, so I analyzed before executing. Being confident and genuine was effortlessly. To alleviate any pressure on the matter, I continued to engage with her and her family shortly after, putting focus back on all of us as a group. I knew it was not the best time to go full on with my game, but sprinkles here and there keep interest. Did I play the cards right here?
I know girls are well are of how they look before going out and so a compliment on any aspect of their appearance/character will make them feel noticed/appreciated. Depending on the relationship I have with a girl, I often use it to my advantage. A great deal of me is hoping that she starts to have thoughts or ideas as I continue to escalate. However, her not really saying much after is why I ask. She is an introvert and I know this is one way to react. Regardless, I would like some advice on whether or not the escalation seems to be working?
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